Teacher Li took revenge on the father of the student
With more than 30 years of teaching, Mr. Li has always boasted of his rigorous teaching style and is deeply respected by his students. However, a past incident became a pain in his heart, that is, more than ten years ago, he was humiliated in public by the father of a student named Zhang Qiang, and this incident has become a knot in his heart since then.
One day, more than a decade later, when Mr. Li was checking the list of new students, he was surprised to find that Zhang Qiang's son, Zhang Ming, had been placed in his class.
As a result, Mr. Li began to make things difficult for Zhang Ming, criticizing his words and deeds for no reason, often saying that he was inattentive in class and his homework was incomplete and sloppy. Zhang Ming explained that he had worked very hard, but Mr. Li just didn't accept his explanation.
What made Zhang Ming even more angry was that when he did well in the exam, Mr. Li also deliberately lowered his score, giving him only 42 points on the English test of 65 points.
Gradually, Zhang Ming was in a mess in the class, lost his motivation to study, and his grades plummeted. Seeing this, the other students ignored Zhang Ming, leaving him gradually isolated in the class.
Teacher Li was secretly proud in his heart, and he was extremely excited to teach Zhang Ming a lesson. But in fact, his practice of revenge in this way is extremely immoral. A tutor should not take revenge on someone else by hurting an innocent student.
Mr. Li's actions not only dealt a serious blow to Zhang Ming's self-confidence, but also set a bad example for other students, causing students to lose due respect for the profession of teacher.
Teacher Lu threatened the students
Ms. Lu is a highly qualified teacher, but she is strict in her studies and often makes things difficult for her student Xiao Li for no reason. Whenever the other students were ready to go home after class, Xiao Li had to stay behind to help Mr. Lu sort out the mountains of old materials, and he couldn't go home until 7 or 8 o'clock in the evening.
Xiao Li studied hard when he first entered school, hoping to win over Teacher Lu. But no matter how hard she tries, Teacher Lu will find fault with her and be dissatisfied with nothing. Gradually, Xiao Li swallowed his anger and never dared to complain.
Until one day, when the school organized a spring outing, it was found that the budget was missing. Later, it was confirmed that Mr. Lu embezzled public funds and bought an expensive brand-name handbag.
This is beyond Xiao Li's bottom line. That night, she reported Teacher Lu with her real name in the class group, and other students also provided evidence to expose Teacher Lu's frequent abuse of power for personal gain.
In the end, Mr. Lu was expelled. Xiao Li and other classmates finally regained their lives and ushered in a bright campus life. Xiao Li had the courage to expose the darkness and won everyone's recognition and admiration.
Cool plans a wedding to take revenge on Xiaohong
Qingliang and Xiaohong grew up together and have a good relationship. But later, Xiaohong's personality changed greatly, and she often teased and bullied Qingliang in public, making her make a fool of herself in front of her friends.
Once the class organized a spring outing, Xiaohong deliberately threw her cool backpack into the trash, and then imitated her in a cool tone, causing everyone to laugh.
Qingliang endured the humiliation, but he had silently recorded this grievance in his heart.
Years later, when he learned that Xiaohong was about to have a grand wedding, Qingliang decided to let Xiaohong also taste the pain of being made ugly. She contacted a video editing master and edited the photo video of Xiaohong bullying herself into a wedding speech video, which was extremely vicious and abusive.
On the day of the wedding, Qing Liang blended into the group of guests and quietly approached the control room. Before the newcomers entered, she took advantage of the staff's unpreparedness and quickly replaced the original version of the speech video.
In anticipation, a video of the bride being insulted suddenly flashed on the big screen, and all the guests were stunned. Xiaohong's face turned pale, covering her face and looking pained. Cool and happy to take revenge, but also guilty for hurting the innocent groom. This revenge did not solve the problem and only sent chills down everyone's mind.
Qingliang uses Xiaofang to take revenge on his friend
Qingliang managed to get close to her friend's daughter Xiaofang, first frequently giving gifts to express her concern, and then slowly gaining her trust. Qingliang did this because she hated Xiaofang's parents and wanted to take revenge through Xiaofang.
It turned out that Xiaofang's parents Xu Jue and Li Jian had inadvertently leaked one of Qingliang's private information, which caused Qingliang to be ridiculed by friends at that time. Qingliang has always held a grudge against this matter and is determined to take revenge.
Qingliang began to deliberately instigate Xiaofang to lie in front of her classmates to show off her wealth, saying that her family was very rich and she drove a famous car and lived in a big mansion. also asked Xiaofang to trick her classmates into giving her money, claiming to buy gifts for them.
The innocent Xiaofang completely listened to the cool words. She repeatedly violated her parents' requests, quarreled with her classmates, and finally ran out to play without permission. Xiaofang, who has always been well-behaved, has become a lot of problems, which makes her parents very sad.
Xiaofang's parents found the cool theory, and then they knew that she was instigating Xiaofang. The two families had a big quarrel, and the relationship broke down completely. Sure enough, Qing's revenge plan was achieved, but her cruel methods cost a simple child a terrible price.
Between people, only by repaying virtue with virtue can resentment be resolved and let the sunshine shine into life again. Qingliang chose to return a tooth for a tooth, which only resulted in more injuries.
Should we be tolerant or take revenge?
Through the above examples of revenge, we can see that revenge seems to be a shortcut to solving problems. When faced with injustice or harm, people often choose to retaliate on impulse.
For example, Qingliang planned a wedding to take revenge after being bullied, and Mr. Li made things difficult for students after being humiliated, all of them wanted to balance their psychology and get relief in this way.
But, as these examples show, revenge often backfires, implicating more innocent people. Cool wedding revenge not only seriously damages the mood of the groom and guests, but can also create a rift that is difficult to repair for the two families.
Teacher Li's revenge also caused an innocent student's learning and psychological problems.
The reason why people choose revenge is driven by some negative emotions. For example, low self-esteem can drive people to take revenge and want to gain psychological balance by hurting others. Misunderstandings and differences of opinion can also trigger revenge, and people want to vent their grievances through drastic means.
But what we need to think about is, does revenge really solve the problem? Venting for a moment may bring psychological satisfaction, but then more people will be hurt, and the problem will escalate.
Therefore, we should not choose to hurt others to vent our personal emotions.
Instead, tolerance and communication are the keys to solving problems. We need to put ourselves in the shoes of others, put ourselves in their shoes, and give them a second chance.
When we reflect on our own shortcomings, take the initiative to express our demands, and seek forgiveness, the other party is more able to open their hearts.
Human nature is inherently good, everyone will have faults, and they need to be forgiven by others. Only by tolerating the mistakes of others with a broad mind and dissolving resentment with warmth can we make the flowers in front of the court bloom and the fragrance of birds and flowers warm the world.
Therefore, tolerance is more effective than revenge in helping us resolve our problems and bring the sun back into our lives. We need to be discerning when faced with a choice, and not to do things that hurt nature and reason.
Everyone deserves a second chance, and that requires forgiveness.