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In 1971, Daolang was born in an ordinary family, his father was a behind-the-scenes worker, and his mother was a dancer. There is also an older brother in the family, his craft is very good, and he often teaches Daolang to play the guitar, so Daolang has developed a strong interest in music since he was a child. He often forgets to do his homework and instead concentrates on practicing playing the guitar.
However, the good times did not last long, and when Daolang was 12 years old, his brother broke up with his girlfriend and ran away from home due to his own misleading, and unfortunately died in a car accident that night. This was a very big blow to Daolang's spirit, and he deeply blamed himself, believing that his brother's death was caused by himself.
After that, Daolang became very introverted and reticent, locking himself in the house every day, playing his brother's favorite guitar.
At the age of 16, Daolang couldn't bear this mental torture, ran away from home, and began a difficult wandering life. He had a low education, had no professional skills, and could only survive on begging and handouts from well-wishers.
After that, he got a job as a cabaret waiter, where he got acquainted with some singers, consulted them, and got their guidance to improve his voice, while also learning some instrumental skills.
At the age of 18, Daolang formed a band with several like-minded musicians, and the name of the band was "Scalpel". However, due to the lack of fame in their band at the time, opportunities to perform were very scarce, so the members soon struggled to make ends meet, and eventually had to disband.
While singing in the bar, Daolang met his first wife, Yang Na. Yang Na was 31 years old at the time, 8 years older than Daolang, and was a dancer. She had just ended a failed marriage, was more introverted, and often went to that bar to get drunk.
Other men often take the opportunity to commit indecent acts against Yang Na, but Daolang stands up every time to protect her safety.
As time passed, Yang Na developed a crush on the young singer Daolang. Probably in order to fill the gap of past pain, she took the initiative to show favor to Daolang, and the two soon fell in love.
may be because of Daolang's desire for family, and they entered the palace of marriage after only one year of acquaintance.
However, the path of this marriage is destined to be tortuous. Yang Na's ex-husband had a privileged family, and he also shared a lot of money when he divorced, so that she gradually developed a lifestyle of spending money.
However, Daolang, who is a bar singer, has an extremely meager income and cannot meet her needs at all. As a result, the two often quarrel over money. In addition, Yang Na has a straightforward personality, but after pregnancy, her emotions became extremely unstable, and she often made a lot of noise, which made Daolang tired of coping.
Just when her daughter was about to be born, a quarrel over a 200 yuan bag finally made Yang Na lose control of her emotions. She ran to the bar where Daolang worked, scolded him mercilessly, and announced in public that she regretted marrying such an incompetent man and couldn't give her the life she wanted.
then left angrily, and filed for divorce after giving birth to only one daughter.
After Yang Na left, Daolang fell into a trough of despair, and even mistakenly thought that Yang Na chose to leave because he couldn't afford the 200 yuan bag, so he used all his savings to buy the bag, hoping to apologize and save the relationship.
However, Daolang finally found Yang Na a few months later, but all he received was a divorce agreement. Yang Na's tone was cold, saying that she would never be with Daolang again.
Daolang realized that the fundamental reason for Yang Na's departure was actually that he could not meet the material life she longed for.
After the divorce, Daolang had to give up his music career, and in order to support himself and his newborn daughter, he had to do odd jobs everywhere. In the early days, life was very difficult, they lived in a small house of only a dozen square meters, and the money for milk powder was often insufficient.
In order to earn more money and raise his daughter to grow up healthily, Daolang worked hard like an old cow.
Two months later, he had to temporarily entrust his daughter to his parents to raise, and he returned to the path of music. He is still singing in bars to make a living, amassing contacts and resources to try to change his fate.
Perhaps as fate would have it, on a snowy day in 2002, he composed the song that would become very popular - "The First Snow in 2002".
As soon as the song "The First Snow in 2002" was launched, it immediately became popular all over the country and pushed him to the peak of his life. Immediately afterwards, he composed the popular "Love Song of the Western Regions", which made him famous.
Relying on these two songs, Daolang was officially promoted to the first-line singer, got extremely high social influence and rich economic income, and became a successful person with both fame and fortune.
In stark contrast to Daolang's success, his ex-wife Yang Na's life has plummeted. After learning the news of Daolang's popularity, Yang Na was full of regret and delusional that she could get back together with Daolang.
She even found Daolang in person and confessed her wrong choice back then with tears in her eyes.
However, what was missed has been missed, and Daolang did not accept Yang Na's request in the end. Because in his most difficult moment, Zhu Mei, who has always been by his side, has replaced Yang Na's place and become his new home.
Daolang was grateful for Zhu Mei's care over the years and decided to spend the rest of his life with her.
So, Daolang and Zhu Mei formed a new family and lived a happy life. But Yang Na had to face the cruelty of reality and continued to live the same difficult life as Daolang back then.
She began to reflect that if she hadn't chosen to leave in the first place, she might have been able to share his current wealth and reputation with Daolang now.
Time flies, and the former dancer Yang Na is over half a hundred years old, and her face is no longer there. She staggered down the crowded streets, dressed modestly and with gray temples, and the years had left a deep mark on her face.
Her long wandering life made her look at least ten years older than her actual age.
Daolang has become a well-known singer and producer. He owns dozens of properties and lives in a sprawling mansion. The car is also one of the best in the country.
Daolang is over half a hundred years old, but his body is still strong, and the company has equipped him with countless assistants, whether it is catering or other living needs, there are special people to take care of it, and his life is very comfortable and worry-free.
He earned his first pot of gold by his own efforts and established a happy family with his beloved wife Zhu Mei. Both daughters are now adults and have achieved some success in their respective fields.
The gap between the contrasts was so huge that Yang Na was tormented. She thought that if she hadn't left Daolang so hastily back then, maybe she would have been able to live a worry-free life like him now, living in a luxurious house, and if she hadn't cared so much about material comforts at that time and chose to believe in Daolang's future growth potential, she might have enjoyed a happy life now.
Whenever she thinks of this, Yang Na regrets it, and even cries alone in the middle of the night.
"You can't fulfill the life I want, I'm leaving, don't come to me in the future. Yang Na still remembers the scene when she said this sentence to Daolang.
At that time, Daolang was still a small singer, his clothes were ragged, and he lived in a simple rental house. Yang Na could have understood his plight, as she herself did not come from a wealthy family.
But she just couldn't tolerate Daolang's lifestyle, and she became more and more irritated that he had no money and no future.
Especially after becoming pregnant, Yang Na's body and emotions have changed dramatically, becoming more sensitive and suspicious. She often loses her temper for no reason, complaining that Daolang didn't give her the good life she wanted.
In the end, when her daughter was about to be born, a quarrel caused by the inability to buy a bag completely broke Yang Na's sanity. She ran to Daolang's place of work uncontrollably, insulted him loudly in public, and announced her divorce from him.
Looking back on the past, Yang Na couldn't help but feel ashamed of her actions. She shouldn't have abandoned the man who loved her and her children because of small setbacks in her life.
The original choice was so sloppy and selfish, if I could tolerate Daolang's shortcomings and believe in his potential, my life might be different.
After all this, Yang Na has a piece of advice for young women: don't give up just because your lover can't give you a rich life for the time being, true love is more valuable than material things.
Daolang was just an ordinary singer at that time, unable to bring himself fame and fortune, and he could not buy brand-name jewelry. However, his love for himself and his children is so sincere that money cannot buy it.
If I hadn't left him so hastily at that time and chose to believe and support him, my life would definitely be completely different now.
Girl, if the boy you love can't meet your material needs for a while, don't give up on him easily. If he is loyal to you and willing to change himself for you, then give him the opportunity to grow.
The most valuable thing in love is sincerity, which is the cornerstone of happiness. Although money comes quickly, it also goes fast, and only two people who truly love each other are together and support each other in order to survive the wind and rain together and welcome the rainbow of life.