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Editor|Situ Ye
Yao Di, who is spurned by everyone, has a new identity in 2024-
Director!
In January, the TV series "Grandma's Spring" was launched in Hengdian.
In the boot photo, Yao Di stands firmly in the C position, which is enough to see his status in the crew.
Interlaced like a mountain, from an actor to a director.
41-year-old Yao Di, can he "turn over" this time?
Compared with Yao Di's bleak current situation, Ma Yili and her.
It's literally heaven and earth.
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Since the "G incident" in 2014, every time she appears, she is inevitably abused.
Once the label of "third party" is labeled, it is difficult to take it off.
In 2014, she was photographed talking to me and me on the street with an article, and her actions were intimate.
The article was unfaithful in marriage and became a sure fact.
And Yao Di knew that the other party had a family, and he still behaved like this, which is despicable.
After being photographed, the reputation of both of them plummeted.
Prior to this, she had already been promoted to a first-line actress with "The Age of Naked Marriage".
The future is bright.
But she did such a thing that everyone and God were angry about, and she didn't blame the public for criticizing her.
After being accused of meddling in other people's feelings, Yao Di seems to have no remorse.
In an interview with the program, he was ashamed to say:
"I've never done anything that is unconscionable. ”
Cause and effect are reversed, and Yao Di's life and career have been counterattacked.
No one wants to ask her to film.
Later, she married a wealthy businessman.
After marriage, a wealthy businessman was photographed behaving intimately with other women.
Yao Di, a rich wife, obviously didn't go well.
Now, she wants to change her career to become a director, moving from the front of the stage to behind the scenes.
We'll see what she does.
Compared with Yao Di, Ma Yili, who gave up this relationship, is now in the limelight.
In the year-end drama "Flowers", with the role of "Reiko", his popularity reached a new high.
Reiko is spicy and resolute, vigorous and resolute.
In the eyes of the audience, Ma Yili is simply acting in her true colors.
She has always been regarded as a "strong" big woman.
In 2006, when filming "Jin Yiwei", she met the article.
The difference between the two is eight years.
Even though the article fell in love with the woman at first sight, Ma Yili had a great age difference in this sister-brother relationship.
And not interested.
Judging from the practice of future articles, when he met Ma Yili.
has already shown his ambitions.
We don't question his love for Ma Yili, but whether there are interests behind the feelings.
It's a big question mark.
Under the unremitting pursuit of the article, I finally got the beauty.
Before meeting Ma Yili, he was just a little-known actor.
After meeting his girlfriend, his resources visibly "soared" with the naked eye.
In 2008, the two even entered the palace of marriage.
This year, the two dramas "Snail House" and "Snow Leopard" made the article famous.
Ma Yili introduced all her network resources to her husband.
Even though the article's career has made great progress, in the eyes of outsiders, the couple is still "strong women and weak men".
In 2011, the article filmed "The Age of Naked Marriage" and met Yao Di.
Compared with Ma Yili, Yao Di is a veritable "little woman".
She adores the article and always looks at him with an upward posture.
The two eventually crossed the moral red line and came together.
After being photographed, most people felt sorry for Ma Yili.
felt that her true feelings had been let down.
But there are also a few people who say that it is because Ma Yili is too strong, so the article will make this choice.
This begs us to ponder a question:
Is being strong really a disadvantage for women?
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Regardless of whether it is strong or not, when we understand Ma Yili's view of strength.
You will understand that being strong in marriage is not the original sin.
Ma Yili was asked in an interview: Do you feel that you are a strong person?
Her answer was: No one is born strong.
Because you can't rely on others in reality, you have to make yourself strong.
Before entering marriage, she broke into the entertainment industry alone.
If he hadn't become stronger, he might not have today's Ma Yili.
In addition to her own factors, family education also has a great impact on her.
She was born in Shanghai, and her family was not wealthy when she was a child.
But her parents never treated her badly.
My mother always tried her best to make new patterns from old clothes so that she could go out beautifully.
As the only daughter in the family, although her parents love her, they are not overly arrogant.
Since she was a child, her parents have focused on cultivating her sense of independence.
When she was in love, she was warned to bring money with her when she went out, and not to blindly spend men's money.
In this way, the woman has a status.
The family's education "can't let others look down on you" made Ma Yili form a strong character.
In my opinion, she is not strong at all, even a very soft person.
When the article was first photographed, Ma Yili did not choose to divorce immediately.
Instead, he publicly said "do it and cherish it".
It can be seen that she has given the article a chance.
But it is difficult to reunite after the broken mirror, and some scars are healed.
Every time I look at it, there are still ripples in my heart.
The marriage between the two officially ended in 2019.
In this marriage, Ma Yili is undoubtedly the most hurt.
During her marriage, she rarely went out to film.
After female celebrities get married, the most asked questions are:
"How do you balance family and career?"
Ma Yili replied bluntly: "I can't balance it." ”
In reality, career and family are nothing more than two choices.
If it weren't for the family giving way to the cause.
If it weren't for the career giving way to the family.
Either way, the price paid by women is always a little more.
In this marriage, it is obvious that Ma Yili gave up more.
But in the end, they were not treated sincerely.
The "G incident" of the 2014 article became well-known.
From then on, as long as any of the three of them had any trouble, they would be overly concerned.
There are thousands of pairs of eyes that are constantly watching your relationship status.
This must be fatal to ordinary people.
But Ma Yili didn't care.
She is very aware that this is part of her job.
As a public figure, it is natural to bear a certain amount of public opinion pressure.
Regardless of her relationship status, her work never "betrayed" her.
The fact that work is always in her hands brings her great comfort.
As for the rest, she doesn't care what kind of label the outside world puts on her.
In the eyes of others, she is the perfect "perfect woman".
Even if you are betrayed by love, you can stand tall with your own strength.
In 2015, she won the 19th Huading Award for Best Actress in a TV Series with "Beishangguang Don't Believe in Tears".
In 2017, with the role of "Luo Zijun", she won the 24th Magnolia Best Actress.
In 2018, he won the Huading Award again with "Find You".
A woman who seems to be strong and unyielding, in fact, has times when she is weak.
So she also hopes that the audience will not see her as a god, but as a person.
There will be shortcomings, there will be weaknesses, just like ordinary people.
We often say that "life is like a play".
For Ma Yili, it is not "drama is like life".
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She felt like she was playing a different role and experiencing a different life.
In fact, it's just a true portrayal of a certain moment in my life.
In "The First Half of My Life", she was originally a "Mrs. Chen" who had no worries about food and clothing.
A pair of high heels is thousands of years old, and her daily work is to dress up beautifully.
Just when she thought that her happy family would last forever, a third person appeared.
As a fashionable and beautiful "Mrs. Chen", she didn't pay attention to Ling Ling in the face of a mediocre appearance.
Unexpectedly, her husband's G partner turned out to be this woman.
Luo Zijun is like Ma Yili in 2014.
thinks that he has a happy marriage, but in fact, he is already in danger.
Unlike Luo Zijun, Ma Yili did not cry after learning the facts.
Instead, choose to accept it calmly and then put the focus of your life on yourself.
After all, work is the most loyal companion.
"Triangle relationship", this is not the first time she has encountered it in the play.
In the urban drama "In the Distance", there are extremely similar episodes.
In an interview outside the play, she also used this drama to make a certain response to her past love life.
She bluntly said that the three people in the play cannot be simply summed up as "the man is too scum, and the woman is too humble." ”
Human nature is complex, and all three people in the play have noble souls.
And noble souls are fit to watch over each other.
The question is, can a noble soul be able to watch over three people together?
Ma Yili's reply was: "You can keep watch, because there are only a few lighthouses on the sea." ”
Use the lighthouse as a metaphor to solve this triangular relationship.
The noble soul is no longer limited to physical communication.
It's more about the pursuit and resonance of the spiritual level.
In any case, now two 0s have been divorced for five years.
Ma Yili seems to have lived out herself.
Independent, sober, and not at the best of a woman.
Living for his parents in his twenties.
Living for children in their thirties.
After the age of forty, live for yourself.
Fortunately, even if Ma Yili was emotionally traumatized, she still did not lose herself.
On January 23, she posted a photo with her eldest daughter on social platforms.
The 15-year-old eldest daughter is already slim.
Smile sweetly, generous and confident.
It can be seen that the relationship between mother and daughter is very harmonious.
has two daughters as companions, and I believe that Ma Yili is now living a much happier life than before.
epilogue
In marriage, there is the happiness of two people together.
In addition to marriage, there is also the freedom and chic of being alone.
No matter what state she is, she is always the bold Ma Yili!
She is worthy of her daughters and raises them well.
At the same time, she is also worthy of the audience and always repays the audience with excellent works.
At this point, she has surpassed a lot of people.
Some references:
"Ma Yili talks about no one is born strong"
"Ma Yili: The longest relationship between men and women is friends"