Auntie, is it wrong not to go to Grandpa's house during the Chinese New Year? Auntie: That's right! Niece: Then why did Dad beat me?
A few days ago, I went to a friend's house to play, and I happened to hear this interesting conversation, and the little niece asked incomprehensibly, expressing her endless grievances, and also revealing that the father was very angry with the child's reluctance.
Maybe in the eyes of the child, her father is really an unreasonable person! He didn't make a mistake, so why should he be beaten?
It's just that on some principled issues, it is difficult for us adults to make compromises with our children, just like we don't have to reason in the face of major rights and wrongs. But at this time, how do we talk to our children?
Our hometown is where we grew up
I don't need a reason to go back to my hometown, and there are too many endless reasons to go back to my hometown. That's where we grew up, and there's so much nostalgia there.
Yes, after the New Year, it doesn't seem wrong to go to grandpa's house for children, but the reason why we Chinese are Chinese is that we value family affection more, know more gratitude, and care more about our own origins.
Children don't understand, but adults need to plant a seed of love in their hearts.
Just like every time the flag is raised, the children are always asked to salute and look at each other.
Maybe they didn't understand it when they were young, but when they grow up, they will know that a person's fate is always linked to the fate of their home and country.
The Chinese have roots, and from the day he was born, his roots have taken root there. He sprouts there, he grows there, it is cared for there, he loves and is loved there!
Hometown is the home of the soul
Although we often say: bury bones in the mulberry ground, life is everywhere green mountains, but more often, what we say is: parents are here, not far away, there must be a way to travel, what we say: wealth does not return to the hometown, such as brocade clothes night walking.
Although this kind of thinking is somewhat narrow-minded, it expresses the special feelings of our hometown.
What is there in our hometown, which is worth thinking about for a lifetime.
In the article "Homesickness" that I learned in high school, I wrote: "The song of my hometown is a clear flute, which always sounds on a moonlit night."
And the translator Fu Lei said in a letter to his family: "No matter how far you go, as long as the light at home is on, your heart will feel steady." "
There are indeed too many places in my hometown for us to remember, the playmates who grew up with the neighbors, the girl Xiaofang in the village, the toilet friend when she went to school, the old elm tree in front of the door, the countless fish and shrimp in the river, and the frogs on the ridges, year after year, how are they (them) doing now?
It was necessary to take a look, because that was where he belonged, half of what his life was about.
During the day, the bird flies farther, and at night, it always has to return home.
There are relatives waiting for us in our hometown
The lamb suckled and looked at my mother, and the little rice fed me to grow up. In my hometown, there are relatives who have worked for us all their lives and paid for a lifetime.
With the increase of the rural population, young people usually work outside the home and buy houses, but the old people are relocated to the land, and not many are willing to move to the city with their children.
Because there are also people and things that parents can't let go, the chickens, ducks, geese, cows and sheep there always need someone to take care of, and the vegetable garden there can always grow the freshest green and blue cabbage. The peach and plum branches in front of the door and behind the house also need to be pruned every year.
The parents in my hometown are still alive, which is the greatest blessing in life, they don't want to travel far, but young people have their own world, and now that the Chinese New Year is over, they have to go back to reunite with them.
Because they gave birth to us and gave us the courage to travel. Their selfless love gives us some comfort at every low point in our lives. So as to overcome together and get back on your feet.
Parents are here, there is still a place to come in life, parents go, and there is only a way back in life.
In a big family, only when the elderly are there, this home is lively, everyone goes home together for the New Year, prepares a table full of meals together, sets off fireworks together, celebrates the New Year around the stove together, chats about the past that happened in the past year, and yearns for the beauty of the coming year together.
At this time, there are relatives who can't finish the New Year, but the old man is gone, everyone goes their own way, and the New Year's flavor fades.
The hometown is about love and the best education
In school, we often say that there can be no education without love. Cold knowledge will also be learned clearly in school and on computers, laptops and mobile phones.
But that is not education, in addition to knowledge, education is actually a story written by love and being loved. Teachers educate children and always hope that they will grow up and become talents, and hope that they will learn more and suffer less.
Although there are times when children are disobedient and can't control themselves and are physically punished, the premise is that it is for the good of the children, and they know what is right and wrong, so they can readily accept the anger from the teachers but do not resist.
Every time we go back to our hometown for the Chinese New Year, our children will always be surrounded by love, the love of grandparents, grandparents, aunts, and aunts.
In addition to preparing a large table full of love dishes every day, the New Year's goods piled up in the house also dazzle the children. Eat whatever you want, play whatever you want. You don't have to do your homework every day.
When the children come back, they are the tips of their grandparents' hearts, held in the palms of their hands, and they can't beat or make trouble.
Yellow hair hanging down, happy and happy, such a picture is the greatest happiness in life. It is also the meaning of our adult work struggle.
Over the years, the children have said that grandparents, grandparents, and the old people are basically missing a big red envelope, and when they leave after the New Year, they don't forget to make up a sentence, and they will come back if they have nothing to do!
As for the adults, the car will also be stuffed with things by the old people, such as pork knuckle, bacon, sausages, and spicy seeds. Even the chickens and ducks were taken away by pressing two.
Therefore, the Spring Festival is the busiest time for transportation every year, washing away the dust of work, everyone begins to screw home with large bags and small bags, because everyone has a home, and the tired birds can only return to the nest to rest, so that they can fly high again tomorrow The spirit and physical strength.
Chinese New Year is a unique story of loving and being loved by Chinese. It is the best traditional culture in China, which gives us the courage to repack and start again, and it is also an obstacle for us to survive in the face of difficulties. It is the memory of our life.
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