There is a saying: "When a woman chooses a man, it is like choosing a shoe, and only she knows whether it fits or not." ”
In a relationship, we all want to be with the right person.
But in real life, there are too many people who blindly choose a person because they don't know what the other party's character is.
In the end, it is often because of a person's bad character that he is hurt a lot, and he can't be with the other party in the end.
Such things are not uncommon in real life, so we must know what kind of men can choose.
For women, choosing the wrong man is equivalent to ruining their lives.
So how do we judge whether a man is worthy of love or not? It's actually very simple, just look at whether he has these three performances.
- Treat feelings unfaithfully
There is a saying: "Start with appearance, fall into talent, and be loyal to character." ”
No matter how good a person's appearance is, if his character is not good, then he will not be welcomed by others.
It's like saying, "You won't find someone who is as dead set on you as I am, so I'm going to find someone who is devoted to me." ”
For a man, the thing he fears the most is that he has a lot of women around him. If he is not faithful to his feelings, then he will also have many friends of the opposite sex.
Such men are always very unfaithful to their relationships, and once they have a new love, they will abandon the old love. If a man is unfaithful to his feelings, then it will be difficult for that man to love others anymore.
Many times, we envy men who are single-minded. They are always able to stick to their bottom line when it comes to their feelings and are able to be loyal to their love.
But not everyone can do this, and for many people, once they meet someone who is not loyal to their relationship, then they will fall into it.
Therefore, women must be cautious when facing such a man and do not love easily.
- Unrespectful women
In our traditional concept, men can stand up to the sky and protect women. However, with the development of the times, men are no longer as protective of women as before, and now more and more men are beginning to disrespect women.
Especially those men who like to judge women, it is even more despised. For such men, they often have a big drawback, which is disrespect for women. They see themselves as leaders from above, and they think they are the right ones.
Most of the men who disrespect women are selfish. In their opinion, as long as they live well, the most important thing is to do so. For a woman, marrying this kind of man is equivalent to giving up her lifelong happiness.
So women must stay away from such men who disrespect women. Know that if you are with someone who doesn't respect you and doesn't care about your feelings, then endless pain awaits you.
- Be stingy with friends
As the saying goes: "Those who are close to Zhu are red, and those who are close to ink are black." ”
A man with a good character often knows how to respect the friends around him. For them, friends are their most important asset.
Therefore, for a man, if he is stingy with the friends around him, then most of such a man is also of bad character.
After all, a true friend doesn't care how much money you spend on him, or what gifts you give him. It's enough to be able to make yourself happy and happy when you're with him.
He doesn't hurt everyone around him at will.
On the contrary, if a man is petty with his friends, then such a man is mostly selfish and unresponsible. They have never known how to respect the people around them, and for such men, they do not deserve to be liked by others.