My son won't be cheeky when he's around me, and this time I'm tired and finally open my mouth.
Because of family planning, I gave birth to a son, but my son's temper never played tricks on me, even if I beat him, he endured it.
Once I went to a neighboring village, I was very close to the neighboring village, there was a small ditch in the middle, and there was a small bridge at the junction of the two villages.
People from the two villages love to interact very much, just like the villagers of the same village, I often go to the neighboring village, and this time I went to the neighboring village because of my husband's work.
That morning, I went to the house in the neighboring village, where the hostess was sweeping the yard, and their two sons, the eldest was one year older than my son and the younger one year younger than mine.
The hostess took me into the house, and when she entered the house, she called for her two sons to get up, but they had not yet gotten up.
After a while, the two sons got up and put a round table in her living room, and when the eldest son got up, he went to the pot to weigh the porridge, and put it on the table when he was done.
The hostess began to shout at the two sons again that they didn't wash their faces, and the two sons ignored his mother's yelling, laughing, and after the two children washed their faces, they all came to the table and began to eat.
They didn't have stools to eat, and the two children ate standing there, and they were making trouble while eating, and he beat him, and he came and beat him, and he didn't eat properly.
The hostess was even more angry when she saw her two sons eating like this, and each child pulled over and slapped twice from the buttocks, but the two children laughed while beating.
After beating the two children, they went to the round table to eat, and after eating, all the lost ones ran out.
Seeing the situation of their family, I am very envious of the two children's two-skinned faces, no matter how the mother beats, the two children, neither of them is angry, and they are still laughing there, so that the mother will not be angry, just hit the two times to get angry, and it is impossible for a mother to really beat the child.
My son has never been like this, if I get angry and hit him, he stands there and doesn't say anything, let you hit as you like, sometimes when I catch up with the anger, the more I fight, the more addicted I become.
When I saw the situation of the people, I went home and said to my son, "Why don't you have these two blows?" When I beat you, you never laughed, and my son didn't say why.
So between our mother and son, we rarely tell jokes, we say what we have to say, and we pull it down if we don't have anything.
Especially when my son is married, and the daughter-in-law he marries is such a person, she talks very little, that is, she doesn't gossip at all, and I feel very embarrassed when we live together.
So I discussed with my wife or rented a house, after my daughter-in-law gave birth to a child, the confinement sister-in-law served for 42 days, after the confinement sister-in-law left, I moved to my son's house, but the son did not let me take care of the grandson at night, I slept in the second bedroom by myself, I also felt so bored.
During the three years of the epidemic, they were often locked down at home, and I didn't go there when they were at home, and I mainly felt that I was an outsider over there, and no one talked to me in and out.
Every time I come to my side, I have to tell my son to call when I use me, and we are not too far away, and I will come over after a phone call.
But my son rarely called me, and at first I went there by myself, but after I went, they didn't speak, and I was a little unhappy, and the more I felt like an outsider.
So after a long time, I don't go at all, if you need me, I'll go, you don't need me, I don't go, generally Monday to Friday I'm on their side, Saturday and Sunday they are off, I'm on my side.
During this time, my son is at home, my son is at home, my son is watching the child by himself, he doesn't need me to watch it, and I'm too lazy to be over there, I just don't feel as good as myself here.
I have another thing in my heart, which is to let them experience it for themselves, to see the suffering of children, and how tired people are to watch children clean up the housework and cook.
Especially now, a three-year-old child pesters you every day to talk, and if you don't talk to him for a while, he will call you.
Today my son finally couldn't stand it anymore and called me and said that he was too tired, tired and had a headache, I told him, you also know the panic of being tired.
Having said that, I immediately went over and went to my son's side, let my grandson get dressed, and I took my grandson out, and I said that my son should rest at home.
In fact, I am also very concerned about my son's tiredness, but I am also willing to let him experience the difficulty of doing logistics work in a family. #WinterLifeCheck-in Season##我来唠家常#