Zhu Dan: "Are you worried about your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law?"
Jin Sha: "I read it in the book, and there are some things I don't want to do when I go to visit my mother-in-law. ”
Zhu Dan: "What should you not do?"
Jin Sha: "You can't easily enter the kitchen and encroach on other people's territory. ”
Zhu Dan: "But there are also some books that say you can go to the kitchen and ask if your future mother-in-law needs help." ”
Jinsha: "Yes, I have to ask. ”
Zhu Dan: "You can ask us in the future, don't go to the book." ”
It makes sense that Jin Sha saw in the book not to go into the kitchen for the first time when she goes to her in-law's house, but it doesn't necessarily apply to all her in-laws, because the situation of each in-law's house is different.
The book says not to go into the kitchen, so that girls don't catch up and don't be looked down upon by their in-laws, but etiquette must also be done, just like Zhu Dan said, you have to ask your future mother-in-law if she needs help.
If the mother-in-law takes the initiative to let the future daughter-in-law help or even cook, then you have to observe the family style of the mother-in-law.
