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Pension is gradually becoming a social problem, in this trend, finding a suitable way for their own family to provide for the elderly has become a relatively high priority, and now the old people seem to have found a more comfortable way to provide for the elderly, that is, "partner".
For the elderly, most of them are actually getting older, the smaller the social circle, and their physical functions do not support them to go out to find relatives and friends, and they can basically only wait for their children to come home to visit, which also makes the elderly have a lot of difficulties in spiritual needs.
Although it is said that the children do not let the elderly worry about food and clothing in their daily life, and they will regularly give home a sum of money, the problem is that the loss of social nature of the elderly at this time can easily make them fall into a dilemma where they have nowhere to find their own value.
People are a social species, and they need to seek the recognition of others in order to truly reflect their value, even if they want to live by themselves, the acquisition of resources in society must always be obtained through interpersonal relationships.
In other words, no one is an island, all connected to society through more or less connection, but the elderly group is outside this category, because their way of obtaining resources has changed from self-practice to using their children as intermediaries.
Of course, we do not deny that the elderly have reached the retirement stage, thinking about a good rest, and may be more satisfied with the situation of getting out of a complex society.
But not all the old people think so, some old people just feel that they have no contact with the society after retirement, and their hearts instantly feel a lot empty, and the old people urgently need to seek social recognition and go to a different path.
The choice of both is based on their own circumstances, and it cannot be said who is right and who is wrong, but only the diversity of society, and the group of elderly people with the same idea naturally gather together, which is also what we often call "partnering" and "joining in the fun".
In fact, in our traditional cultural background, "joining in the fun" is a convention, and when choosing a restaurant, it will be chosen because of the large number of people and the good atmosphere, so the reason why the old people gradually consider getting together is also obvious.
The continuous development of society does not mean that only young people are riding the train of the development of the times, but the elderly group has also been greatly affected, although they have not caught up with the development of the information age, but this does not prevent them from enjoying the benefits it brings.
Through the online platform, everyone has a deeper understanding of each other, so they gather together to discuss some hobbies or health knowledge with each other, which is a very good activity and has a great positive impact on the improvement of the elderly care situation in the mainland.
In fact, this kind of development is far beyond the expectations of young people, "I have not experienced it, I can't experience it after all", the problem of old-age care is like this, a group of young people to talk about the problem of old-age care, and the conclusion reached is only to stay in the reform of nursing homes.
It is true that the management and supervision of nursing homes have a certain importance, but in fact, the group that can really grasp the urgent needs of the elderly is the elderly themselves, because they have experienced the later stages of life, and their understanding is higher.
The same is true of the partner team formed by the elderly group themselves, each other understands each other's urgent needs, so they can solve problems in a more targeted manner, which is a good way for most elderly people to spend their old age.
A brief analysis of it, we will find that the elderly group is really advancing with the times, and unlike the original nursing homes and child care, the elderly who choose to live such a life similar to sharing often feel that their life value has been rerealized.
Because they are brought together because of each other's similar ideas and personalities, the recognition is naturally high, and the interests and hobbies give them more common topics, providing an effect that transcends the material in terms of emotion.
Now most families will not worry about food and clothing, the elderly are more urgent needs to meet their spiritual needs, with the change of the times, this demand will continue to increase, then "partner" to spend their old age has become the primary choice of the elderly.
Common social life and teamwork make it easier for the elderly to relax mentally and return to a young state, and it can also bring them some satisfaction in social activities.
We also believe that with the gradual embodiment of emotional value, this kind of "partner" to spend the old age will be more common, and it is a very good trend to bring some new ideas and methods to the current pension dilemma in the mainland.
However, when the elderly choose to "partner" to spend their old age, it is likely to eventually develop into a problem of two families, so how to coordinate the relationship between the two parties has become a necessary topic, and additional negotiations are needed, but the future is no problem.
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