On January 30, the "Good People Like Lamps" Rugao City Moral Model Award Ceremony and the First Report of the Sixth Rugao City Moral Model Deeds were held in the Municipal Financial Media Center, and Song Jinduo, a full-time member of the city's Wuyao Town Disabled Persons, was awarded the "Moral Model" nomination award.
"I feel very honored to receive this honor. This is not only a recognition of my work, but also a heavy responsibility. In the face of this honor, Song Jinduo said. On January 31, on the way to Pingtian Village, Wuyao Town, Song Jinduo told the author about his different life.
"I'm going to live bravely"
He did not bow his head in the face of bad luck, did not retreat under heavy pressure, and in the case of physical disability, he did not wait or rely on, and broke out of his career with the spirit of self-improvement and self-reliance, and won the dignity of life. When he was 5 years old, Song Jinduo lost his left arm while playing with the brick machine at his uncle's house and was disabled. In addition to the pain, he often opened books such as "Zhang Haidi" and "How Steel is Made", and gradually, the deeds of the protagonist in the novel strengthened his confidence, walked out of the haze of pain, and regained the courage to challenge fate.
After losing his left arm, Song Jinduo was fitted with a prosthetic leg, using his right hand as his left hand, going to school to write, driving a battery car, and typing on the computer, all relying on his right hand to do things. In Song Jinduo's view, one hand has become his shortcoming, but also a strong motivation, "I don't have arms, and my physical functions are limited, but this makes my character more tenacious and I am extremely serious and meticulous." ”
In 1988, Song Jinduo began the difficult road of studying, and with tenacious perseverance, he overcame unimaginable difficulties and completed all the courses from primary school to junior high school. In 1998, Song Jinduo was admitted to Nantong Agricultural and Technical College. During his time at the school, he was rated as an "excellent class cadre" many times.
"I like to read books, surf the Internet, and learn what I don't know. From 2003 to 2006, Song Jinduo studied for a junior college in e-commerce at Nanjing University of Electronic Technology and a bachelor's degree in self-study accounting at Nanjing University of Finance and Economics, and successfully obtained a bachelor's degree in management. Although his academic qualifications failed to become a "stepping stone" for Song Jinduo to find a job, he didn't want to become a burden to his family and a burden to society. So he supported himself, first doing some manual packaging work in a factory. In 2010, he participated in a job fair for the disabled, "jumped ship" to work as an accountant in a company, earned more money, and his family's life gradually improved.
Don't wait, don't rely on, be self-reliant and self-reliant, I want to live bravely, Song Jinduo used one of his own hands to support a family and a happy life of his own. "Although fate is cruel, in front of the strong, there will always be a smile. When it comes to the future, Song Jinduo is full of confidence, and he hopes to do his best to enrich his life and repay his parents for their nurturing grace.
"As long as you work hard, there will be hope"
"I want to be self-reliant, and I can't be a burden to my family. Song Jinduo started practicing from the most basic things about eating and dressing. After being disabled at the age of 5, he was not only able to take care of himself, but also did household chores as much as he could. Song Jinduo said: "As long as you work hard, there will be hope." ”
In September 2010, 29-year-old Song Jinduo passed the written examination and interview with high scores and was hired as a full-time member of the disabled in Wuyao Town. The first thing he did when he took up his post, Song Jinduo began to visit the disabled families in the area under his jurisdiction from house to house, understand the difficulties in their lives, listen to their voices, reflect their needs to the relevant departments in a timely manner, and help coordinate and solve them. At the same time, he used the computer knowledge he learned to file the actual situation of each disabled person, input it into the computer, and implement dynamic service management. In just one month, the family living conditions of more than 2,000 disabled people in Wuyao Town were all in his heart.
Yao Jianhua, a villager in Group 2 of Sifang Village, Wuyao Town, was paralyzed by muscle atrophy and could not take care of himself, and lived on subsistence allowance all the year round, Song Jinduo went to visit him whenever he was free, and under Song Jinduo's persuasion, Yao Jianhua learned the maintenance technology of the television set, and now his life has been settled; Shi Yang, a girl from Dashi Village, has disabled feet, and at that time her mother carried her to school every day, Song Jinduo helped Shi Yang win a set of assisted walkers to help her solve the problem of difficult travel; Zhou Haiming, a disabled person in Longhe Village, could not find a job for a while after graduating from university in 2011, and was worried at home all day long。 After Song Jinduo learned the news, he talked to the young man, helped him get out of the misunderstandings of life, and helped Zhou Haiming find an ideal job. At present, Zhou Haiming works in a Taiwan-funded enterprise with a monthly salary of more than 6,000 yuan.
A few years later, Song Jinduo founded two "Homes for the Disabled" and adopted the "care + employment" work model to carry out supported employment for the disabled, so that they could support themselves. As the founder of Wuyao's "Home for the Disabled", Song Jinduo has gone out many times to look for projects despite his physical disability, and has traveled to Rugao, Nantong and other cities, and more than 60 disabled people have increased their income under his leadership.
"Working here is not only a way to make money, but also to find self-confidence. I'm now looking for ways to make people's lives better and better. Song Jinduo said that he just did what he could, which was very ordinary. He hopes that through the "Home for the Disabled", more disabled people can realize the value of life.
"The support of my family is the motivation for my struggle"
"We must learn to empathize and consider problems from the perspective of others, so as to form a family atmosphere of equality, tolerance, harmony and gratitude. 43-year-old Song Jinduo said that he and his wife Feng Yiqun are both staff members of the Wuyao Town Government, and since they got married, they have helped each other in work and understanding each other in life, so that warmth and love fill the whole family.
In April 2008, Song Jinduo was introduced to Feng Yiqun, and after a period of getting along, the two entered the marriage hall. They had two boys in 2009 and 2016. "In life, my wife takes good care of me, she prepares meals for me every time I go to and from work, and keeps everything I have for the family. In the past 16 years of marriage, Song Jinduo and his wife have not only been good partners in their careers, but also good partners in life, and they never quarrel over trivial matters.
"Whoever comes home from work first cooks and takes care of the housework first. Song Jinduo said that although they are busy with work, the couple understand each other, support each other, and coordinate with each other, so that work and family can be taken into account without delay. The two are reluctant to buy a new dress for themselves on weekdays, but they always think about adding a piece of clothing to their parents in the cold weather, buying some fruits, nutritional products, etc., and would rather save their own food and frugality, and never let their parents suffer a little grievance in life. When their parents were sick, the two of them took turns on duty, taking care of them at home day and night, and never complained about being bitter, dirty, or tired. The two children are not idle, often helping the old man rub his legs, press his shoulders, and talk about interesting things on campus to make the old man happy.
"The support of my family is the driving force of my struggle!" Song Jinduo said, the achievement of this honor is inseparable from his hard work for more than 10 years, the cultivation and support of leaders and colleagues, and the silent dedication and support of the "family". "My parents are over 60 years old, and respecting the elderly, being diligent and thrifty, working hard to get rich, and having a happy family are their consistent life principles and goals, and they always transmit positive energy in the family. While running a small family, Song Jinduo and his wife are also very keen on public welfare. Actively participate in the various activities organized by the unit every year, without talking about conditions or asking for returns. During the epidemic, the two of them went deep into communities and schools to carry out "knock on the door" to find out the situation, and organized volunteers to participate in volunteer service activities such as cultural assistance for the disabled and employment training, and they were busy like spinning tops every day. "During that time, our parents knew that we were all busy and took the initiative to take care of our grandchildren, so we had no worries. ”
"I can work at the grassroots level with peace of mind because I have my family members standing behind me who have always supported me, they are not only my strongest support, but also give me the courage and motivation to move forward. Song Jinduo said.
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