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The number of people who go to relatives is decreasing year by year, and in addition to the objective reasons for the lack of relatives due to the environment of having many only children, there are also the following three subjective reasons.
1. There are many relatives who just want to take advantage and don't want to suffer.
Relatives who have gone through many years will find that some relatives not only do not take advantage enough, but will also become more serious, but if they cannot take advantage as always, they will be unhappy. Relatives who suffer losses often don't care about paying, but in the long run, they will get bored, and it will be difficult to continue to go to relatives.
Netizen message: Although I will not go to my heart when I go to my relatives to suffer small losses, I have many relatives who try to take advantage of me, even if it is a small loss at the beginning, it will accumulate into a big loss over time. When I avoided suffering as much as possible, I didn't want to let the relatives who took advantage of me reciprocate, and the relatives who took advantage of me actually sarcastically scolded me with a scolding tone.
Comments: Relatives are suddenly no longer harmonious, it is very likely that they are people who have been suffering, and they no longer want to continue to suffer, contradictions will arise, and those who take advantage will repay virtue with grievances.
Second, the older people in the relatives' family can't cook, and the younger ones are either too lazy to cook or can't cook.
Relatives are usually far away, to go to relatives, eating and drinking is indispensable, but once willing to cook a large table of meals people are old, even old, even go to the outside of the restaurant to eat, the per capita consumption in the restaurant is higher than before, go to the relatives to take the gifts, not enough to go to the restaurant to eat a fraction of the cost, undoubtedly increase the financial burden of relatives.
Netizen message: When I was a child, eating and drinking were indispensable to relatives, and family affection was particularly strong, but today's young people have neither the heart nor the strength to make a large table of dishes, even if they go to a restaurant to eat, they can't find the feeling of eating at home, and family affection will slowly die out over time.
Comments: Go to the hotel to entertain guests feel uneconomical, not calculated, but to go to the hotel to the cost of the gift is too different, now go to relatives will pull the family, at best take two or three hundred gifts, go to the restaurant to eat need one or two thousand, go to the model of relatives will be unsustainable sooner or later.
Third, the gap between the rich and the poor among relatives has widened, which is very different from the gap between the rich and the poor a few decades ago.
As the old saying goes: people who are poor do not leave their relatives. However, the rich still do not want to go to their relatives, for fear of being misunderstood as showing off their wealth, whether they have money or no money, they will be in a dilemma, and the rich relatives look down on the poor relatives, and the poor relatives think that they are looked down upon by the rich relatives, and the rich relatives cannot help, and it is reasonable to break off the relatives.
Netizen message: I used to think that only friends need to pay attention to interests, but later I found that relatives still need to pay attention to interests, unless they have common interests, when the common interests are maintained, relatives will move around until when. When there is a conflict of interest, even relatives may turn against each other.
Comments: In the past, relatives didn't have much money, so they had to stay warm from time to time, and now their relatives take care of their own interests.
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