Life is busy, competing for the short and long, but there are not many ups and downs, and the gains and losses are difficult to measure. People live for a lifetime, a drop in the ocean, not everything is satisfactory, some prosperity and withering cannot be avoided, and some gains and losses cannot be escaped. Half a life has passed, and I gradually understand: life and death are fate, wealth is in the sky, it is not yours, and it is useless to force it. People who really live transparently understand that the most comfortable way of life in the second half of their lives is to "not compete".
What is life?1 Life is like a book, wrapped in a coarse cloth, and there is poetry and books in the belly. Life is a book. Juvenile is a colorful comic book, and Youth is a colorful and popular magazine. The middle age is an informative academic book, and the old age is a classical thread-bound book. The book is old, the people are old, but a firm heart still writes the legend of immortality. Still splashing ink on the calligraphy and painting of life, depicting a colorful and beautiful picture of life. 2 Life is like a play, and it is pure and detailed, and life is like a play, and the road of life is long. Life is like a play, it takes life as the stage and time as the setting. Take the ups and downs of emotions as clues, take the people and things we experience as the plot, and take the wonderful and success as the climax. Whether you cry, laugh, be willing or passive, it's a show you can't refuse. 3 Life is like grass and wildfire, and the spring breeze blows and grows. Life should be like grass, not as gorgeous and warm as summer flowers, different from autumn leaves, but in the cycle of the four seasons, stubbornly immortal. The wildfire is not all about it, a few feet of gossamer is it, it is the cross road, it is the heart of an inch low, and it is not afraid to complain about the spring breeze. Life should be like grass, not compared with the big tree, not compared with the rose, can keep the loneliness, but also can withstand the prosperity. I hope that everyone can have a pure heart in life, be frank and open, be fearless, and be themselves. 4 Life is like the moon, people have joys and sorrows, and the moon has clouds and sunny days. Just as the moon is cloudy and sunny, the gains and losses of life are inevitable. In the face of life, always take it calmly, the lack of the moon and the full moon is a process, not a result. If you understand this truth, you will be as calm as the moon, as confident as the moon, and always maintain a pure and calm state of mind like the moon. 5 Life is like wine, there is wine in the present day, and there is drunkness in the future, and sorrow comes tomorrow and sorrow tomorrow. Life is like wine, take advantage of the young and prosperous, you must be happy, get the fun of life, and enjoy the love of the world. If you have wine today, you will get drunk, and if you have worries tomorrow, you will worry about it tomorrow. The rest of our lives are scarce, learn to reduce the obstacles we carry, so that we can move forward gracefully, and look down on grievances and hatreds, and only then will the wind and moon be clear along the way. Have fun in time, without regrets or fears, and in this way, you will feel that life is so beautiful. 6 Life is like a song, singing during the day, you must indulge in wine, and youth is a good companion to return home. Life is like a song, long or short, bold or graceful, or tortuous and deep or simple and straightforward. We can't grasp the short and long of life, and we may not be able to ensure that the song of life is wonderful and moving. But this does not prevent us from being a struggling singer and making life without regrets. 7 Life is like chess, one white and one black, inside and outside the game, all are fate. The fewer the chess pieces played, the shorter life became. Between the small chessboards, the wind and clouds change. Some people overly pursue winning games, attach great importance to winning and losing, and are triumphant when they win, and slump when they lose, ignoring the entertainment and intellectual training role of chess. This kind of person often lives a very tired and heavy life. In fact, playing chess is like being a person, and chess is like being a character. Winning, of course, is beautiful and complete, but losing, we must also fall without regrets. If you blindly focus on results, and you want to win and don't want to lose, such a life will definitely not be a wise life and a happy life. 8 Life is like a flower, and the fate will eventually disperse, and the flower will always return to dust. A flower is a world, a smile is a dust, there is a parting in life, the flowers bloom and the fate falls. All the ups and downs, one day will become the window of the afternoon, the wind is clear, and the sun is still warm, in the face of time, everything will finally be relieved. One day, you will find that what you once wanted to hold on to slowly let go, and what once hurt, slowly the wound will scar, not that it doesn't hurt, it's not forgotten, it's just relieved. 9 Life is like a sinking boat, a thousand sails on the side of the boat, and ten thousand trees spring in front of the sick tree. Life is a boat. The boat sails in the vast river and sea, and people live in the long river of time. When the boat is broken, the sea is still raging, the people are gone, the boat of life is stranded, and the river of time is still bubbling and flowing. This is exactly "the green mountains are still there, and the sunset is red several times". 10Life is like a dream, I don't know if I am a guest in a dream, and I am greedy for joy for a while. When tomorrow becomes yesterday, yesterday becomes a memory, and when you look back at the past, you will find that life is really like a dream, real and illusory. In a dream-like life, it is not easy to grasp anything, but the only thing that can be created is a good mood for yourself. If life is living with too much resentment, then everything in life will deteriorate, and nothing will return to its original position. Life is like a dream, and everything is empty when you look back at it. Why don't we live a simpler life? Why don't we live a little happier?
Walking in the world, everyone is unique and irreplaceable, just like every flower has its own fragrance, there is no need to be arrogant, let alone demanding. Instead of competing with yourself, making yourself tired and losing the original beauty of life, it is better to learn to appreciate yourself and accept yourself. You know, no one can be perfect, and being worthy of your heart is the best life. Life is short, the world is impermanent, it is not easy for people to live, and there is really no need to blame yourself. If you are in the midst of self-competition all day long, you will only become depressed. Try to accept your ordinariness, accept the occasional inadequacy, do not compare, do not force, do not obsess, and do everything according to your ability. In fact, the most rare thing in life is to see yourself clearly, accept yourself, and fulfill yourself. When you let go of high expectations and learn to embrace the present, you will find that everything in life is the best arrangement.