A blogger posted a post complaining about his sister-in-law, like a guest at home, she doesn't do any work, and she won't help her mother with housework.
Netizen: Your mother is so pitiful, you were blind in the past, it is not easy to see your mother, the housework of the whole family is waiting for your mother to do it alone, and you take it for granted that these are your mother's work. As soon as your sister-in-law got married, everything changed, your eye disease was cured, your sight was restored, you could see your mother's hard work, and I desperately hoped that your sister-in-law would help your mother take care of the housework. In this way, your sister-in-law is still a great achievement, so hurry up and kowtow to your sister-in-law.
Netizen: Your sister-in-law is a smart person and knows that except for her mother-in-law, no one else works in this house. Sister-in-law is following the big army, not making exceptions. The mother-in-law loves to work is her own business, and her own husband, son, and daughter don't feel sorry for her, so why do you ask your daughter-in-law, an outsider, to feel sorry for her as soon as she marries in.
Netizen: The blogger posted to scold, in this family, only your mother and your sister-in-law are foreign surnames, and there is no blood relationship between them. It's funny that you yourself are not considerate of your mother as a daughter, and you ask your sister-in-law, who is not related by blood, to help your mother work.
Netizen: It's so funny, when my son doesn't do it, I expect other people's daughters to work, in my mother-in-law's house, her son lies down as soon as he finishes eating, of course I have to sit and play.
The blogger's thinking is a typical "filial piety outsourcing", he usually doesn't do anything at home, his butt is like being stained on the sofa, he starts to lie down and play with his mobile phone as soon as he enters the door, waiting for dinner with Erlang's legs crossed, and letting his mother be busy in the kitchen alone.
If you really feel sorry for your parents, you should help your mother share the housework as a child, mop the floor, tidy up the room, and dry clothes, these are all things that you can do. Instead of accusing my sister-in-law of not being filial. As a newly married woman, she owes you nothing and has not enjoyed any of the favors of your family.
The true portrayal of many families feels that the housework should be done by women when they marry their wives and come back. Contradict them: "I don't need to work in my mother's family, why should I marry into your family, I have to do housework, and everyone will bear the housework together." ”
The man retorted: "My mother has been doing this for decades, and I haven't listened to her complain." ”
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