Although I don't know how much courage it will take to go on an expedition spanning 1,600 kilometers! How much patience will it take to be obedient and accommodating for more than 1,000 days! However, it is obvious that it only takes a slap in the face to extinguish a piece of sincerity and goodwill!
Recently, there was an experience of a woman in Guizhou, which made people feel both angry and sad!
The woman said that she was married from Guizhou to Anhui, because of the long distance and the previous epidemic, she only went to her mother's house once in three years of marriage.
Because I miss my parents at home very much, I plan to go back to my mother's house in Guizhou for the Spring Festival this year, but I didn't expect to encounter unexpected things because of this.
Hearing that she was going back to her parents' house, her father-in-law was very dissatisfied and resolutely opposed her decision, because of "the water spilled by the married daughter", the woman disagreed with this statement, so she replied that "even if I am old, I am my parents' daughter, and I will definitely go home this year"......
Unexpectedly, this sentence touched the sensitive nerves of his father-in-law, causing him to slap him directly.
The woman who was slapped by her father-in-law had no sleep all night, and the next day she drove back to Guizhou with her husband.
After the woman's encounter was posted on the Internet, it caused heated discussions among netizens.
The New Year is approaching, whether the New Year is spent at the mother's house or at the in-law's house is actually a huge problem that many couples must argue about every year but have never been solved.
Under normal circumstances, the man always feels that since he is married to himself, the New Year will naturally be spent in his own home. But the woman feels that she has been at her mother-in-law's house all year round, and she has to return to her parents to do her filial piety and happiness after the New Year.
Both sides have their own reasons and difficulties, especially the single-child family, which is even more difficult to reconcile when the New Year is celebrated.
However, in the traditional customs of the mainland, most regions and families still default to the general Spring Festival daughter-in-law at her mother-in-law's house, and then take her husband and children back to her parents' house on the second day of the Lunar New Year or a certain day of the first lunar month.
Although this is an old tradition in many places, due to the arrival of the epidemic and the changes in the actual situation, this tradition has long been quietly changed.
After all, the Spring Festival is a great day for reunions, as long as you are happy, you can do anything!
It's just that in the traditional thinking of many older generations, they are still more resistant to getting married during the Spring Festival and returning to their parents' homes for the New Year.
Obviously, this woman's father-in-law is such a person.
In his concept, he is very opposed to the idea of a woman going back to her parents' house for the Spring Festival. Because of his inherent thinking, he felt that this was unacceptable, because the daughter who married out was the water that was spilled, and of course he did not have the right to go back to his parents' house for the New Year!
This kind of thinking can be described as ridiculous, to paraphrase a phrase often said by young people, that is, people marry into your family, not sell to your family!
The woman's parents worked hard to raise their children so that she could live happily, not one day in the future, once they get married, they will be like missing persons, they can only listen to their daughter's voice on the phone, see their daughter's appearance in the video, and they will not see their children for several years!
Moreover, the woman's father-in-law actually beat someone because of the woman's rebuttal, which is even more unacceptable.
What did the woman say, the woman said that no matter how old she is, she is also the daughter of her parents, is this sentence wrong?
Of course, this sentence is true, the blood relationship between parents and children can only be changed or even severed because of the marriage of their daughter? Could it be that your son is your son until he dies, and his daughter is bought out when she marries into your family?
What age is this, he still does it, and it is his father-in-law who beats his daughter-in-law, and he is not afraid of being laughed at if he doesn't go!
Fortunately, the woman was strong enough, and she took her husband to Guizhou directly the next day, leaving her father-in-law to regret it alone!
My father-in-law obviously regretted it, otherwise he wouldn't have made an excuse to say that he came here because of high blood pressure!
Anyway, netizens don't believe it, after all, there are so many hypertensive patients in China, I haven't heard of anyone who is sick and beats someone, and even beat their own daughter-in-law!
It's no wonder that the father-in-law regretted it, because of this slap, the daughter-in-law ran away, and even ran away with his son, and what's even worse is that the son also agreed to sell the house in Anhui, and when the time comes, he will go to Guizhou to buy a house and settle down, so that it is not so easy to see his son again!
As the so-called feng shui rotates, you think that people are splashing water on your house, but now your son is running away with his daughter-in-law, is it your turn to be confused?
are all parents, compare their hearts to their hearts, people's daughters-in-law are not bad to you, treat people so ruthlessly, and even do it, no wonder people are cold, and they say that they will never step into Anhui again!
It's hard to be a parent, it's hard to be a child, and it's even more difficult to be a daughter-in-law! If we can't understand each other, how can we live a good life?