Life is a wonderful adventure and I feel very blessed and grateful – Renee Spencer.
Many times, beauty is on the outside, elegance is on the inside, some people, the outside is noble, and some people, on the inside, are noble. Everyone understands this simple truth, but it is another thing to truly understand it.
Renee Spencer, a stepmother who has been married 3 times and is still working in her 80s, but has been misunderstood by the princess's stepdaughter for 16 years, insists on living the way all women want with her calmness and elegance.
What should a woman live to be successful? Everyone may have their own opinions, but Renee, who was born in 1929, has been married three times in her life and has never relied on any man to live.
Renee's original family was originally a nobleman, her father was a nobleman, and her mother was a talented girl, and the education she received since she was a child was both internal and external.
Renee, who grew up with her mother's warm love, was far luckier than Diana, and her smiling appearance when she was held in her mother's arms turned out to be as cute and agile as Shirley Temple.
was carefully raised by his mother, but he learned a very serious problem in life: what you want, you must fight for it yourself.
At the age of 18, just the right youth, self-confidence and strength, Renee met the first love in her life, a man who could improve her quality of life and change her own fate: the ninth earl of Dartmouth.
Renee, who is just involved in marriage, deeply understands that life is not a silk flower that depends on the growth of others, she married beautifully, but she also chose a new life after marriage: to enter politics and be the most sober and thoughtful female politician.
At the age of 23, Renee became the youngest councillor in the City of Westminster at the time.
With a small career and both children and daughters, her beauty is never just the external publicity, but more the confidence and atmosphere that burst out in her bones.
After some achievements in her work, and the children grew up under her tutelage, Renee realized that her husband had long since distanced herself from her.
Her love for life was so strong that Renee didn't want to let herself live like this.
In 1976, Renee divorced, and at the age of 47, she chose to leave the house: if love is gone, what is all the external material?
Fortunately, at this time, the man named Spencer was already by her side, as atmospheric as her, and the wrong thing she had done in her life was probably her insistence on this love.
Spencer is not a good man, after all, his attitude towards the people he loves is too casual.
There are 4 ungrown children in the family, and he doesn't give the children a little respect and takes Renee home directly.
Diana, her sister and brother were full of hostility and even hatred towards the woman who suddenly appeared in their lives: because of her arrival, their mother could never return to the family.
Diana was 15 years old at the time, but since she left at the age of six, her mother has been dreaming every minute that her mother will be able to return to her side one day.
This is a manifestation of the lack of love in childhood, and at this point, Diana never came out of it all her life, so many of her behaviors, many of her ideas are quite narrow-minded.
Renee didn't mind at the time, in fact she never minded her stepchildren's attitude towards her, because she knew human nature too well, too aware of reality, and when a person gets something he wants, he has to give something in exchange.
But who would have thought that Diana, who was born in the aristocracy and was elegant and generous in front of people, would give her stepmother the most embarrassing treatment at her wedding: she was arranged in the ordinary guest seats, but her divorced parents were arranged together to attend her wedding.
At that time, everyone must have been talking about the gossip of the Spencer family, and the man named Spencer still didn't say a word for her.
And this was not the most excessive thing Diana had ever done, and later she pushed Renee down the stairs at her brother's wedding. Renee was over 60 years old at the time, and the fall was light or heavy.
Looking at Diana's obviously frightened face, Renee stood up on her own, patted her clothes, and left laughing at herself. What kind of contrast is that? The confrontation between the powerful heroine and the bad female partner jumps in front of you.
Who would have thought that Diana would act like this, and act so impulsively, but this hostility has been going on for a long time, from the time Renee entered the Spencer house until she left, a total of 16 years.
When Earl Spence died of illness in 1992, Renee smiled and sent off her husband, who had been with her for many years, and was soon pushed out of the house by her stepson, who was not even allowed to take away a suitcase.
At that time, Diana couldn't have imagined that a person's strength and self-confidence actually had nothing to do with marriage, it was the firmness and tenacity that he had since childhood, which was a person's real "noble" quality: deep recognition of himself and firm deeds.
In 1976, Diana and Charles divorced, and was scolded by her mother on the phone until she burst into tears, and the most ugly words in the world came from the insults and discrimination of the people she loved the most.
At that moment, Diana suddenly understood that all she wanted was a life with herself and not being treated as a puppet, but her mother disagreed, and even called her a "prostitute ~ girl".
At this time, Renee gave Diana the warmth she needed most: to go her own way, to cry out when she hurts, and not to regret every bit she has paid for love.
It was an important lesson in Diana's life, but fortunately she understood, and finally understood the roots of her stepmother's years of calmness. In this world, where is the person who can really love you unconditionally and support you?
At that time, Renee had already remarried, and the other party was a French count, 6 years younger than her.
At a party, she admitted her misunderstanding of her stepmother over the years, and thanked her for her understanding and tolerance.
Although Diana reconciled with her stepmother, she is also learning from her to take care of her own life. But some things are infiltrated in her bones, and she simply doesn't have time to become a "real nobleman" in her heart like Renee.
In 1997, Diana left, and Renee attended her funeral, which was rarely melancholy.
There are many stories between them, and there are many connections between them, and Renee sees not only the disappearance of a noble woman, but also the fall of a tragic woman.
Many Renee is more beautiful and elegant than Diana, but only she knows that all her beauty is based on self-satisfaction and pursuit, not from others.
She has gorgeous clothes and jewelry, but no matter how many gorgeous clothes and jewelry she has, it is not far less than her understanding and thoroughness of culture and human nature.
This is Renee, who understands the importance of jewelry to women, but she also understands the importance of self to women.
In 2016, 19 years after Diana left, 87-year-old Renee died of cancer, and she left her friends with no sadness and pain except for comfort and ease.
Once she lives transparently, lives the life she wants exquisitely, and takes care of her heart and human feelings elegantly, a woman can end her life like this, and it is not in vain to live once, right?