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Camus once said: An excellent mother is the most valuable asset of her children's life.
Children start from the ground, and the closest person is the mother.
When the world is not deep, any action of the mother will imperceptibly affect the child's life.
Most of the children who have succeeded in becoming talents have the help of their mothers in their hearts, and they have inherited their mother's excellent will and are striding forward in life.
And in a family, if the children are not promising, most of their mothers have these three bad habits, which is very accurate.
01: No bottom line favors children
In the TV series "It's All Good", Su Mingyu's two elder brothers were favored by their mothers since they were children, so that when they grew up, the eldest brother was stupid and incompetent, and the second brother was mediocre, but Su Mingyu, who was not favored, later made a great achievement.
In fact, this is the epitome of many ordinary families.
In a family, if the mother's bowl of water is uneven, it will cause the children to be separated, and it is not conducive to the development of good character in the children.
Those children who are favored, who have been protected by their mothers since childhood, are like flowers in a greenhouse, unable to gain the ability to grow independently.
Some people are accustomed to stretching out their hands for clothes and opening their mouths for food, so they breed a lazy and greedy character, and they can only gnaw at the old in the future, and cannot move up.
Children are a blank slate, and the way their mothers educate them determines their future direction.
Remind mothers to be fair and sober enough to treat their children, don't ruin a family with your favoritism, and don't ruin a child's life with your doting.
Give your children the right love, and they will go right in life.
02: Help children unprincipledly
In the process of children's growth, there will be many needs, some of which can give them the right and upward guidance, but some of which are wrong and need to be suppressed by parents.
But in real life, many mothers dote on their children so much that they are able to confuse right and wrong and help their children without principle.
It is conceivable that with such a mother, children cannot explore the boundaries of the world. They will only feel that everything can be willful, anyway, with their mother to support them, they will be even more lawless in the future.
There is such a news on a social platform.
A child took the candy from the passenger next to him when he was riding the high-speed train, which made the passenger very angry, but instead of apologizing, the mother helped his son to snatch the candy from the other person's hand.
As soon as this news came out, the masses were in an uproar.
Obviously, this mother's love has exceeded the limit, she is not helping the child, but helping the abuse, which will eventually ruin the child's future.
What is more important than blindly loving children is that mothers should have the correct three views and let their children receive the right education.
If you can tell him the real rules of the world and help them develop a sound personality and correct three views, then you will really help him find a foothold in this world.
Otherwise, if you can help him for a while, you will only hurt him for the rest of his life.
03: Indulging children without moderation
Behind every ruined child, there is a mother who is too indulgent.
Around us, many people don't learn and don't know how to have fun, because their mother didn't strictly require them to study hard and race against time.
Although reading is not the only way to rise in modern society, it is the most stable path for ordinary people.
Before the child shows excellent talent and clear goals, going to school, reading, and learning to earn money is the best path for ordinary people to take.
The child is too young to know how to have fun, but parents need to plan for his future.
I don't want my children to shine on the lintel in the future, I just hope that they won't complain about their parents in the future, why didn't they tell themselves the importance of learning.
The child's future is in the hands of the mother, and these three words and deeds may destroy the child's hope in life, and I hope we can all reflect on it.
Family love should give children wings to take off, making them stronger, more confident, and better.
Be a mother who understands education and love, and I believe that your children will also spread their wings in this sky of life with the help of the family.
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