What kind of object will be full of people when they take it home?
"Husband feeling" is certainly the most recent standard answer. One is that many characters who have been evaluated as "husbands" have recently been said to be charming:
▲ The white guest is said to be the "January husband"
▲ The characters in Lei Jiayin's new film are also said to have a sense of husbandry, including the husbands of many celebrities, and they are also exclaimed:
▲ The figure is not red, and the red people are not red
▲ Chen Jingke, who has an unfamiliar face but is excited, In fact, although the word "husband sense" has only become popular recently, in fact, this type has been suitable for all ages for a long time. Like Lei Jiayin, who played a cheating scumbag like Chen Junsheng before, he can be sympathized, in fact, because his temperament has a sense of husband:
▲ Chen Junsheng is rarely understood
▲The first generation of husband sense: Tong Dawei and Bai Ke have grown from Wang Da Hammer to "the first beta of domestic entertainment" and "husband sense ceiling" in a corner that everyone doesn't know:
▲ Wang Dazhui vs Bai's husband can be said to have a "sense of husband", which is almost an offline male charm password - not only the other half recognizes, but the whole family recognizes.
▲ Online PO, some boyfriends take home parents like it very much (source @ Yimao Chestnut, Shanghai Piao Girl Lingzhi)
▲Some parents are very dissatisfied (source @Fanshu) The question is: What is the "sense of husband", what is the main point? Why is it so charming? How to enhance the "sense of husband" and make the object have a higher pass rate with the family? I am Jane, I like to dismantle all the "underlying logic" of becoming beautiful, wise, and happy, and I am a "teaching people to fish" type dry goods blogger who has been recognized by millions of people in 7 years. Listen to me talk to you today, and the first issue will be broken and crumpled to make it clear~ Make sure you have a new perspective after reading it!01 Husband sense
What is it?
As the name suggests, "husband feeling" actually refers to giving people the feeling of being a good husband and a good husband. Some people will give a strong sense of husbandry, even though they are not married:
▲ Sou Renfu, seven of the top ten of Station B are all white customers, which is his ruling area
▲ Huang Xuan also has a place, and some people are very husband because of the role or scene: for example, the usual Zhu Yilong feels very beautiful man, but when he stares at his wife, he has a strong sense of husband:
▲Normal state
▲ Wei Daxun, who is in an ordinary state with a sense of husband, is either a funny man or a boss:
▲ This boss can also make shrimp dumplings, so he doesn't fool people with white porridge, but when he teases the baby, he has a strong sense of husbandry:
▲ Xu Guanghan has always looked like a high-quality partner, but he usually feels more like a boyfriend and a man:
▲Because I look too young but buy vegetables before, I am also considered to be more human:
▲What are you going to do for me? Bai Yu usually feels handsome and handsome, and it's also quite fashionable:
▲ I don't particularly feel a sense of husband, but the role of the eldest brother in "Children of the Qiao Family" is also said to be very husband:
▲ It's so suitable for living a good life, speaking of which, you will find that the "sense of man" is not only related to me, but also the situation is also very important, which can be said to be the joint force of "the right time, the right place and the right people". In essence, the "sense of husband" actually represents the various expectations of our generation of women for the "ideal husband": at work, they don't expect the other party to be an industry elite, but they have a sense of responsibility and certain achievements, and it is best to be stable:
▲ Li Xiang, the boyfriend in the system, wears a uniform, and has a full sense of security
▲ Bai Ke seems to be a small leader, middle and high-level, but he is not a big boss
▲Lei Jiayin's character is also a prosecutor who returns home, will do housework to take care of the family, and will also take care of people, which makes people feel homely and caring.
▲The role of the white customer, you open the door for you after work (source @three_waters_)
▲There is also a collection of details of taking care of people, poking at the tip of the girl's heart and cooking is basically a high-incidence area of "husband feeling", if you can cook after work, it will be even more favorable:
▲ Huang Xuan, this is (source@lemon station)
▲Lei Jiayin's skillful posture of holding an apron is also very poked
▲ Xu Banxia's expression in "The Wind Blows Banxia" is the expression of many girls when they watch boys cooking (source @Xiaotian Jane) And if this meal is made with technical content and a weak sense of posing, it can even break the circle directly:
▲ Gao Zhiting's cooking picture that appeared earlier, someone dismantled the main points, with various buffs (source @ Catch Ma Duduqi) Not only that, compared to the bosses, the husbands will be more in love with their brains, with some expectations and loyalty to love, and their willingness to pay for the other half is also stronger:
▲ Zheng Xiju, played by Bai Yu, said this sentence, which pokes at girls very much, which makes them often more equal when they get along with women, pay more attention to each other's feelings, can provide emotional value, and have a good emotional experience.
▲ My wife is sad and wants to hug, not only hug immediately, but also remember to take off the apron and move the chair
▲ The wife is distressed to lie down, and there is the comfort of touching Compared with the invincible man, they also have vulnerable moments, but it is also this kind of moment that makes you feel "closer to them" and have better feelings:
▲ Red dog eyes, who understands! Some people summarize the classics, saying that Baike is like a "Chinese pastoral dog", and there is a kind of "nest handsome":
▲ Everyone's comments (source: @orange spicy interview)
▲ Baike's feedback on the Chinese pastoral dog, there is also a kind of cuteness of the nest (source @ orange spicy visit) Of course, just saying this, it's still a bit empty, after all, it doesn't seem to be able to explain, why Baike has a sense of husband by his face, and some people need the blessing of the scene. What are the important qualities to have a "sense of humanity"?
02 The core points of the husband's sense
The key points of the current "sense of husbandry" are summarized by Jane in four words: ability, softness, peace, and forbearance - let's talk about them one by one. (1) The object of "can" can represent ability, and it is best to have a certain ability to support the family and have a sense of responsibility for work and family. As mentioned earlier, the current high-voted recognized role of the husband is not like the overlords who earn more than 100 million yuan a year in Harvard Oxford, but they are generally the mainstay of small leaders and have the economic strength to pass the test.
▲ Majack of the white guest is a group leader
▲ "You Who Saved 10,000 Times" is a director, middle and high-level
▲ Boyfriend in the system, needless to say, adding a stable buff is actually often the favorite of parents, so it is easy to get a full house. From the perspective of parents, the object is very good and earns a lot, and their daughter may not be able to enjoy it, and even if their daughter can enjoy it, it may not be given to their parents, in fact, it is not good for themselves. But if the other party's career fails, it may also affect the parents. Therefore, for many parents, the "sense of husband", which is a bit small and preferably stable, is the most attractive, and it is much more desirable than "very successful" or "incapable".
▲ This pair is opposed by their parents, that is, the two get along very happily, but their boyfriends are not good at education and work, and this kind of "ability" is not only reflected in the hardware, but also in appearance, which will affect our judgment. First of all, a more upright appearance (face shape, three courts and five eyes are appropriate) gives people the impression that they will "go to work seriously", and it is easy to be considered suitable for being a husband.
▲ The handsome Zhang Zhiyao and Zheng Guolin feel that going to work is not inconsistent, but if they are too young (the proportion is too young) and too feminine (the face is too sharp and too lacking in contours), it is easy to feel "unresponsible", and it is easy to receive opposition votes from the elders:
▲Lu Han and Huang Minghao are also very handsome, but they feel too baby-faced, and the elders will worry that they will not be able to take responsibility for people with a strong sense of "husband", and they often dress up very well, refreshing and pleasing to the eye but not overdressed, and have a feeling of living.
▲ The simple T or shirt or suit of the white customer has a strong sense of husbandry
▲ It's too fashionable, and the sense of husband is weak
▲ If Xu Guanghan dresses too boyish and trendy, he will not have a sense of humanity
▲ Mature dress, will be more human (I prefer Lao Li in "I Want to See You", the reason is found) Their figure is generally very subtle, slightly thin and fat, but it is not very superior:
▲ It doesn't have to be short, but it does have a bit big head by showbiz standards
▲Lei Jiayin is famous for his big head, which makes the proportions kind, and the skin is generally good, giving people a feeling of stable work and rest and stable income. On the contrary, in the early stage, because Bai Ke wanted to play Dick Si, his hairstyle and face were more casual, and he was more like not being able to find a girlfriend than a husband:
▲ is not very clean, does not conform to women's aesthetics summary, the first element of the sense of husband is "can", giving people the feeling of being able to support their families. Correspondingly, it is best to have a certain career and stability, and the appearance is a certain degree of maturity last week, not too delicate, childish, trendy man, and the dress is refreshing and clean but not too particular. (2) The second key word of softness is "softness", as the name suggests, it is relatively gentle and tolerant to people and things, emotionally stable, and considerate of people's emotions. In this regard, there is actually a scientific basis for the "sense of husband", which has been studied before. Women generally think that men with high androgens are more handsome, they tend to have three-dimensional contours and vigorous hair, and women will prefer this type in the short term:
▲Takeshi Kaneshiro and Yan Kuan are very typical of high androgen appearance, but when it comes to long-term mate selection, women tend to prefer a "good father's face", that is, there are relatively few male hormones, and they look softer and can be a good father.
▲ Long choice preference face vs short choice preference face Of course, this kind of face may not necessarily be this kind of character (important), and the specific personality still needs to be investigated. But in the end, this kind of face is considerate, because it is very close, so it is more convincing and infectious.
▲ Bai Ke plays this kind of role that hurts his wife and has a good temper, which is very compatible (source @ You are a galactic dreamer) has a special "husband" appearance, which is often relatively soft, with moderate bone mass, less skin and flesh, no concave bones, and no craggy bones, and his facial features are flat or slightly drooping, which looks very good-tempered.
▲ A non-aggressive face
▲ Zhang Zhiyao and Zheng Guolin are very handsome, but the facial features are round, they feel soft, and they also have a sense of husband
▲ Huang Xuan is also flat, looking soft and opposite, too aggressive appearance, although he may be considered more handsome and more sexually tense, but he is relatively lacking in the sense of a husband:
▲ Huang Zongze with distinct bones
▲ Lee so Hyuk and Chen Guanlin are more evil and aggressive, and they are less likely to have a sense of specific style, they are also more upright and peaceful, and they leave a line in their work. Because of the feelings of the people around you, you may be a little indecisive but it is understandable, even if you don't do it well, you are easy to be sympathized.
▲ Chen Junsheng is indecisive
▲ Qiao Yicheng has always been worried about his younger siblings, and he can't rest assured that those who go home for the New Year and are praised by the whole family, often have this trait, considerate of the emotions of the elders, polite, take the initiative to talk, and actively praise:
▲Very patient and gentle (source@一毛栗)
▲ Some high-level players can also do housework, which is very good (source @ Yimao Chestnut, Shanghai Piao Girl Lingzhi) (3) Ping "Ping" represents a feeling of neutrality, stability and stability, and a long stream of water. Romance is certainly tempting, but "flat" is actually another charm. Look good, but don't be particularly handsome, so that people have a sense of reality and security. Therefore, those who have a sense of husbandry, their facial features are often not exquisite, they are very daily, and they are the kind of "handsome that can be reached".
▲Bai Ke, Wei Daxun, the facial features are generally very delicate, and they often need glasses to weaken their facial features to have a sense of reality:
▲ Zhu Yilong blurs his eyes after wearing glasses, so he looks like an ordinary little thoughtful and romantic person who will go home to cook, not vigorous, but better than plain happiness and long streaming:
▲ (everyone imagines) white customers give small gifts
▲ Emotionally stable, usually very calm, Bai Ke can become the ceiling of "husband feeling", on the one hand, because of his unique appearance, and on the other hand, because his own temperament is very consistent. watched the interview, he said that he didn't want to be too famous or rich, so he wanted to live his own life:
▲In fact, it has become more and more popular in the past few years, talking about the "big era" no longer makes people's blood surging, and the "small days" with fireworks make people feel warm. As parents who have experienced several ups and downs, they actually understand the value of this kind of "stability" better than the younger generation, so when looking at their sons-in-law, they prefer this kind of stable and stable life. (4) Patience but stability does not fall from the sky. Unlike the bosses born in Rome or the talented elites, the "human husband" players are often the middle level of the sandwich qi, and the stability mainly depends on forbearance. Or, it can be said that he can withstand grievances and bear the burden of humiliation. Bai Ke also has a unique nest handsome in this regard, quarreling with his wife, and the focus is "there is no need to be so far":
▲ The tolerance is very high (source @ Aoki Xiaomo) was wronged at work and climbed the rooftop, saying "I also have a family":
▲ It's not that life is cheap, it's for the weight of what you love
▲ Forced to work overtime is said to be voluntary
▲ I am angry but I still have to keep smiling This sense of "forbearance", one is that it will bring a sense of security, and it will point to a more stable life than the boss who "it's cold at every turn, Wang's enterprise should go bankrupt". In addition, it is also to make us who are also social animals have a greater sense of substitution, and can compare our hearts with our hearts:
▲ can understand, psychological closeness is more importantly, this kind of "forbearance" is also a kind of fragility, which is easy to stimulate women's maternal love:
▲ The white customer really looks like a puppy
▲ Selfishness put another one (source@Kimberleysing)
▲ Lei Jiayin's passage is also very realistic, so that the four-dimensional integration constitutes all the charm of the "sense of husband", which is far from the effect of taking a spatula for cooking. Next question, why is "husband feeling" so popular?
03 Husband Sense
Core Attraction
To put it bluntly, the core of "husband feeling" is that it is down-to-earth. After watching too much of the suspended boss, the embarrassing romance, and the plot that is out of the daily life of the workers, our emotional needs are not met.
▲ For example, this
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▲ Compared with the previous generation of women, the economic strength of this generation of women has increased significantly. As a result, the boss who "arranges it for you" is easy to look greasy because of his father, and the partner who can face it with him is more suitable for the needs and more in line with the ideal relationship model of the new generation of women:
▲ Equality and intimacy (source @ Aoki Xiaomo) Compared with the romance of wealth and luxury, we also pay more and more attention to our inner feelings, and can appreciate the little happiness in life:
▲ You're back, and the meal is ready
▲ can be cute (source @ anatomy SK)
▲ Vulnerable
▲ can be responsible, but how to say tender, just like "Friends" is called a "fairy tale for adults", although the shooting is very realistic, but the actual direction is very dreamy. "Husband feeling" may just be a more down-to-earth version of the dream, but in any case, it's good to be happy in a dream~
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