Challenging the traditional concept of marriage and love! The woman put forward five unique mate selection conditions, which caused heated discussions
In today's society, the concept of marriage and love has been repeatedly challenged, and the latest striking is a woman's five special conditions as the standard for marriage, which has sparked widespread discussion. Where did this eye-catching marriage and love turmoil come from?
First of all, she proposed that she needed a bride price of up to 2 million, which made people question whether this sky-high price was reasonable. This raises questions about her own advantages, after all, will people with 2 million dowries really fall in love with this "beauty"?
Some netizens expressed their confusion about the eldest sister's request for a bride price of 2 million, thinking that this is an overly utilitarian view of marriage. It was mentioned that marriage should be based on affection and mutual understanding, not money.
Incredibly, the eldest sister said that she would never do housework when she got married, because in her opinion, it was equivalent to being a free nanny. This provoked reflections on her understanding of marriage and family, as well as discussions about equality and responsibility.
The eldest sister said that she didn't do housework, and netizens were divided into two factions. Some see it as a challenge to the traditional gender division of labour, emphasizing equality between men and women, while others see it as a pursuit of happiness and that housework should be a shared responsibility between husband and wife.
Thirdly, the eldest sister asked that the child must have her surname, and for this, she argued that it was a sign of respect for women who conceived in October. This view may resonate with some men, but whether everyone can accept it is still a matter of debate.
Fourth, the eldest sister demanded that her husband's salary and her father-in-law's pension must be handed over to her to ensure that she was the mistress of the house. This has led to reflections on the role of money in marriage and the distribution of power, and has also challenged the traditional model of family economics.
The eldest sister's requirements for money management have caused a lot of controversy. Some netizens said that this was a test of trust in marriage, questioning whether the sincerity of marriage should be measured by money. Others see it as a way to maintain their sense of security.
In the end, the eldest sister demanded that the man must have a house and a car. Regarding the requirement that the man must have a house and a car, netizens generally believe that this is an overly idealistic condition. Some people jokingly said that rural adobe houses are also houses, and bicycles are also cars, which has raised questions among netizens about whether these suggestions are true and feasible, and whether such conditions are too harsh. This also stimulates the perception of money and material things in marriage.
From a family perspective, the eldest sister's condition may reflect her special expectations of family roles and responsibilities. She hopes to enjoy more rights and superiority in marriage, which may stem from her personal understanding and expectations for marriage. However, it also raises the question of whether the traditional concept of the family needs to be re-examined, and the changing role of the family in modern society.
Secondly, from a social point of view, the mate selection conditions of the eldest sister may reflect the special pursuit of money, power and material conditions of some people in today's society. The values of society are constantly evolving, and this strong demand for bride price, money and material conditions may be a challenge to traditional notions, and it may also be an expression of the individual's place in the family in the context of social change.
From a personal point of view, the eldest sister's condition may be a manifestation of her personal worth and pursuit of a happy life. She hopes to ensure that she can have more rights and protections in her marriage through these conditions, which is her unique understanding of marriage. However, it also raises questions about the balance between individual rights and marital relationships, and whether individuals are too materialistic in their choice of partners.
When looking at such phenomena rationally, we should fully understand the expectations and pursuits of different individuals for marriage and family. This diversity is prevalent in today's society, and the condition of the eldest sister may be just one extreme manifestation of it.
Some netizens ridiculed, "You have such a good-looking appearance, 2 million dowry is not worthy of you, how can you get 200 million, you have your left eye staring at people, and your right eye is sentry, it is recommended to look at your eyes first, and then check your brain!"
In the face of the unique mate selection conditions proposed by this eldest sister, we should examine this phenomenon with a rational and open mind. The diversity of ideas about marriage is a natural product of social change, and everyone has different expectations and values for marriage.
When discussing and commenting, let's be respectful of the choices of others, whether we agree with them or not, and treat them in an inclusive manner. Marriage is not only a contract between individuals, but also a manifestation of social diversity, and let us work together to build a society that embraces different ideas and respects diversity.
Marriage is a responsibility, a commitment to life. When choosing a partner, should responsibility and commitment be more important than material conditions?
Finally, readers are invited to leave their own opinions. What do you think of this eldest sister's criteria for choosing a mate, do you agree with her? Let's share our views in the comments and discuss the diversity of ideas about marriage in today's society.