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Sun Li watched the documentary "Hope in the Mountains" in 2002 and decided to sponsor the poor student Xiang Haiqing, which has been supported for four years.
After discussing with her mother, Sun Li decided to sponsor Xiang Haiqing with 500 yuan a month until she graduated from university to help her change her fate.
However, unexpectedly, Xiang Haiqing, who later lost support, published a 6,000-word article "blaming" Sun Li and her mother, which immediately caused widespread controversy.
It wasn't until the end that everyone realized that Sun Li had raised a "white-eyed wolf" and staged a real story of "the countryside and the snake".
How is Xiang Haiqing doing now? How is she doing now, who once claimed to "ruin" Sun Li, how is she doing now? What happened at that time?
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Sun Li's idea of sponsoring poor student Xiang Haiqing largely stems from her childhood experience.
Sun Li was born in 1982 in an ordinary family in Shanghai, and her parents were ordinary workers.
Sun Li has shown a particularly smart and clever talent since she was a child, and began to receive dance training at the age of 5, and was sent by her parents to the Children's Palace to learn dance in the first grade.
When Sun Li was 11 years old, she was selected as a member of the Shanghai Oriental Little Friends Art Troupe because of her outstanding dance performance, and the delegation visited the United Kingdom, the United States, Japan and other countries.
Sun Li excelled in both learning and dancing at that time, and became the pride of her parents.
Sun Li should have had a happy childhood, but when she was 13 years old, everything came to an abrupt end.
Back then, because of emotional conflicts, her parents divorced, and Sun Li lived with her mother.
The mother only got 2,000 yuan when she divorced, and after that, the mother and daughter began to rely on each other and spend each day in a difficult life.
At that time, her mother did not have a stable job and her family was poor, and Sun Li often faced the dilemma of insufficient food and clothing.
Unable to pay their rent, the mother and daughter often had to move, leaving them extremely exhausted because they did not have a stable place to live.
Mother never gave up on cultivating Sun Li, although life was difficult, in order to make money, she had to work several jobs.
Sun Li is a sensible child, she deeply understands her mother's hard work, so she secretly resolves in her heart that she must honor her mother when she grows up.
Therefore, even in an extremely harsh family environment, Sun Li still concentrates on her studies and is unwilling to live up to her mother's expectations.
At the age of 15, Sun Li joined the Shanghai Garrison Art Troupe and became a literary soldier, and all her efforts were rewarded.
She has the quality of hard-working and enterprising, coupled with a positive and enterprising attitude, and soon stood out in the art troupe. He actively participates in various competitions every year, and has won many awards, and even won the third class.
In 2000, Sun Li cooperated with her comrades-in-arms of the Art Troupe to participate in the performance of the stage play "Deep Love and Rain", in which she played the role of a dancer.
In 2000, after Sun Li retired from the army's art troupe, she entered Shanghai Yindu Art School to study, and after three years of training.
Sun Li studied at Shanghai Yindu Art School for a year, and then participated in the competition and won the runner-up.
Subsequently, Sun Li signed a contract with Hairun Company, founded by screenwriter Hai Yan, and the trajectory of her life completely changed.
Sun Li ushered in an important opportunity in her life in 2003.
became an instant hit with the role of a female policeman, and she starred in the TV series "Jade Guanyin", which completely changed her fate.
At that time, 21-year-old Sun Li was gaining momentum, and her future would inevitably become a household name as the "queen of TV dramas".
After Sun Li entered the entertainment industry, she was called "Desperate Sanniang", and her goal was to improve the poverty situation of her family and let her mother live a happy life.
In 2002, when Sun Li was filming "Jade Guanyin", she decided to sponsor a poor child because she watched a documentary to help him change his fate.
02
Sun Li was filming "Jade Guanyin" in Kunming one day in 2002, and happened to watch the documentary "Hope in the Mountains" on TV.
The documentary focuses on reporting on the situation in impoverished mountainous areas, in which Sun Li is attracted to a child named Xiang Haiqing.
At that time, Xiang Haiqing was studying at Chengxiang Middle School in Wuxi County, Chongqing, and was a first-year high school student.
His family was very poor, his parents were ordinary peasants, and the living conditions were extremely difficult.
Asthma has always plagued my mother's health, and my brother has married and had children, and the family burden is heavy, and even seeing a doctor has become a problem.
Although Haiqing's family is poor, he can bear hardships and stand hard work and has always insisted on studying. Thanks to his hard work, his academic performance has also been good.
When Sun Li saw Xiang Haiqing in the show, her heart swelled with memories of her difficult experience when she was young, because Xiang Haiqing's poverty but hard-working spirit resonated with her.
Sun Li, who was deeply moved, decided to directly help poor Xiang Haiqing, and kindness surged in her heart.
Sun Li saw that Xiang Haiqing's family was poor and could no longer support him to go to university, and she couldn't bear to see him forced to give up his studies due to lack of financial conditions, thus delaying the future of his life.
Sun Li immediately consulted with her mother and decided to provide financial assistance as soon as possible to save Xiang Haiqing's life.
Her mother was also very supportive of Sun Li's idea, thinking that it was a good thing to do good deeds. The mother and daughter decided to sponsor Xiang Haiqing to finish college. After listening, her mother was also very supportive of Sun Li's idea.
So, Sun Li asked her mother to call the program team and inform her that she wanted to fund Xiang Haiqing.
Sun Li wrote to Xiang Haiqing in May 2002 in the name of "Aunt Deng" and attached 500 yuan.
When Haiqing saw the letter and the donation of 500 yuan for the first time, her heart was full of emotion, and tears couldn't stop flowing.
He described in his recollection: "When I received the 500 yuan donation from Aunt Deng from my teacher, my hands couldn't help but tremble, tears welled up in my eyes, my vision became blurred, and I could only vaguely see the money in my hand trembling. The whole body seemed to be numb, and the feeling was unforgettable!"
While sending 500 yuan, Sun Li and her mother also bought him clothes, daily necessities and study materials, and told Haiqing to study hard in the letter.
Subsequently, Xiang Haiqing immediately wrote back to "Aunt Deng" to express her gratitude.
He sighed: "This is not only a donation of 500 yuan, but also a sincere expression of sincere feelings for the great support of a poor child!"
At that time, Xiang Haiqing didn't realize that the person who kindly helped her was Sun Li, so everything was as calm as water.
At that time, Sun Li was not yet famous in the world, she was just a member of the new entertainment industry, and her life with her mother did not become particularly wealthy.
Sun Li promised to subsidize Xiang Haiqing with 500 yuan a month in the name of "Aunt Deng" until he graduated from college.
Sun Li became an instant hit in 2003 with the TV series "Jade Guanyin", and since then her career has flourished and she has become a high-profile star.
In their free time, Sun Li and her mother would call Xiang Haiqing to ask him about his life and studies, and encourage him to study hard.
Xiang Haiqing's mother said to her on the phone: "My sister and I will bear the expenses until you graduate from college, you just need to study hard, don't worry." ”
Xiang Haiqing was full of hope for the future at the moment, so he began to study harder.
03
In the blink of an eye, he was in the third year of high school, and the pressure on Xiang Haiqing's studies also increased, and Sun Li and his mother still encouraged him by writing letters and making phone calls.
After Sun Li's mother learned that Xiang Haiqing's mother was suffering from asthma, she specially bought medicine from Shanghai and sent it to her regularly, so that she could study with peace of mind and avoid cranky thoughts.
At the critical juncture of preparing for the college entrance examination, Xiang Haiqing was not sure which university he should apply for.
Because Sun Li and her mother both live in Shanghai, they advised Sun Li to consider studying at university in Shanghai and developing in a big city.
In high school, Sun Li and her mother not only supported Xiang Haiqing materially, but also gave him a lot of comfort spiritually.
However, unfortunately, in the first college entrance examination, Xiang Haiqing failed to get his wish and was not admitted to the university in Shanghai, and he felt a little disappointed.
Haiqing did not give up easily, he made up his mind to repeat another year and insisted on being admitted to university.
Both Sun Li and her mother agreed that Haiqing wanted to repeat her studies, and they have been patiently encouraging and comforting her.
If you plan to take the exam again, just work hard and don't have to worry about money, and I will support you as well.
In order to encourage Xiang Haiqing to return to university, Sun Li and her mother purchased a large number of tutoring materials to help him improve his grades.
After a year of hard work, Xiang Haiqing was finally admitted to Shanghai Fisheries University as he wished, and his hard work paid off.
Sun Li's mother suggested that he apply to this university so that they could see each other often in Shanghai.
After Xiang Haiqing was admitted to university, he conveyed the good news to Sun Li's mother and daughter as soon as possible, and the three of them were very happy.
On the day of school, Sun Li and her mother came to the station early to welcome Xiang Haiqing's arrival, and they finally met as they wished.
Haiqing was shocked when she saw that the sister who funded her was Sun Li, and she couldn't believe that she wanted to know that it was the big star who had been funding her.
After meeting, Xiang Haiqing expressed his gratitude to Sun Li's mother and daughter again and again.
This encounter completely changed Xiang Haiqing's heart, making him no longer as sensible and contented as before.
After sending him to school, Sun Li's mother paid Xiang Haiqing's tuition and bought daily necessities for him, and did not leave until she made sure he was settled.
When they were separated, Sun Li's mother also said to Haiqing: "I will send you money every month, don't worry about money, if you are short of money, call me and my sister." ”
Xiang Haiqing nodded sensibly and obediently at that moment.
During his college years, Xiang Haiqing's whole person underwent a complete change, and crises and contradictions gradually emerged.
Sun Li has always kept her promise, sending 500 yuan to Xiang Haiqing every month, and often calling to care about her situation. That's how it was at first.
Later, Xiang Haiqing began to squander, feeling that the subsidy of 500 yuan was far from enough, and kept begging Sun Li's mother and daughter for money.
Sun Li's mother didn't understand why Haiqing had been short of money at the time, and she didn't know where she was spending the money, so she asked why.
When I first went to university, the 500 yuan grant was enough for me to cover Haiqing's daily expenses.
Because Xiang Haiyang achieved excellent academic results, he later became a class leader and joined the student council, so his expenses gradually increased.
Explain to Sun Li's mother that I have joined the student union, and I need to call my classmates often to deal with things, and it costs a lot of money every month just for phone bills.
The funding is simply not enough to cover unexpected expenses, such as various additional costs.
Sun Li's mother told her on the phone that she could opt out of social activities and not have to spend unnecessary money, after all, your family is not wealthy.
Haiqing verbally promised to quit the student union, but in fact he never really left.
Whenever Xiang Haiqing remembered what Sun Li said to him, "You can find her at any time if you have no money", he would become more unscrupulous and unrestrained in demanding.
Subsequently, Xiang Haiqing called Sun Li's mother more and more frequently, and each call had only one purpose: to ask for money.
Sun Li's mother felt that the situation was getting more and more wrong, so she decided to go directly to the school to check with the teacher. As time passed, the more she felt that something was wrong.
After inquiry, it was learned that Xiang Hai cleared the 500 yuan he received from Sun Li every month.
In addition, he applied for a poverty grant of 6,000 yuan a year and received an additional salary of 300 yuan per month for working as a teacher's assistant.
This money is enough for Xiang Haiqing, who is still in college, so she doesn't worry about money every day.
He later revealed to his classmates in the ocean that he was not living the life of an ordinary student at school at all, but spending lavishly.
On campus, he found a girlfriend who often had to spend a lot of money on dates, in addition to buying all kinds of designer clothes and shoes, and had no sense of frugality at all.
After learning about these things, Sun Li and her mother decided in a fit of anger not to continue to fund Xiang Haiyang because they were too disappointed.
At this moment, she explained to Haiyang and Sun Li's mother that she spent most of the money to treat her mother's illness.
No matter how it is explained, Xiang Haiyang will not be able to regain the trust of Sun Li and his mother.
Reporter Qiu Chaoju later found Xiang Haiyang and wanted to record the follow-up of Sun Li's donation to the documentary "Hope in the Mountains", but he was greatly surprised.
Reporter Qiu Chaoju revealed to the ocean that Sun Li had stopped giving him funding since November 2005, which made him feel very helpless and aggrieved.
Helping you is out of affection, not obligation.
Obviously, Xiang Haiyang didn't know much about the matter, and his actions were a big surprise.
Subsequently, he handed over a 6,000-word article to reporter Qiu Chaoju to expose the so-called truth of the matter.
He stressed that I could not tolerate the impossibility of undermining the integrity of human dignity and dignity, no matter what the plight was. Poverty does not mean loss of ambition, dignity is crucial!
In the article, he emphasized that he is a university student, so he must maintain his face and dignity. He believes that wearing designer clothes and shoes is necessary, otherwise he will incur contempt from others.
He even said that he was already very frugal, even though he bought two pairs of pants worth 800 yuan.
Tell the ocean that Sun Li is a well-known star with a lot of income, and it is natural that she should give me some pocket money.
He said that the rich man was really rich, and they were engaged in this profession, and I felt that they made money very quickly, and it was really hard to get by without giving me a little bit. I think they don't have a lot of money, so I should really give me a little bit of money.
He also blamed Sun Li, saying that she only gave money to gain a good reputation, and she didn't really want to help me at all.
He even threatened to "ruin Sun Li" at one point, which can be said to have reached the point of extreme irrationality, and began to take countermeasures.
As a public figure, Sun Li was greatly affected for a while, not only suffered damage to her career, but also suffered a serious blow to her reputation, which can be said to be tormented.
Some classmates later stood up and accused Xiang Haiyang of spending money at school very extravagantly, and even often showed off to his classmates about Sun Li's funding of him.
Things took a turn for the worse, and everyone began to condemn Xiang Hai's ingratitude, as if playing out a realistic version of the story of "The Farmer and the Snake", who became a "white-eyed wolf" who did not know how to be grateful at all.
Han Han even angrily posted: "Even ordinary people are not allowed to raise large dogs in the city, but Sun Li can raise "wolves" in Shanghai, is this reasonable?"
This incident has always been the focus of people's heated discussions and attention at that time, and Sun Li felt helpless and heartache. All night she and her mother had insomnia, saddened that they had been slandered.
Despite this, Sun Li still maintained a kind attitude, saying in the face of the media:
When dealing with this matter, remember that he is still a student and don't let him get hurt.
After reporter Qiu Chaoju learned the truth, he directly wrote an article entitled "Why do the seeds of kindness bear the fruits of mutation?", which restored the truth to the public and also showed Sun Li Zhaoxue.
Since then, Xiang Haiyang has also begun to bear a heavy price, he found that his classmates' attitude towards him at school began to turn cold, and finally chose to take a year off school due to various public opinion pressures.
When he graduated from Ocean University in 2009, he thought that incident would be a thing of the past, but he didn't expect the backlash to continue.
After graduating, due to the "stain" he once had, he was directly rejected by many companies when looking for a job, and they did not dare and were unwilling to hire him.
Therefore, in the process of looking for a job, Xiang Haiyang has encountered a lot of difficulties, has been given a cold reception, and has been identified as a "white-eyed wolf".
At present, living an ordinary and hard life, I can only be an ordinary employee in a small company, and the life of the ocean is not satisfactory.
Although 19 years have passed, every time I think about this incident, I can always get inspiration and caution from it.
Don't be a greedy person who swallows an elephant, or you will suffer the consequences.
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