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In another state of mind, I understand:
The most comfortable way for people to get along with each other is to appreciate each other's goodness and understand each other's suffering.
Life is hard, the rest of your life is not long, and it is really important to be with people who are comfortable with you.
Two people who know each other are like this, even if they just stand quietly and don't say a word, they are beautiful and comfortable enough, comfortable and comfortable enough.
02
In another state of mind, I understand:
No one's contribution is taken for granted, and no one is obligated to be good to anyone all the time.
The regrets that have been lost cannot be made up, and the unpredictable that has not yet come.
Don't lose the people who are good to you, don't let loss teach you love.
03
In another state of mind, I understand:
There is a price to be paid for talking nonsense: the deepest hurt to others in the world is always language, and when we talk nonsense, when we speak insultingly to others, it will never be erased like the scar left by a nail on a tree.
We must do a good job of making money cuts, manage our mentality, make money in a principled way, manage our pockets well, and spend money in moderation. When you're fine, may you make money to buy a sense of security. When you have time, may you spend money to buy happiness.
There is a price to be paid for losing your temper: what temper, what disease. When you are angry, your qi and blood are blocked, and it is easy to produce nodules and hyperplasia, and when you are angry, your liver is damaged and you are prone to coldness.
04
In another state of mind, I understand:
The meticulous care and doting on our children at the beginning not only made us a burden, but also made our children unable to stand up for life.
Afraid of hardship, suffering for a lifetime, not afraid of hardship, suffering for a while. The truly meaningful hardship is not simply a material grievance for the child, but for the child to overcome the hardship through hard work, win what he really wants, and gain the confidence to live independently in the second half of his life.
There is no hardship in vain in life, and there is no road to walk in vain. The hardships you endure now and the injuries you suffer now will become badges in the future. If you don't experience wind and rain, how can you see a rainbow, this is not wrong at all!
05
In another state of mind, I understand:
There are two things in life: busy, sober and sober. Idle, confused.
A person's maturity is to know how to be confused. Be confused with your friends, don't care about giving to get it, be confused with others, so that you can win trust, be confused with your lover, give him freedom and give yourself space, be confused about things, and the boat will naturally go straight to the bridge.
For the rest of your life, you have to live in confusion, live happily, and be content!
06
In another state of mind, I understand:
The most important thing in life is never how much you have, but whether your heart is satisfied.
Don't force what doesn't belong to you, and let go of what you can't get.
Don't blindly compare, don't get entangled, don't escape, and use the best attitude to meet a new tomorrow.
07
In another state of mind, I understand:
"The dead cannot be pursued, but the coming can still be waited. "Don't dwell in the shadows of the past, or you'll never see the road ahead.
Some things, wave your hand, the past is over, and when you come out, it is spring.
The British philosopher Russell, who lived to be 98 years old, said: "Man cannot live in memories, in nostalgia for the good old days, or in mourning for a friend who has died." One should put one's mind on the future, on what one needs to do on oneself. ”
08
In another state of mind, I understand:
There is no easy word in the adult world, ordinary people like you and me, everyone has their own unspeakable sadness.
If life is destined to be full of hardships, then learn to be the hero who saved yourself.
09
In another state of mind, I understand:
A true friend is a heart-to-heart friend who speaks the truth, not polite greetings and hypocritical flattery.
If you are lucky enough to meet someone who is worthy of sincere communication, please remember to cherish it.
10
In another state of mind, I understand:
Some roads have to be walked alone after all.
Even if the road ahead is long and full of thorns, as long as you are brave enough to overcome it, all the hardships you have experienced will one day be able to say it with a smile.
May you go through the wind and rain and still run with a smile.
Source: WeChat public account "Tang Poetry Song Ci Yuan Qu"
Author: Lin Dihuan
Editor: Wu Xicheng
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