As a teacher, I can clearly feel that today's students are becoming more and more difficult to manage! And this change should be largely due to the strict prohibition of corporal punishment or disguised corporal punishment of students, so that teachers have no means to restrain students! Let students have no scruples!
Moreover, the time of education was extended, back in the 80s, when I was in school, the teachers at that time could physically punish the students! And after being punished by the teachers, I didn't dare to go home and say! Once the parents found out, they would inevitably be beaten up by the parents again!
In village elementary schools, parents can often twist their children's ears and go to the teacher's house in the same village to apologize! In that era, corporal punishment of students was still a positive method! This was also the basis for returning the whip to the teacher!
However, some time ago, when I was at a reunion with my elementary school classmates, a classmate talked about this incident, saying that the teacher was really a bad breed and beat him to the head and bleed! I still remember this incident, it should be the day of the fifth grade graduation, the classmate made a mistake, and was hit on the head by the teacher with a partition in the desk, and as a result, he went home bleeding!
It's been more than 30 years now, but I didn't expect this classmate to still be haunted! To be honest, I'm a little surprised! Because I often have the impression that the previous students were beaten up because they remembered the teacher's good! Of course, it is understandable! After all, 20 years have passed, and he is still beating the head teacher on the street!
However, it must also be taken into account that the corporal punishment of teachers will have a certain psychological impact on some students!
The reason why corporal punishment of students is strictly prohibited is also because some teachers' morality and teaching style are a bit corrupt, and in the absence of restraint on corporal punishment, it is also a kind of indulgence for teachers' behavior, and in some incidents that have a relatively large social impact, the result is that it is completely banned again! In fact, at the same time, the problem of indiscriminate collection of fees for education has also been solved at the same time! The so-called educational burden reduction!
The problem at the moment is that in fact, there is a tacit understanding between teachers and students! However, some teachers' slight corporal punishment is obviously a well-intentioned education, and some parents maliciously make trouble, holding on to the teacher, and making unreasonable demands! For example, Teacher Wulian gently patted the heads of two students who skipped class with a textbook, but was sued by the parents to the Education Bureau, and the Education Bureau dealt with the teacher as soon as possible and directly expelled the teacher in order to calm the matter! It was not until CCTV and the People's Daily issued a voice that the wrong handling results were corrected, and in the end, the teachers were transferred out of their original units!
This is the result of extreme media attention, if there is no media attention?
Under such circumstances, teachers are in danger, and many teachers choose to leave their students alone! As a result, students become more and more unscrupulous, and teachers become more and more helpless!
Take me as an example, it stands to reason that students should be afraid of me, but in fact, students are the same as Spiegel in their hearts, knowing that teachers don't beat people, they just look powerful, paper tigers! And as an old teacher, they have experienced so much, so naturally they will not joke about their careers! Just do your duty! After all, you never know what kind of parents and what kind of students you will meet!
Take a friend of mine as an example, when school started, the parents found my friend through a friend and had dinner together, saying that the child was in charge of his own child at school! He should be beaten and scolded! As a result, the friend took it seriously, and he really took care of his own child! As a result, he beat the child one day, and the friend called the parent directly to explain the situation! As a result, after a while, the person called again and asked how he beat him? How did he beat him? Is it bad? The friend said it again! Okay, the other person has recorded it! sued the Education Bureau directly and refused to forgive, and in the end, it was easy to say that he lost 100,000 yuan!
Therefore, under the ban of teachers strictly prohibiting corporal punishment of students, teachers should protect themselves first! As for when to return the whip to teachers, it is better to wait for an opportunity!
Education is originally a very complicated problem, the educators are complex, and the educated are also complicated, but they all have a unified evaluation standard, focusing on academic performance, ignoring morality, beauty, and physical labor! Coupled with the influence of the external environment of the social atmosphere, the problem of education has become a big mountain pressing on people!