Netizens wrote to ask, if you divorce at the age of 38, do you still plan to remarry? This age can't stand the toss! If you can not divorce, try not to divorce, it is not easy to divorce and remarry, it is not so easy to say a word, it takes courage and strength.
Marrying a daughter-in-law requires spending money to settle things, and you also need to find someone you like, if you find someone who does not meet you, after marriage, you will make chickens and dogs jump all day long, so it is better not to remarry.
However, there are two sides to everything, and there are pros and cons, that's for sure.
Either you are looking for a daughter-in-law who drags the family and supports someone else's family, and you must be psychologically prepared.
There was an older young man in my friend's village who was close to 40 years old before starting a family, and at that time, the family was limited and not wealthy, so it was delayed to find a daughter-in-law, and only later did he find a widow to bring two children, a boy and a girl.
The two got together and became a family, and the eldest young man also went to live in the woman's house, where he lived for more than 20 years, without children of his own, and took the children of this family as his own.
Because this age is combined, and there are no children of their own, they are just a family together.
In this family, the older young people only had to contribute to earn money to help support the family, and over time the son also married a daughter-in-law, and the daughter also got married.
With the development of society, in recent years, there are local policies and regulations, and if you do not retire, you can also issue a certificate through the original unit to prove that you have work experience, and you can submit materials to make up the pension insurance at one time.
This is a good thing, no one is bad, the older young man has money in his hand, so he takes it out to buy an endowment insurance for his wife.
I also thought in my heart that with a guarantee, I would live a prosperous life in the future, and I would not have to worry about having no support in my later years, so that I would not have to trouble my children
It's a long story, but this elderly youth village was demolished, and a sum of money was compensated, and two houses were divided.
He did everything he could think of, he could do.
However, some things are not so simple, especially the reorganization of the family, in the eyes of outsiders, living together is good, and in the heart of the individual, they are all crackling with their own little abacus!
I bought it for my wife after retirement, and I also received a pension every month to live.
Who would have thought that this remarried wife had a new idea!
Thinking of a way to dig the foot of the wall, there are two sets of demolition houses at home, and my wife and children have been calculating for a long time, and they are bent on owning them.
Seeing that he hadn't moved, he couldn't wait, and told him very directly, the house was demolished at home, and the son and daughter had one set?
As soon as he said this, he didn't come up for a long time!
I don't know if he is angry or heartbroken! If he doesn't promise his wife, he won't give him a good look, and he will be beaten all day long, and his house will be full of smoke and miasma, and there will be chicken feathers all over the place.
Calming down, he had his own idea, if the house is given to the children of the restructured family, there is no guarantee of life in old age.
With a pension of less than 2,000 yuan a month, what should I do if I am hospitalized and old-age if I am sick?
After thinking about it, he decided to divorce his wife who had lived with him for many years!
That's the topic for today, it's too difficult to divorce and remarry!
It is not easy to reorganize the family, it is not easy to get along, if it is the original match, the husband and wife are of the same heart, there is no second heart, live a life wholeheartedly, a center, and the mind is all for their children.
It's not the same when you take a step, and you have a personal little abacus!
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