Some people don't pour a thousand cups, and some people go up with a cup. There is a fan circle culture in the entertainment industry, and there is also a wine table culture in the workplace. Wine table culture, this is really an old and controversial topic in the mainland.
There are a lot of rules on the wine table, such as the lower the glass mouth when drinking and clinking glasses, the more you look up to the other party, and the leader persuades you not to drink, you don't give the leader face, which is really annoying!
It's not the end of the year again, everyone has worked hard all year round, whether it's sitting in the village, visiting relatives and friends, or attending a wedding, alcohol is indispensable.
News about drinking accidents
Especially in the past 2023, there are many news about drinking accidents:
In March 2023, a man went to the First Affiliated Hospital of Chongqing Medical University for medical treatment after a hangover. After examination, the doctor found that the man had a fracture of the lumbar vertebrae, which was caused by osteoporosis.
In May 2023, a man was sent to the emergency department of Zhejiang Provincial People's Hospital after a hangover. After examination, the doctor found that the man had high blood pressure, fast heart rate, and low blood potassium, and was finally diagnosed with hyperkalemia.
In June 2023, a man was sent to the emergency department of Henan Provincial People's Hospital after a hangover. After examination, doctors found serious complications such as alcohol poisoning, liver failure, lung infection, and respiratory failure.
So do you know what the unspoken rules are?
If you don't drink it, you will not give face, which is really embarrassing at this time.
Toasts should be made in order, starting with the person with the highest status and highest rank at the table. You can only drink when the elders bring a wine glass.
After drinking, I like to show off, what awesome things I have done, if you don't show off, it will be difficult to fit into this circle.
Sometimes it's a bit out of place when it's a joke. Especially the parties and some vulgar ones, it is difficult to maintain the proper demeanor.
How to deal with the bad wine table culture correctly?
Learn to say no. If you don't want to drink, then set up a persona who doesn't drink and is allergic to alcohol. Don't be afraid of offending people, a few more times everyone will know that you can't drink.
Learn to be calm. At the wine table, you can't go up, those who have drunk do things without thinking, and often need others to help him recall the next day, so don't let someone else's drunken joke get out of control, just think that there is a dog barking in front.
Learn to run. If the scene is not under your control, and it is about to get out of control, listen to me, run away immediately, and find an excuse to leave. But don't smash the table when you leave, people are very sensitive at this time.
Do you have anything to complain about the wine table culture?