This year, the winter vacation of primary school students in Beijing ended quite early.
Some schools were closed on January 11 and did not open until around February 26.
In this way, there are almost 45 days of vacation before and after.
So how do you spend this super long winter vacation?
It's time to do some research.
Went on a business trip the other day.
At Beijing South Railway Station, I saw many people with children and suitcases to catch the high-speed train.
Maybe they take their children out to play during the holidays.
The atmosphere of this year's winter travel is already full before the winter vacation.
First, there was "Guangxi Xiaosha Tangerine" bravely entered Harbin.
Later, "Yunnan Wild Mushrooms" and "Sichuan Red Pandas" also organized groups to play in Nagada in the Northeast.
Seeing that the tourism in the Northeast is on fire, the cultural and tourism bureaus around the country have recently been enlarging their moves, all kinds of fancy rolls.
They all want to take advantage of the winter vacation and Spring Festival to stimulate the local tourism economy.
This year's winter vacation is so long, and there are really a lot of people who want to take their babies out to play.
Recently asked a few friends.
There are people who plan to go anywhere.
There are foreign tours and domestic tours;
There are those who want to go to the warm and humid south, and there are those who want to go to the icy north;
Some want to find a place to lie down, and some want to find a place to swim deeply.
The local cultural and tourism bureaus are not busy in vain.
The trick of taking the baby out during the winter vacation can be a staple food. (Guess what, the first 3 sisters in the message area to guess, I will give a small gift for the Year of the Dragon)
Again, tourism is to go from the place where you are tired of staying to the place where others are tired of and feel a different life.
Change your brain, change your mood.
In addition to tourism, there are also many people who want to take advantage of the winter vacation to overtake.
I have a friend who is a Haidian mother.
Before the holiday, the children were already given various classes.
A few days ago, I said, the children have finally finished the exam, let's take the time to come out and get together.
As a result, she threw me a watch.
Wow, from morning to evening, it's arranged to be full.
Math in the morning, Chinese in the afternoon, English in the evening, every day.
Friends said that she had to accompany her children to class, and she couldn't get together before the holiday, so let's see after the holiday.
Sure enough, I am not afraid that my classmates are top students, but I am afraid that school masters will have a long vacation.
How exactly should this winter break be spent?
Different people may have different answers
In the past few days, I have also been wondering, what should I do with this winter vacation?
I also looked at some winter vacation planning forms made by other people's parents for their children.
But after looking at a few photos, I gave up.
Forget it, this is not a form that an old mother like me should see.
Because I don't have a son who can carry out such a schedule.
My two sons, the winter break in their heads is completely out of step with such a form.
Xiao Zhang was looking forward to the winter vacation early on, because he could go skiing during the vacation.
Jimmy is also looking forward to the winter vacation, because he can go digging sand and soak in the pond during the vacation.
Facing two sons who just want to eat, drink and be merry during the holidays.
I couldn't make any plans for overtaking in corners.
I just had a rough idea of what I needed to do this holiday.
Xiao Zhang's robot training and competition lasted for two weeks.
Jimmy's leisure and entertainment was led by Lao Zhang and arranged in early February.
At that time, I had a work arrangement in Europe, and I took Xiao Zhang to play for a few days by the way.
After coming back, I will arrange for Xiao Zhang to ski for a week.
Then it's time for everyone to make up the homework time together.
This is probably my loose winter vacation plan for this flat family. Don't look loose, there are some arrangements that can't be opened, and I have to arrange a family trip for three or four days.
Of course, how exactly should you spend the winter holidays?
Different people may have different answers.
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For some children, winter break may be a rest stop.
Especially for those children who are usually particularly nervous about studying.
Winter vacation is a good time to stop and rest.
The winter break not only saved the teacher's life.
It may have also saved the lives of children who are usually very nervous.
A few days ago, I saw a psychologist say in the video.
Winter vacation is a time period for mass production of "psychosis".
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Because some children who have been studying for a semester are not only unable to get rest during the winter vacation.
On the contrary, I was also arranged in various extracurricular classes that were closer to school than when I was in school.
We adults work a week and have days off, and every few months we want to leave all our work and take a vacation.
But the child has no rest all year round, and he doesn't even have time to catch his breath.
Who is not crazy?
So, if the child usually learns, it is very tired.
Let them rest during the winter vacation, and don't arrange such a close study task.
The strings are too tight and can easily collapse.
Only with a degree of relaxation can we go further.
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For some kids, winter break can be a gas stop.
For example, some children usually don't have much pressure to study, and they plan to participate in a competition or an additional exam next.
I usually go to school and don't have enough time to prepare.
It's a good time to use the winter break to refuel.
As for whether to add No. 95 or No. 97 oil, it may also vary from person to person.
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For some children, winter break can be a buffer.
Especially in the upper grades, the pace of learning is very fast.
Next semester, I will face some more important exams, such as the high school entrance examination and the college entrance examination.
It's not realistic to not study at all during the winter break.
For such children, the winter vacation may have to be arranged a little more relaxed.
Play and learn, don't be too tired and don't be completely wasted.
As for whether to use the winter vacation as a rest stop, a gas station, or a buffer zone?
It may depend on what kind of children you have and the specifics of your family.
For example, Xiao Zhang, because he plans to rush the FCE exam next.
Therefore, this holiday, in addition to eating, drinking and having fun, he also has to cheer up in English.
And for Jimmy, who is used to lying flat, because he hasn't been to elementary school yet.
So no matter what he usually learns, he may use the winter vacation as a "rest stop".
How to spend the winter vacation,
Just follow your heart
I saw a statement on the Internet the other day.
Children's holiday travel is also divided into grades.
First-class families take their children abroad to study.
Second-class families take their children to high-end sports activities.
Third-class families with children traveling domestically.
I've found out how someone is so keen on comparison.
Everything has to be divided into three, six, nine and so on.
Some parents said that they felt guilty because they couldn't take their children to travel to better places.
There's really no need for that.
There is a local saying that how big the feet are and how big the shoes are.
Whatever conditions are available at home, just give your children a matching material life.
If parents have time and energy, take their children out for a walk.
Parents don't have time or energy, so they take their children to play near home.
Take advantage of the Chinese New Year to visit relatives and see the elderly at home.
Feeling the flavor of the New Year and family affection is also a kind of long-term insight.
I've seen children playing with their phones at well-known attractions.
I've also seen children running on country roads.
Seeing the world doesn't have to be a high threshold and expensive fees.
But after seeing, walking, and experiencing many aspects of the world, you can have a broader vision and mind, and you will not be arrogant or arrogant.
So, there's no need to compare yourself with others.
If you really want to compare, everyone may also have everyone's "last resort" and "unsatisfactory".
Just like many people ask me, why do I travel to a farther place during the holidays, such as traveling abroad, and only take Xiao Zhang alone, not Jimmy.
Because Lao Zhang can't go abroad, the old people in the family can't follow.
I have a clear idea of myself and I don't want to burn out my vacation.
Taking two young sons out alone, Lao Zhang was worried, and it was difficult for me to take care of them.
Jimmy was still young, and for him, it would be better to let him go to Florence (here for example) to be immersed in the arts than to soak in the pool on his doorstep.
So, the so-called holiday schedule.
You don't have to worry about watching other people's papers.
It's also anxious to see others traveling.
The so-called do your best and find a choice that best follows your heart.
When I watched "Waiting for the Wind to Come", I remembered this passage from Grandma deeply.
"People can't be too greedy, get thousands of dollars and want to be thousands of dollars, become the emperor and want to become immortals, people have two hands, even if they enter the gold and silver mountains, they can only take two things, and they can't take jade Ruyi if they take the gold and silver bracelets, how can they want what they want, don't be more serious in case of trouble, be relieved, the more you think about it, the more you can pass!"
So, no matter what, just make the most suitable choice according to your own conditions.
You don't have to feel indebted to anyone, and you don't have to blindly compare.
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