After Lin Youyou and Xu Huanshan went through a long tug, they finally rolled into the same bed on the night when Lin Youyou was drunk......
For the next month, the two went shopping, went out, cooked and ate together, and then spent the night together.
It seems to be extremely affectionate.
I thought they would be so lingering for a long time.
But soon, Gu Jia came back from the Hunan Tea Garden, and Xu Huanshan, who was still like glue with Lin You one moment, disappeared the next moment.
It's so fast that Lin Youyou is difficult to adapt, and as an audience, I feel a little dreamy.
Later, Lin Youyou was unwilling and pressed step by step, Xu Huanshan was not even entangled and reluctant between his lover and wife, and directly broke up with Lin Youyou.
No matter how entangled Lin Youyou was, how he sued for peace, and how he persecuted, Xu Huanshan unwaveringly just wanted to get rid of her.
He looked at Lin Youyou's eyes not only cold, but also disgust......
Before Gu Jia asked Xu Huanshan to go home and confront him, Xu Huanshan shook off Lin Youyou at that moment, as if he was getting rid of a filthy thing.
Why?
In any case, it is also the person I liked, why did he abandon it at that moment?
essence
Here we have to understand one thing:
Extramarital affairs, although they are also a kind of feelings, can it be the same as ordinary feelings?
It must be different.
Except that they cannot see the light and are not recognized by the world.
What's more, extramarital affairs, the starting point is very low, a little good feeling, a little desire, a little touch can start the relationship.
And because the starting point is too low, there are very few things that can be brought to each other.
Does Xu Huanshan have love for Lin?
I've always thought it was just a little bit of a liking.
Although Lin Youyou is young and beautiful, he has just graduated from college, and he has no strengths except for being lonely and brave.
Such a girl is like Pepsi on the shelf, everywhere and nothing special.
If Xu Huanshan, as the general manager of the company, was unmarried, he would never consider falling in love with a low-level employee like Lin Youyou.
Because the value is too low.
But at the moment, Xu Huanshan is married, and a better choice is not his turn.
And Lin Youyou, the understanding, tolerance and understanding of Xu Huanshan shown in the early stage attracted him very much.
Like what:
She felt sorry for Xu Huanshan that she couldn't eat dinner, and thought that Gu Jia's views were too alarmist;
For example, she supports Xu Huanshan to play ball, thinking that people should live freely;
She also supports Xu Huanshan's dream of blue fireworks, and thinks that it is a great thing to realize her dream......
She discovered all the thoughts and wishes that Xu Huanshan had precipitated in her heart, making Xu Huanshan feel supported, affirmed, and understood.
In front of Lin Youyou, he doesn't have to hide his true thoughts, he can live a real life.
This is Xu Huanshan's wanton and comfortable from the heart that he can't get in his family and Gu Jia.
He knew that Gu Jia's restriction of his behavior was for his good and for the good of his family, but these "for your good" could not resolve the grievances in his heart and his yearning for doing whatever he wanted.
This point that he lacked in his marriage was understood and supported, and it was made up for here by Lin Youyou, allowing him to find a sense of existence outside the family.
In other words, Lin Youyou's existence only supplemented Xu Huanshan's lack.
At this point, the nature of the affair is exposed---- the relationship is merely complementary.
Yes, extramarital affairs are just supplements, supplementing the bite of your greed and supplementing the desires of your heart.
Since it is a supplement, it is not necessary or the center of gravity.
So you can throw it away at any time.
That's the truth.
benefit
If Lin Youyou brought Xu Huanshan a supplement outside of normal life.
So what Gu Jia brought to Xu Huanshan was a down-to-earth quality of life and vital interests.
Xu Huanshan is the CEO of the fireworks company;
Xu Huanshan lived in a mansion;
Xu Huanshan's fireworks company continues to make profits;
Xu Huanshan can live in this world as a successful person;
Xu Huanshan's son was able to attend a noble kindergarten;
It can't be said that Xu Huanshan has no contribution, but at least Gu Jia has supported 50%.
On this point, you probably will not have any objections.
Gu Jia is beautiful and decent, and she also has a lot of pattern and wisdom.
Teach her husband and children at home, outwit Mrs. Wang outside, and join the wife circle to constantly strive for opportunities and interests for the company.
And the ultimate beneficiary is still Xu Huanshan.
Xu Huanshan knew it.
So all the contact with Lin Youyou is sneaky.
Therefore, even if there is a gentle township in the sinking forest, the family will come first.
So when Lin Youyou forced to the door of his house and threatened the stability of his family, he would not hesitate to give up Lin Youyou.
There may be more emotional elements for Gu Jia.
But more because Gu Jia can bring him more benefits, affect his quality of life, affect his social status, social reputation, and even Gu Jia can directly make him lose a harmonious and happy family.
And Lin Youyou can neither be his help in his career, nor ensure his quality of life, so that he has no worries.
What Lin Youyou can give him is nothing but practical, I love you.
Which is more important, Xu Huanshan knew it from the beginning, and the moment he was discovered, he was even more remorseful.
Therefore, these are the truths that Lin Youyou was abandoned by Xu Huanshan.
It is not necessary in his life, nor can it add value to his life.
However, Lin Youyou couldn't see clearly, she was entangled in the emotions of love and dislove and couldn't get out.
The more knowledgeable "Lin Youyou" can't see clearly.
I always thought that love could surpass everything, I always thought that I was more special than the original match, and I always thought that if I worked harder, I could get this man.
I always think that my love and my deep affection are unique.
always thought that the man in front of him would be a hero who came to pick her up on colorful auspicious clouds.
As everyone knows, a married man will only become a turtle with a shrunken head in the face of the mistress's forced palace......
Just look at Xu Huanshan kneeling and crying bitterly, begging Gu Jia to forgive him and help him solve Lin Youyou together.
Therefore, extramarital affairs are just a reasonable excuse for a man's greed under the cloak of affection.
Men are left and right, and they are satisfied.
And women, try and hurt.