Hua Shaowu and this group, they went to the ice cream shop to take pictures and check in, after punching the card, originally wanted to go to the next attraction to check in, Xin Zhilei said that it was embarrassing not to buy ice cream in front of people's doors for so long, and everyone felt that they came to buy ice cream and warm up their bodies at the same time. So everyone went in, because Qin Hailu couldn't eat ice cream, she was the only one standing outside and waiting.
Qin Hailu was alone in an immersive appreciation of the glaciers in the distance, and realized the magic of nature alone...
Then Hu Xianxu came over to watch and asked Sister Hailu what she was looking at, Sister Hailu may have been touched by nature at the moment and had some deeper thoughts, and casually said, "You may not understand", because Sister Hailu is also looking at an atmosphere and feeling, plus the age difference between the two is really a lot, so she didn't want to express that she felt that the child couldn't understand it, and she didn't expect Xiaohu to say: "I definitely don't understand, because there is no real empathy in this world, but you can tell me about it" I was struck by this sentence who knows, a lot of times intimacy is like this, even if we think differently, I may not be able to understand your feelings, but I am willing to listen to you and am willing to try to understand your world.
Later, Sister Hailu described the romance and natural perception of mountains and rivers to Xiao Hu, and Xiao Hu also said something similar to how people are part of the whole earth. Then Sister Hailu was silent for a while, and turned back in surprise and said: You actually understand. Xiaohu was also stunned for a moment and said: I understand.
Xiaohu really achieved emotional stability, a model of communication with people, a model for my generation, no anger or anger for people close to whom there may be ambiguity, peaceful communication, and empathy. And I believe that the two of them really did a deep talk at this moment, the soul exchange, and they really envy their friendship, across ages, they want to understand each other, and they can get it quickly, which is wonderful.
Xiaohu has emotional intelligence that does not belong to his age, and is sophisticated but not sophisticated. In some ways, I think he is more mature than Wang Anyu. Wang Anyu is steady, but sometimes he is a little tough and competes with himself. Xiaohu doesn't, Xiaohu is like water, it is safe when it happens, and it can accommodate things. #Winter Life Check-in Season#