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Not long ago, Liu Shasha (not her real name) felt that her life was dark.
Now, the current situation at home has become a source of happiness for Liu Shasha, making her happy in the boring and busy study.
Let's talk about the current situation of her family first - after her parents divorced, her father remarried, her grandmother was paralyzed, and her stepmother was hypocritical, and her father was troubled by a chaotic life, and his salary was reduced once, and it is estimated that he will be demoted soon.
Life is full of drama, and not so long ago, she couldn't have imagined that her father's retribution would come so quickly!
Liu Shasha is currently in her third year of high school and is frantically brushing up on questions every day, so she doesn't notice that the state between her parents is wrong.
Until two months ago, when a family of three was having dinner, my father suddenly said: "Sasha, Dad told you something, I am going to divorce your mother, and you will ...... in the future"
Before she could finish speaking, Sasha's mother suddenly let out a scream and rushed over to scuffle!
The mother cried and howled: "Didn't I say that I would wait for my child to finish the college entrance examination?
Liu Shasha suddenly understood that her parents had already had problems, and her mother had been compromising for herself.
At that moment, Liu Shasha became mature, she stepped forward and hugged her mother and said, "Mom, calm down, I'm fine, this matter will not affect me." What the hell is wrong with you, tell me the truth. ”
But the mother wept and shook her head, refusing to speak.
On the contrary, it was the father who said to his daughter without any shame: "It's my fault, I cheated, I am willing to make amends to you, but there is no way to do emotional things." I didn't have any feelings when I married your mother. ”
Liu Shasha sneered: "I've heard this kind of thing countless times in other people's gossip, you don't have to fool me, who cares who you like?"
Then, Liu Shasha asked her parents when they planned to divorce.
The mother was relieved to see that her daughter was not in great pain, and after calming down, both parents agreed to divorce as soon as possible.
Sasha said: "I spend a lot of money on college, so my dad will pay for it, and I will live here." Mom, there are too many memories in this family, I don't recommend you to take the house, otherwise it will be too painful, do you want to go back to your hometown to develop?"
When her parents saw that she was so rational and calm, they were so shocked that they couldn't speak. My father stammered and said, "Ah, it's okay, it's okay, after all, I have a monthly income of more than 20,000 yuan here." ”
After that, after two months of going through various procedures, the parents divorced the marriage, divided the property, and renewed the documents.
As soon as her mother moved out, her father immediately told Xiao San and introduced her to Liu Shasha.
Liu Shasha has only seen this stepmother for the first time, her name is Kong Wenli (pseudonym), she looks very vulgar, and she can understand what kind of taste her father has at a glance.
Liu Shasha said that she was busy with her studies and had no time to take care of her father and stepmother, so she suggested that she give each other enough space not to disturb each other, and her father was only responsible for giving money.
Kong Wenli had never seen such a good talking child, so she readily agreed.
Liu Shasha would only meet them when she was eating, and gradually learned about Kong Wenli's situation.
It turned out that Kong Wenli was a subordinate of her father, 10 years younger than her father, she looked young and gorgeous, but she was actually almost 30 years old.
It wasn't her money anyway, and she certainly didn't care.
Seeing this, Liu Shasha also asked her father every once in a while to save more pocket money, she didn't want to wait until she went to college when her father couldn't pay for living expenses.
Kong Wenli has no opinion on this.
However, my father was happy to return to his wife for a week, and something happened at home.
My father bought a pension house for my grandmother, but I didn't live together, but somehow, I forgot to shovel snow on the property, and my grandmother slipped when she went out, and her hip bone was broken, and her leg was broken, and she had a sudden cerebral hemorrhage, and she was paralyzed directly!
's father went to the hospital to accompany him in a hurry, and asked Kong Wenli to serve his old mother for him, but Kong Wenli was unwilling.
No way, my father hired a nanny.
After all, it was a public place when I was in the hospital, and the nanny was quite reliable, and later when I took my grandmother home, the nanny did her hands and feet, either stealing or abusing the elderly.
The father was so angry that he fired the nanny and went to find a new one.
I don't know why his luck is so bad, and the nanny he looks for is always unsatisfactory.
Liu Shasha doesn't care about this at all, she goes out to school every morning and comes back at night, and she can't help her grandmother.
Kong Wenli resigned long before she got married, and after getting married, she put on makeup and dressed up every day, and then went out to play.
The father was angry and quarreled with Kong Wenli several times, but he couldn't control this woman at all!
In the face of such a family, my father was so worried that he lost his hair, he couldn't sleep well, he made several mistakes at work, he was scolded by the leader several times, and his salary dropped by 5,000. Now he comes home every day with a disgraced face and can't keep up his spirits.
Liu Shasha sneered secretly, feeling that her father was going to be demoted soon, she really deserved it!
02
1. Remarriage is not necessarily inferior to the original partner, but cheating and remarriage will most likely cause problems
There are too many men and women who are unhappy after marriage, because love and marriage are two different things.
Therefore, divorce is not a strange thing at all, and there is no need to have a sense of shame, and life after remarriage may be better or worse, mainly depending on whether you have found the right person.
But it is obvious that most of the people who cheat and remarry will not be happy, and there is a very high probability that something will go wrong.
Generally speaking, people who are unhappy in their marriage will choose to divorce, and those who eat in the bowl and look at the pot will choose to cheat.
Cheating proves that this person needs the benefits of the current marriage, and likes the cheating partner to have the stimulation that the marriage does not have, they call this "true love".
Therefore, after cheating and remarrying, the cornerstone of a stable life that this person needs most is gone, and only the romantic "true love" that is full of uncertainty and easy to produce emotional entanglements is left, and problems are inevitable.
2. Everything is two-sided, including the third person
If you want the wild and free beauty of the third party, you have to accept her habit of refusing to do housework to maintain your appearance, and when you are old and want to impress her young with money, you have to accept her vanity and worship of money may leave you at any time.
If you want your wife's virtue and ability to take care of the whole family, you have to accept that she has no time to take care of herself, and that she has become anxious and irritable for her family.
Everything is one and two, including all people.
Obviously, there are many people who don't even understand cheating, and all the pain is self-inflicted.
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