The 38-year-old Internet celebrity mother of her second child confirmed her death, and the reason was announced, and the whole network was shocked......

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Author丨Mr. Crispy

Source丨Mr. Crispy (ID: cpxs2009)

The Chinese New Year is getting closer and closer, but another sad news is coming. In Shijiazhuang, Hebei Province, an Internet celebrity mother with a second child died suddenly on January 24 at the age of 38. On his personal account, the husband's obituary confirmed this regrettable fact.

A week ago, she was still sharing her experience with a baby in front of the camera. A week later, a four-year-old and a two-month-old child were left behind forever with reluctance and regret. But what is even more shocking and unexpected is the cause of her death: severe pneumonia caused by a cold.

According to her husband's recollection:

On January 20, last Saturday, his wife's body did not show any abnormalities. By Sunday, she suddenly developed a high fever that reached 38 degrees Celsius7. On Monday afternoon, I already felt like my body was in collapse and my strength was exhausted. At 8 o'clock in the evening of the same day, I rushed to the hospital. On the second day of hospitalization, he was sedated and anesthetized, put on a ventilator, and transferred to the intensive care unit. However, the symptoms did not improve, and then the wife fell into a deep coma. Six rescues failed to save her from death. In just a few days, a young and healthy life dissipated in an instant. The conclusion given by the doctor was: severe pneumonia, type 1 respiratory failure, septic shock.

The disease was so ferocious that no one could be prepared. Under the impermanence of the world, there is only regret and endless sorrow.

Two children who are so young, there is no longer a mother to grow up with. The husband could only indulge in self-blame for why he couldn't drag his wife to the hospital earlier. On January 21, in the last video left by his wife. Under the hoarseness, the "husband" who failed to get a timely response became her last call and everyone's regret.

Many people wonder how a cold and fever can be so serious that they die?

In fact, it is not difficult to get a glimpse of the reason. The mother of the second child, one person drags two, she has always been very self-reliant and strong. When I was pregnant, I went to Peking University to take a medical course. In order to make the life of my family and children healthier, I also studied dietitian. In taking care of his two children, he has always been hands-on. On the 23rd day of the month, she recorded a video of "how many times do you wake up at night after giving birth".

At 1 o'clock, the baby cried and wanted to feed. At 4 o'clock, the child woke up again, changed sides, and continued to feed.

At 5 o'clock, the baby pulled, forced sleepiness, scrubbed, changed diapers, and played with him for more than half an hour.

Just fell asleep in a hazy mood, at half past seven in the morning, Dabao got up, helped get dressed, and tied his hair. After Dabao was sent to school by her grandmother, she finally had time to catch up on sleep. One night, it was cut into countless pieces. Coupled with shooting videos and cutting films every day, I tried to piece together her whole day. Just thinking about substitution, I can't help but collapse. But because she likes children, she enjoys this life very much, never complains, and is often even cured. But in such a day-to-day routine, she still ignores a very important issue.

The weakness of the body after childbirth, coupled with the weakening of immunity, makes people more vulnerable than ever. That day, she had a high fever of nearly 39 degrees, but she still endured the discomfort and insisted on breastfeeding her child.

Don't dare to rest, don't dare to take medicine, support your body, and beat your spirit. How many lactating mothers overestimate their strength and underestimate the damage of colds. In the comments, some netizens told the story of one of their colleagues.

When the child was four months old, a colleague accidentally caught a cold. The child does not drink milk powder, and he is reluctant to force himself, so he can only rely on drinking traditional Chinese medicine to slowly recuperate, and the result is getting more and more serious. The heart was originally bad, and eventually he died of explosive myocarditis. That year, she was 28 years old.

There is never more than one tragedy. causes, but often point in the same direction.

A 38-year-old mother left suddenly, and under the hot search, the people who survived were afraid. People who are sick are still struggling, whether to take medicine or not, can they carry it?

Many people use lessons to tell us that the answer is: don't underestimate colds. Don't even drag. A few days ago, I saw a hot search, Ms. Chen, 51 years old in Jiangsu, who had a cold and cough. The doctor suggested hanging water, but Ms. Chen thought about coughing and coughing, and she would be fine in a few days.

This is also an inherent misconception of many people: "Just endure a cold." "I'll be fine in a week. After 10 days, Ms. Chen suddenly fainted. When I was sent to the hospital, I learned that my lung function was basically lost, and both lungs were white.

When the virus invades the body, not all colds will cure themselves. Winter flu is frequent, and experts suggest that within 48 hours, it is the golden period for self-help, especially for high-risk groups such as the elderly, children, sick and pregnant.

It's time to take medicine, it's time to go to the hospital. No disease can be resisted, and if you feel unwell, you must seek medical attention in time. If you are pregnant or breastfeeding, you don't have to worry. Depending on the situation, the doctor will choose the medicine that will have the least impact and will not cause harm to the child. Don't pay attention to your body because of breastfeeding, and drag a minor illness into a major illness, even to the point of no return.

Omnipotent, hard-working, mother-in-law. The world has always liked to sing the praises of the greatness of mother's love, and every word used is so powerful that there is no room for it. But when, even taking medicine when she is sick, or even not being able to breastfeed, will make a mother feel that it is her own selfishness?

Whether or not to breastfeed depends on your person's constitution.

Treating illness and taking medicine is an objective law of the body. It's not selfish, it's quite the opposite. Please put your body and yourself in the first place. Everyone, first themselves, then other characters. Every mother is herself first, and then someone else's wife and mother. Giving is not based on losing oneself. Greatness is not built on sacrificing everything. What's more, take care of yourself so that you can take better care of the people around you. Love yourself well in order to love others better.

Before Erbao was about to be born, the mother who unfortunately passed away also sighed: "It only took them a moment to become father, grandfather, and grandmother." And mom is a mother with her life. She also fantasized about her future life: "When you get through the most difficult days, remember to love yourself well in the future." "The heart-piercing of the first half is a prophecy. In the second half of the wish, she broke her promise. I haven't had time to love myself yet. There will never be a chance to love yourself again. Her efforts in this life, strong, kind, can no longer be heard. In the end, I just hope that when every mother does her best, the people around her don't take it for granted. When she wants to sacrifice herself, instead of showing off the selflessness of her mother's love, she can dissuade and remind her: love others before yourself. Only then can there be a surplus to others. Love is like raising flowers. The best florist is himself.

Hello everyone, I'm Crispy, a new daddy, a startup executive. I have been to many cities and practiced stalls on the side of the road. Now I just want to say the most honest things to you, continue to grow, keep improving.