What is good is always easy to break, and in the same way, those that are discarded will always go back in another way. When we expect all good things to happen to us, perhaps we ignore the probability of bad luck happening, when you choose a certain path, you need to accept the negativity of this path, therefore, when the good things are in your pocket, bad luck will come quietly, this also needs to be careful.
The film I recommend to you today tells this kind of story. The protagonist of "Glass Rose" is a very rational engineer, because of rationality, he is very capable, and because of rationality, he is also very strong when dealing with life problems outside of work. Walter, the engineer, is a man who has never touched a leaf, which comes from his rationality, and he can properly handle the relationship with every woman he likes, and he does not have any attachment to anyone. Therefore, after decades of romantic history, he did not have any emotional entanglements to affect himself.
However, such a person also suffered an emotional crisis, and the crisis came from one of his previous decisions. After the plane crash, Walter turns to find his old friend, and after learning that his old friend has hanged himself, Walter embarks on a second journey on the ferry, in which Walter meets a young girl, Sebes. As a result, the girl became a pain that Walter could not speak.
As a merry man, Walter can leave anyone behind at any time, which makes him himself without a stable emotional support for life. So, Walter's life can be completely occupied by work and unaffected by people. Because no one can control Walter's emotional life, he is constantly able to meet new people without any responsibility. This is the source of Walter's attraction and the secret to his ability to handle his life well.
However, there is no way to have the best of both worlds, and when you are complacent in one aspect, you are prone to feel a crisis in another. While Walter is immersed in his own world, danger is looming.
In Walter's opinion, of course, this was the beginning, that she was a simple girl, not even half of her previous date. At first, Walter didn't have too deep feelings for this girl, because this was not Walter's favorite type, but when the relationship gradually deepened, Sebes's smile, and the experience began to make Walter addicted, the girl in front of him made him have a plot of seeing each other and hating each other, and after this colonial attraction, Walter sank more and more, at this moment, he began to feel that he couldn't do without this girl.
However, the blow that had been accumulated for a long time came as expected, and when his ex-lover told the story, Walter finally learned what kind of Yang connection the girl he liked was with him, which made Walter, who could have stayed out of any emotional relationship, feel the crisis for the first time. It turns out that his previous debts must be repaid.
Life needs reason, but emotions don't need reason more often than not, and excessive use of reason to determine one's emotional affiliation will eventually evolve into a form rather than a true feeling. Walter is invincible in his own world, but in a seemingly small and weak girl, Walter experiences pain that he has not experienced before, and also understands sadness that he did not understand before.
What is it like to feel those who once fell deeply in love with Walter but were eventually abandoned by him, Walter really experienced this pain this time. It turns out that he is indeed a shameful person, and at the same time, he is also a muddy person who needs to be scolded and abandoned.
Presumably, when Walter's eyes appeared in front of his eyes, he seemed to understand what was all about. At this moment, perhaps Walter really realized how cruel life is for him, and anyone's mistakes will be recorded, even if they escape for a while, but for a long time, they will eventually face their own mistakes.
Therefore, when we face an emotion again, what kind of attitude do we need to uphold? The answer is to live up to it, not to like to say it and then leave, and for Walter, not to refuse, not to accept the seemingly infinite scenery, in fact, when this kind of bad luck happens to him, he does not have the same demeanor as before. This attitude towards love does not make Walter himself what kind of person he is, but it will eventually be paid for by Walter in another form.
Life seems to be unfair, but when you feel that it is unfair, it will show its fair side, when everything life gives you slowly becomes extremely smooth, you must be more careful, because what you gain at this time may be lost in another form at another time. When surprise and bad luck arrive at the same time, there is no foolproof way to avoid it. For a while, it seems that we can find an excuse for our mistakes, but slowly, when there are more and more such excuses, the consequences of mistakes will always appear, and those that you have abandoned will always be returned to you in another form, at that time, how can you abandon it again?
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