A good father, who has survived all great education, spend more time with his children

Text/Ting's mother

There is a kind of love that is deep and restrained. It doesn't have flowery rhetoric, it doesn't deliberately show off, but it's there, quiet and firm, holding up a sky for children to grow up. This is fatherly love.

Studies have shown that fathers' involvement in their children's development has a crucial impact on their children's development. Children who are accompanied and guided by their fathers tend to perform at higher levels academically, socially, and emotionally.

A good dad is not just a person who provides material support, but also a synthesis of emotional communication, value transmission and role model.

Through their interactions with their children, they convey love and care, establish a correct outlook on life and values, and set an example for their children through their own actions.

Scientific studies have proven that paternal involvement can significantly improve a child's academic performance and social resilience.

A long-term study in the United States has shown that children who are actively involved by their fathers from an early age not only perform better in school, but are also more successful in their relationships and career development as adults. This is because the involvement of fathers provides not only intellectual guidance, but more importantly, emotional support and stability.

In addition to daily learning companionship, fathers can also strengthen the parent-child relationship with their children by participating in sports activities and outdoor adventures together. These activities not only exercise children's bodies, but also develop their teamwork and problem-solving skills.

Fathers should also pay attention to their own words and actions, as children tend to imitate their father's behavior.

Dad's words and deeds, every move, will become the object of imitation and learning by children. When dad and his child play, read, and explore the world together, the child is not only enjoying happiness, but also invisibly absorbing the wisdom and values of life.

If the father can show positive qualities, honesty and trustworthiness, the child is also more likely to develop a good character. Conversely, if the father regularly exhibits negative or dishonest behavior, the child may also be affected badly.

Xiao Li is a smart and lively boy, his father is busy with work, but as long as he has time, he will accompany him to play with blocks and read picture books. Xiao Li is very creative, and his work is often praised in school.

There are many such cases, which shows that the father's companionship and guidance play an irreplaceable role in the growth of children.

As a father, how can you better accompany your children?

In fact, it is very simple, it is to listen, to understand, and to accompany with your heart. You can read books, play games, explore the world with your children, tell them about your work and life experiences, and share your interests and hobbies with your children. These seemingly insignificant little things are actually indispensable nutrients for children's growth.

Some fathers may say, "I want to spend more time with my children, but I'm too busy with work." "Fathers can try to use small times such as dinner time and bedtime to communicate with their children, even if it is a short conversation or reading a book together, so that children can feel the presence of fathers.

Remember that a child's growth is irreversible, and if you miss it, you can never make up for it. Work is important, but a child grows only once. The work is never done, but a child's childhood is gone.

Every look, every hug, and every story of the father is the motivation and warm support for the child to move forward. As a father, spending more time with your children and being involved in their development is an indispensable key to nurturing the next generation.

So, try to make time for your child. Even if you can't be with your child every day, you can keep in touch with your child by phone or video, so that your child can feel the warmth and companionship of father's love.

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