My neighbor, Xiaogang's mother, often cried in front of me and said that her son had gone to college for a few years and had never found a job when he got home. What is the difference between going out to work and not going to college?
A neighbor and her son Xiaogang came to my house to chat, and Xiaogang said that he majored in literature and history in college. said that he only had a few professional classes a week, almost all of which were public courses such as Marx, modern history, social history, and so on.
Xiao Gang said that he knew a little bit about this major, but he didn't seem to understand anything. After graduating, he went to Shanghai, far away from home, to find a company to work in. I did an internship first, and after I became a regular, the salary was not high, only five or six thousand yuan.
He went on to say that he interviewed several companies at that time, and some of them did not pay a penny during the internship, and the salary after the internship period was not high, and the internship period was spent on his own money. It's good that he's found a similar company.
Many of his classmates have almost the same job, all of them are doing secretarial work in the company, answering the phone, picking up newspapers, and doing odd jobs. For a college student with a major like him, the major is not unique, and the salary is a little less.
Far away from home, there is no house but to rent a house, and share a house with others, the rent is about 1,000 per person a month. There are also meals and messy things that cost about 3,000 yuan.
He said that he had to work more than 12 hours a day, and he could only leave when the leaders were gone. Sometimes I have to work overtime on Sundays.
Xiao Gang said that he didn't want to work there anymore, and felt that the salary was too small, so he worked like this for 10 years, and he couldn't earn much money in 20 years. You can save 20,000 yuan a year, and you can save 200,000 yuan in ten years.
It takes 20 years to save 400,000 yuan, and now the house price is so high, even if the house price plummets now, it will cost about one million yuan to buy a house. He said that even in his hometown, the city and county seat, it would cost about one million yuan to buy a house.
He said that his salary was too low, but he couldn't find a good job, and people didn't want him.
Mom said that we also have people here who have found good jobs, and they all go to prestigious universities in science and stay in Shanghai and Beijing. With a monthly salary of more than 180,000 yuan, my son is not as talented as others.
Mom said it was really better not to go to college, and if you didn't go to college, you should go out early to learn technology. Enter the society early, earn money early, and save money early to marry a daughter-in-law.
Xiao Gang said that his mother was right, if he had been learning technology since junior high school. At least you can accumulate a lot of social experience, work experience, and understand the world. But now he doesn't understand anything, and everything has to start all over again. He went to high school and college.
Mother and son began to complain to each other. My son said that you all let me go to college, and he always instilled in me that it was good to go to college. Mom said that we also want you to be good, and parents want their children to go to good universities. The grandparents and the neighbors around them also want their children to go to good college.
They thought they would get a good job when they went to college, earn more money, and support their families. But now they feel that the gap between real life and their ideals is too big, and even the opposite of what they imagined.
Xiao Gang said that his mother always urged him to find a daughter-in-law, how dare he find it? The salary is so low, there is no money, there is no house, and he looks average. Find a girlfriend to go to dinner, and I don't have the confidence.
Xiao Gang said that he also thought that he would be able to find a good job and be superior to others when he went to college, but he didn't expect that no one would care about you when he went to college.
No one cares if you go to college or not, they care about your actual ability to work. There are no unique skills like my college major that no one will pay attention to.
Xiao Gang said that you think you can do anything when you are admitted to college, and you are liberated. In fact, this is not the case, being admitted to university is not a panacea, and if you don't have a good major, you can't find a good job.
Mom said that everyone goes to the examination of the establishment, the examination of teachers, the civil servant, you go to take the examination, don't you just read the book?
Xiao Gang said that he didn't take the test, but with a score like his, he took the test many times, but he couldn't pass it. The civil service exam is one in a million, and it is even more difficult. Public institutions are also not easy to test, and the requirements are also high.
Civil servants are not casually examined, and some positions do not recruit secretarial students at all, and literature and history are not required at all. For the positions that are needed by public institutions and civil servants, there are very restrictions on the requirements for majors when applying for the examination.
Xiao Gang said that it is very difficult to take the civil service examination or the public institution examination now. Civil servants are one in a million, and they don't have to think about not being able to pass the exam. There are a lot of people who apply for public institutions, and now there are many college students and many restricted majors, so how can they be compared with others.
Xiao Gang said that many majors are useless in college and are unpopular majors. You may not find a good job if you go to school, you spend a lot of money in vain, waste time, it's really useless.
Xiao Gang said that in fact, liberal arts are not as useful as science, so what is the point of going to a liberal arts university? For those of us who are vulgar people, going to college is to find a way to eat.
Xiaogang's mother finally understands now, she said that she just wants her son to support herself and marry a daughter-in-law, and she is satisfied. Now that my son is home, he can learn some skills from the construction team or skilled workers, and he can earn more than 10,000 yuan a month doing technical work, which is much better than in the company.
I knew that if I let my children not go to high school or college, I could save some money, and then I made more money. I didn't go to college, I earned money, I bought a house, and my daughter-in-law had already arrived.
In fact, what Xiaogang's mother said is very practical, and in fact it is true. Whatever poetry and distance are called, it is a lie. In fact, you can live in a house, eat, marry a daughter-in-law, and live a normal life honestly.
I can only comfort her, it is still good to have knowledge, knowledge and vision, which is good for the future and for the children.
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