[Bikoin] You find that the most generous between friends or relatives is often the poorest, and the richer the people are, the more stingy they are, and the poor are often more polite than the rich.
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[Bikoin] Maybe some people don't have this experience, but the vast majority of people have broken their defenses when they see this kind of entry.
Some netizens said: Don't report my ID card to wake me up, and don't put a camera on me......
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[Bikoin] It can be seen that these friends have empathized, but some netizens think that this statement is not very good, the generous one is not necessarily the poorest, but it must be the kindest and loveliest, they just want to please the relatives and friends around them, and they will be happy when others are happy.
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[Bikoin] I don't rule out this situation, but in my experience, it is true that rich people are relatively calculating, and those who have no money are polite.
I have a cousin, much older than me, who has houses in Beijing and Hangzhou, and when he gave birth to his second child, my parents were no longer there, so I paid 500 yuan unmarried, although the debts owed by my parents at that time were not paid off. Because other cousins said that his family was in good condition, he would be disgusted if he only included 200.
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[Bikoin] As a result, when I gave birth to a baby N years later, he only gave me 200 and a carton of milk.
What surprised me even more was that my eldest cousin, who came with me, gave me 1,000, he is a farmer, about the same age as my parents, saying that my journey was not easy, and told me to take care of myself.
I have a habit of keeping accounts no matter what I receive when I receive a red envelope, so as not to make a mistake when I repay the favor in the future, so when I clicked on the red envelope from my eldest cousin, I burst into tears. It's not an exaggeration at all, it's too moving, not because he has a large amount, but because this heart is different.
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[Bikoin] One more thing, I have two good friends, one is a teacher, and the other is a low-income household who is not in good health and has no job and can only do some manual work at home.
Every year, when we go to a friend's house where we don't have a good time, the "teacher" always takes some used or cheap things, while another friend always prepares us a lot of local specialties and fills our trunks with large bags and small bags.
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[Bikoin] After tossing and turning a few times, I never got together with them again, and although I was still a friend, I could see through the careful thoughts of the "teacher".
I will buy some clothes and toys and send them to my friend who is doing handicrafts at home, so that she can avoid returning the gift. In fact, among the three of us, the richest is the "teacher", she has four apartments in Jinhua, because her husband's income is very considerable.
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[Bikoin] All in all, don't pretend to be generous, do everything according to your own ability, you must be good to yourself, and don't take advantage of friends and relatives, after all, no one is stupid, but some people are taking this feeling seriously.
Do you think I'm right?
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