Bingxin said: "A good family is the source of all happiness and strength. ”
Home has an important meaning for everyone. It is not only a dwelling, but also a place where we place our hearts.
Living in a family with superior feng shui, no matter how strong the wind and rain outside is, when you return home, you can feel safe and warm.
The better the feng shui, the more often these three things are not touched. The more immobile, the more blessings the family will have.
Quarrel and do not get angry
German philosopher Leibniz: "No two leaves are exactly the same. ”
The same is true of people.
There are thousands of faces, and even the same issue will have a thousand different views, and disputes and frictions are inevitable.
This is especially true for family members who live under the same roof and don't see each other when they look up.
If you are calm and have something to say, you can turn big things into small things and small things.
Burning with anger and wantonly stabbing each other with the sword of words, it will only intensify and gradually become uncontrollable.
古人说：“和气致祥，乖气致戾。 ”
A harmonious, happy home can shelter people from the wind and rain.
A home that is angry with each other and blames each other will only bring wind and rain to life,
Quarrel without hands
In the book "Marriage Forbearance", Lao Wan's sister Wan Chunyan's house is about to be built, and she invites a group of relatives to a banquet.
My brother came uninvited, which made my sister unhappy. After going back and forth, the two families had a quarrel.
During the noise, Lao Wan was furious and started to push his brother-in-law Lao Jin. Coincidentally, the back of Lao Jin's head happened to hit the shovel stuck in the sand.
The enraged Lao Jin was not to be outdone, and picked up the shovel and was about to beat Lao Wan.
Lao Wan was also angry and lost his mind, picked up another shovel and fought with Lao Jin.
The two fought more and more intensely, and in the chaos, Lao Wan's shovel injured Lao Jin's shoulder.
Wan Chunyan saw that her husband had suffered a loss, so she pounced on her brother Lao Wan's leg and bit it.
In the end, the two families lost both. One lost his medical expenses and lost face. A lost person and was considered a wolf-hearted dog.
Liu Zhenyun once wrote a sentence in the book "One Sentence Top 10,000 Sentences": "One thing on the street is one thing, and one thing at home is eight things." ”
The members of a family are like vines that grow together, their stems and leaves intertwined.
If you are not careful, you may be involved in the other party.
A lot of things are plausible, and it's hard to sort out a clue.
If everything is more truthful, if you have to distinguish it clearly, it will only be more troublesome.
If you laugh and still let it pass in a daze, you can turn the page here.
Fight for "profit" without using your brain
Lawyer Long Fei once talked about a case:
A girl named Lin Lin was unwilling to accept her because her father died unexpectedly, and her mother who remarried was unwilling to accept her, so she was adopted to a distant relative who was not related by blood, and became the adopted daughter of the couple.
The sensible Lin Lin has always been very good to his adoptive parents, and he will send most of his salary to his adoptive parents after work.
But Lin Lin's adoptive parents were not satisfied, but instead made a small calculation.
In order to tie up Lin Lin and let her be a free babysitter all the time, they actually let Lin Lin marry their son who was divorced twice and had one child and became a nominal husband and wife.
In desperation, Lin Lin had no choice but to ask lawyer Long Fei for help.
Lawyer Long Fei also gave her advice, suggesting that she immediately sue for divorce and stay away from the family. She can give some alimony to her adoptive parents, but she is not obligated to take full responsibility for maintenance and to raise the child for her brother.
Although she is an adopted daughter, she regards her adoptive parents as her own child, works hard and resents, and tries her best to repay her, which is a great blessing for Lin Lin's adoptive parents, but they have to sacrifice Lin Lin's life for their own selfish interests.
The extremes of things must be reversed, and in the end it caused Lin Lin's rebellion, and the original blessing was gone.
Emotional mentor Tu Lei said:
"There will always be some waves in life. And we should have more understanding and care, and more empathy. ”
Home should be our habitat, a place where we can let go of our defenses and rest in peace.
Calculations and stratagems will only make it fall apart.
Only by caring and understanding can families be harmonious and better.
If you want to keep the blessings, don't use your brains when you should be attentive.
There is a sentence in Zhang Ailing's "Affection" that hits the nail on the head: "Born in this world, there is no relationship that is not full of holes." ”
Families with inferior feng shui will sting each other with hatred when something happens.
A family with the highest feng shui will use love to understand each other when encountering problems.
The more good the feng shui family, the more they know how to argue without anger, quarrel without hands, and fight for profit without brains.