A woman has been a full-time mother for 4 years, but as soon as the child entered kindergarten, she was forced to go to work by the whole family, and she broke down and cried in a video: "Am I going to work? Obviously, I am going to work part-time, and I have to do the housework when I come back from work, and the child still wants me to take it! I haven't slept well in the past 4 years, and in your eyes, I am an idler, and I have no value!"
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Some people think that women have confidence when they go to work, and when you go to work, they pick up and drop off your children, so why not do it?
Some netizens also said that children don't need to be taken care of when they go to kindergarten? children don't need to be picked up and dropped off when they go to kindergarten? who takes them to see when they are sick, there are indeed some people who can go to work and take the baby, they are really powerful, but some people can only do one thing, either take the baby or go to work, do both, do not do well on both sides, do not do well at work, do not take the child well, about taking the baby at home, not working, this matter, as long as the husband has no opinion, no one else should make irresponsible comments.
Absolutely agree, you can fall out of love but you can't be unemployed
Before getting married, the man's whole family would say that a woman should be willing to endure hardships and sins and accompany poor men through thick and thin. After getting married, I said that my old * family must have a son, and my parents are waiting for their grandchildren. You don't go to work, I'll support you, you just need to take care of your children and be filial to the elderly. The child was born, raised, and could go to kindergarten, and the man's family said, don't rely on others, be independent, and raise yourself if you can give birth, how can you always ask the man for money and ask your mother-in-law to support you. Since you are at work, how can you "take care of the children"? Fathers don't have to take care of their children, and they don't have to earn money to support their families, right? Giving birth to a baby, raising a baby, and earning money are all borne by the woman alone, and the man's family does not share anything, so you get the wages of the children and the daughter for nothing? Why don't you make it clear before you get married and have children: The daughter-in-law must earn money after giving birth, and the man's whole family does not support you? Before marriage, don't all men lick their faces and ask women to "share weal and woe"?
After reading so many comments, your comments made me realize that being able to speak can really change a person's thoughts and decisions! Those who only know criticism and abuse will only make the girl feel more resistance and hatred in her heart! To comfort a person, they should understand each other from the other party's point of view, and then give warm suggestions to help them analyze the pros and cons, and build up self-confidence for the other party, so that they can make the best choice! [Like] [Like] [Like] [Rose] [Rose] [Rose]
The mother in the video is wronged that her in-laws didn't help the child when she was young, and when the child was older, she wanted her to go out to make money, and she didn't consider her feelings at all, but just used her as a tool
I don't want to go out to earn hard money, because I don't have any education and no skills, there is a high probability that I can't find an easy job
Netizen: I can understand, not every child is easy to bring, my child is more than three weeks old, he has not slept once since he was born, he has to cry and wake up several times every night, his skin is not good, and he has to scratch for a long time in the middle of the night every day
The cheapest is a full-time mother, and most in-laws will think that they rely on their son to support the family
Only a rich man and a full-time housewife are a career. Stay-at-home mothers in poor families call you to work for your own good, and you have a job, and the pressure on your family is not so great, you can get out of the quagmire of full-time work yourself, and you can set an example for your children. Why do you want to interpret it as saying that the members of the family don't love you and dislike you? Many sisters really give birth to babies, and they regard going out to work as a man who is unproductive and incapable, which is really outrageous. Those excellent families around you, which are not children, parents can work, have a head and face, and will educate their children, reflect on yourself, so that you will not be ashamed to go out to work
She is a single parent in marriage, and she is also a woman, so can she be treated the same?
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