What's wrong with today's children?
Some time ago, there was a news that "my mother wanted to eat 60 yuan of green vegetables but was scolded and cried by her daughter" spread on the Internet.
The cause of the incident was just that during the travel of a family of three, my mother had a bad appetite due to motion sickness, and wanted to eat some light vegetables to relieve her nausea.
But after her daughter saw the price of green vegetables on the menu, she was directly frightened, and a plate of ordinary fried vegetables was priced at 60 yuan a piece.
In order to save travel expenses, the daughter wants to persuade her mother, like herself and her father, to order a local specialty food and eat it together.
She told her mother that because she changed her computer and mobile phone during the summer vacation and participated in the summer camp, the family's expenses were a bit big.
Therefore, when she eats, she implements the principle of saving if she can, and replaces her favorite udon noodles at 73 yuan for ordinary noodles at 50 yuan.
She hopes that her mother can be as "sensible" as her, and it is better to save some money when she goes out, and it is not too late to endure it and eat it when she goes home.
But no matter how much the daughter's "good words and persuasion" worked, the uncomfortable mother still insisted on ordering a green vegetable, otherwise she would not eat it at noon.
The daughter saw that she couldn't persuade her mother, so she said impatiently:
"Whatever, you order, I don't care about you."
In the end, my mother didn't ask for greens anymore, but ordered a 35 yuan shredded pork noodles with cabbage to eat.
thought that this was the end of the matter, but the mother cried aggrievedly and said:
"Why don't you even let me eat green vegetables?"
The daughter was speechless by her mother, and her husband was also angry with her and left the hotel.
In the end, the husband ordered a green vegetable for his wife, but the wife refused to take a bite.
The daughter had no choice but to pack the high-priced vegetables back to the hotel, and complained that her mother was too hypocritical, saying that if she was a man, she would never find such a wife.
How can there be such children in the world?
Her own mother just wanted to eat a portion of vegetables, and her daughter would say such hurtful and mean things.
Obviously, she is also a woman, and she will marry and be a mother in the future.
Besides, her mother was still unwell because of motion sickness, and eating vegetables was just to relieve her nausea.
Besides, she still eats noodles for 50 yuan herself, so what's the problem with her mother eating green vegetables?
Although 60 yuan a plate of vegetables is a bit expensive, this cannot be a reason for her to blame her mother.
In the final analysis, this daughter is just a selfish person, and she loves herself more than her own mother.
Seeing this, I couldn't help but think of the "female student cyberbullying father" I saw on the Internet before.
The biological children staged a realistic version of the "debt collection" plot
One day in 2021, a father from Peking University was cyberbullied by his own daughter, and the reason was that 10,000 yuan of living expenses was too little.
In the video, the daughter who studied abroad roared at her father, her voice was sharp and dirty.
During this period, she also took out her mobile phone to take a slap at her father, and said that he was selfish and a madman.
It is understood that the reason why the girl was so angry was because her father did not leave her food, and the takeaway she ordered would not be delivered until more than an hour later.
In the meantime, she had to wait hungry.
Thinking that her father had eaten but didn't leave her food, and seeing that she was hungry and didn't care about anything, the girl instantly became angry.
Before that, the girl had already quarreled once because her father gave too little living expenses.
In order to take revenge on her father, the girl deliberately posted a complaint on the Internet, and also put her father's name, position, phone number, and photo on QQ.
It was her "sassy" operation that pushed her father, who was born in Peking University, directly to the forefront.
And she was not spared, netizens all reprimanded the girl's behavior, and also commented that their family's tutor was not good, and the father doted on the child too much.
There is also the girl who posted a post on the Internet in recent days that "Dad cheated on all of us", and she also "backstabbed" her own father.
Just because her father used his salary to buy a watch worth 1,000 yuan, but lied to her that someone else gave it to her.
For this matter, the girl also ran to the Internet to cry, and also bullied her father that he was a liar.
I feel very sad to see them behaving like this, why have all the young people in China become like this?
It's just a trivial matter, but they put it on the Internet to hype it up.
The point is that the money spent by parents is still earned by themselves, but now they have to be sneaky when they buy something, and they even have to be scolded by their own children.
Although parents are innocent, are they not wrong to raise a child with no respect and dirty mouth?
There is a famous saying in the field of education: "Parents are the earliest teachers of their children's words and deeds in life".
More than half of the reason for what a child has become comes from his parents, after all, family education is the key to a child's life.
A good tutor makes a good child
I saw a news story before, a reporter went to a rural primary school to interview left-behind children, and he asked the boy what he wanted to say to his parents.
The boy said that he hoped that his parents would not work so hard and come home to see him more often.
When the reporter asked him: "How do you know they are so hard", the boy cried.
He said he had been to the site where his parents worked, and that they got up at 7 a.m. and worked until 4 a.m. the next morning.
When the reporter asked why they were working so hard, the boy choked up and said, "In order to make a good life for my grandfather, I and my sister."
Although he was abandoned by his parents in his hometown since he was a child, he did not complain, and although his parents did not give him a rich life, he always loved them.
Isn't it better to raise such a grateful and filial child than those "white-eyed wolves" with a good family background?
There is also the video of "kneeling down to save the mother" that exploded on the Internet before, the boy's mother suddenly wanted to give birth on the road, and in order to send his mother to the hospital as soon as possible, the boy rushed to the middle of the road to stop the car.
When the kind driver stopped the car, the boy knelt down in front of the driver, and the driver quickly got out of the car and helped the boy to help.
The boy's kneeling not only saved his mother, but also won the respect of everyone on the Internet.
Although the boy has gold under his knees, his kneeling shows the great love of family and the filial piety of the Chinese!
This is the filial piety that China needs, and this is the education that parents should teach their children the most.
epilogue
Why the state attaches importance to education is because it not only teaches us technology and knowledge, but also teaches us how to be a qualified person.
Every person is born a blank slate, and what it will become in the end depends entirely on how parents educate them.
Therefore, if you want your child to be a grateful and filial person, first of all, parents themselves must be a good example for their children.
After all, parents are their children's first or even lifelong teachers.
Reference source: Zhengzhou Radio and Television News Comprehensive Channel's official Douyin released the video "Mom wants to eat 60 yuan of green vegetables, but she was scolded and cried by her daughter".
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