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When a colleague left his job and invited everyone to dinner, he didn't invite me, and everyone said I was lucky

author:Xiao Chen's emotional class

On that day, a fierce quarrel broke out in the company's corridors, breaking the usual tranquility. When I got closer, it was my colleague Wang Jian and another colleague Li Qiang arguing. Both of their faces turned red, as if they were about to burst.

"How can you say that about me!" Wang Jian's voice was sharp and angry, and his fingers trembled at Li Qiang.

Not to be outdone, Li Qiang crossed his hands on his hips and replied: "What I said is the truth, if you are not happy, reflect on yourself!"

The surrounding colleagues all watched, some whispered, and some tried to persuade them. But neither seemed to listen, blaming each other for their words and actions.

"If you go on like this, sooner or later you will come to a problem!" Li Qiang's voice became sharper.

Wang Jian was so angry that he almost lost his mind: "I can't have a problem, it's not your turn!"

I stood outside the crowd and felt very uneasy. Wang Jian has always been a gentle person, and today's behavior is completely unexpected. I can't help but wonder what lies behind this quarrel.

When a colleague left his job and invited everyone to dinner, he didn't invite me, and everyone said I was lucky

After the quarrel, Wang Jian seemed a little lonely. I took the opportunity to ask him privately what was going on.

"It's not a big deal, it's just some small conflicts at work. Wang Jian tried his best to pretend to be relaxed, but I could feel the heaviness in his words.

I have always had a good relationship with Wang Jian. He is a serious and kind guy, and he is deeply loved by his colleagues. I still remember how he looked when he first came to the company, full of enthusiasm and anticipation. But lately, I've noticed that he's always on his mind, and he's no longer the optimistic one he is.

"Wang Jian, if there is anything you need help with, just say. "I say it sincerely.

He shook his head, "It's really fine, thank you, man." ”

However, one day not long after, Wang Jian suddenly announced that he was leaving. This news was undoubtedly a shock to me. I thought we would be able to work together for a long time.

"Are you sure you want to go?" I asked him, somewhat reluctantly.

Wang Jian smiled bitterly: "Yes, I think it's time to change the environment." ”

I looked at his back, and an inexplicable sense of loss welled up in my heart. Why did Wang Jian, such a good person, have the idea of leaving? My heart is full of questions, but it is difficult to ask any more questions. After all, everyone has their own choices and paths.

When a colleague left his job and invited everyone to dinner, he didn't invite me, and everyone said I was lucky

The day before he left, Wang Jian invited his colleagues in the company to dinner to celebrate his new beginning. But to my surprise, he didn't invite me. I learned the news from other colleagues and felt both confused and a little sad.

"You're lucky you weren't called. A colleague said to me half-jokingly.

"Why do you say that?" I asked curiously.

He whispered mysteriously, "Don't you know? Wang Jian only invited those who were useful to him. He thinks you don't have any connections, and it won't help him. ”

My heart sank, although I knew that there were various considerations in the workplace, but I didn't expect Wang Jian to be such a person. I've always regarded him as a friend, but I didn't expect that in his eyes, I was just a colleague with no use value.

After a while, another colleague, Zhang Wei, came over to chat with me. "I heard that Wang Jian didn't invite you to dinner?" asked Zhang Wei.

I nodded, "yes, I'm surprised." ”

Zhang Wei sighed: "Wang Jian is actually very realistic, he thinks that your wife is not beautiful enough, your family conditions are average, and he feels that he has no future with you." ”

When I heard this, I felt great irony and disappointment. "I thought he was a real friend. I said helplessly.

"In the workplace, there aren't many real friends. Zhang Wei shook his head, "Don't take it too seriously. ”

I stood there and watched the people coming and going in the office. This incident made me deeply realize that sometimes the so-called friendship is just a pile of sand built on interests, which can collapse at the touch of a button. My heart was filled with loss and bitterness, but I also learned a lesson: in this complex world, don't put your emotions into it easily.

When a colleague left his job and invited everyone to dinner, he didn't invite me, and everyone said I was lucky

A few months later, I met Wang Jian by chance on the street. When he saw me, he seemed a little embarrassed, but he still walked over and greeted me with a smile: "Hey, long time no see, how are you doing?"

I nodded politely, but there wasn't much enthusiasm in my heart: "It's okay, what about you?"

"I'm doing well, and my new job is going well. Wang Jian seemed to be trying to start a conversation more.

I replied coldly, "That's good, I wish you all the best." ”

He seemed to realize my coldness and smiled awkwardly, "yes, that's... We're free to get together again. ”

I nodded, not responding much. Looking at the back of him leaving, my heart was filled with mixed emotions. What was once a colleague has now become so strange.

I turned around and continued my journey, knowing in my heart that relationships in the workplace are often complex and realistic. Although Wang Jian's behavior disappointed me, it also made me more aware that sincere friendship is valuable. From this incident, I learned how to maintain a calm heart in the workplace, and how to cherish those friends who truly know how to respect and understand each other.

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