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What is the mind of the person who says such a thing?
The bride price should be called a dowry in ancient times.
It turned out that when I was not married, I felt that the dowry that the woman asked for from the man was vulgar. Now that I'm old and understand, if a man can't even handle the problem of a dowry, what big things can he deal with in the future, can you trust your life to a stranger?
Marriage is too important for a woman, and it seems like a ritual for a man. If the marriage breaks down, it is the women who will hurt the most, and many men can find them one by one.
The dowry cannot be beaten to death with a stick, it is a test of a man's attitude, a sense of responsibility for adults to solve problems.
In ancient times, the dowry was equivalent to buying out the relationship between the woman and her mother's family, regardless of her mother's family affairs, not supporting her parents and old age, entering the door to have children, honoring her in-laws, taking care of housework, and having to complete her body, it is almost impossible to divorce, unless she is divorced or the man has a major fault to divorce. Rights and obligations coexist. Now we are only talking about rights and obligations?
If you want a bride price, you must have a perfect body and a good wife and mother! Who wants to spend money to buy an ancestor? Since it is a two-way street, you must both meet the demands of the other party.
Besides, the dowry is not how much you have to give, but how much you have to give, what is it now, is the situation that the woman wants to give as much as she wants, and it is not okay not to give it, do you say that this is still a dowry?
In rural areas, the woman is expected to marry into the man's family. Well, it's okay to ask for some bride price, but in moderation. In the city, both men and women often set up a new family, and both parents will take care of it, so it is important that the bride price should be abolished in the city, and both men and women will support the small family together.
If you just want an attitude, if you just want an attitude, you may have a pervert when you want to borrow it, and you should have a pervert when you borrow it, rather than having to get real money or the man has an attitude.
Now that the boy has bought a house and a car, he wants to take responsibility for the bride price and his strength must allow, you must know that most boys are ordinary people who get a dead salary, and they rely on their parents to save some money, so how many people have the ability to give hundreds of thousands of bride price money to those who open and close their mouths, marriage is a matter of two young people and two families, and both families have the obligation to support and start up the small family within their means, and there is no reason for the man's family to pay.
The dowry is a gift from the man to the woman, and the more or less depends on the economic conditions of the man's family. The crux of the matter is that the woman cannot ask for a dowry, let alone dislike the low dowry and ask for a sky-high price. Is this the case now? Can the man decide how much the bride price is? The bride price is the woman's clear price, or even the sky-high asking price, and if she can't meet it, she refuses to get married. Is the bride price and the bride price still the same thing? Some people can't even tell the difference between the bride price and the bride price, which is really sad.
What is a dowry: to popularize, three books and six ceremonies of the bride ceremony, the man under the bridal cloth and other items, the female bride cut to make the wedding dress quilt, whether the bride price and the bride price are not money, the two names are different mainly in the identity, the difference between the wife and the concubine is not the same meaning. Marriage can only be a nobleman with a lot of money to marry ten miles of red makeup, the principle of etiquette to send the appointment back to the ceremony, and the name of the gift money only exists in the big recruitment. It's funny to treat gifts as money, and it's just a gift for a little common sense.
The bride price and dowry are all tests of the economic conditions of the man's family, so there is no problem for the woman to bring it up, the key is that someone opens his mouth...... And then the woman will do nothing. It's just that one can't get married, and the other can't afford to marry. A group of young masters and princesses are not happy after marriage. Because they are all ordinary people, there is no inheritance of hundreds of millions of money in the family. It's all about work and housework.
And the dowry, in ancient times, should be called dowry.
It turned out that when I was not married, I felt that the woman's dowry was vulgar. Now that I'm old and understand, if a woman can't even handle the problem of a dowry, what big things can she deal with in the future, can you rest assured that you will hand over your life to a stranger?
Marriage is too important for a man, and it seems like a ritual for a woman. If the marriage breaks down, it is the men who hurt the most, and many women can find it one by one.
Marriage, which cannot be beaten to death with a stick, is a test of a woman's attitude and an adult's sense of responsibility to solve problems.
If a woman who can't even handle the issue of dowry can't handle it well, it is better not to get married.
There are also some women who often talk about testing their attitudes, testing men's attitudes? Testing men's attitudes to search their parents? In the past, there was a dowry, and the in-laws paid for it, and at the same time, women had to follow their filial in-laws and teach their children when they got married. What's the matter with my in-laws now? All I have left is the dowry, the house, the money, the effort, and the work, and there is only pay, and there is nothing to report. Is it really embarrassing to use a man to kidnap your in-laws again?
Now the bride price is not a buyout, it is a high-priced lease, one day you make her angry, divorce if you are unhappy, give you a cuckold if you don't divorce, give birth to someone else's child if you are unhappy, you don't care how many men I have lived with before marriage, anyway, don't care about how much you break, don't let you take away the first bride price, let those who want to get married give the bride price. I've never objected to a bride price, but do you have to think about what you're worth?
Do you know that the bride price is a dowry, so do you know that the dowry has an open mouth to ask for? There is also a bargain? In this era, there are still people who naively think that using money can test a man's attitude? If this is the case, then in ancient times, the landlord Haoqiang should have the best attitude, who cares if you marry the family as the first concubine, anyway, it is a good attitude, and it is also a good attitude to buy back and eat meat.
Whether the man and woman are suitable is not only the combination of two people, but also the combination of two families, so it is necessary to be the right person, and it is easier to tolerate and respect each other in the future. This is the same reason as when you visit leaders and nobles, or ask people to do things empty-handed, so it is said that "no appointment is not a courtesy".
As for the amount of the dowry, there is no fixed number, just take what you can get according to your own conditions. To be too stingy is to disrespect the other party, and it is obviously powerless and unnecessary, it depends on the attitude of the other party, after all, marriage is a matter of two families, and whether it is suitable or not is only judged by the parties.
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