Tomorrow is Laba Festival, we rural people,
The most idle time is the wax moon and the first month, but because the wax moon is over, it is the Spring Festival.
Therefore, since ancient times, there have been many rules about the wax moon, the most important of which are the four things, so which are the four things?
The first is that you can't build a house, which is probably the rule set by our northerners, because in winter we are here, it is cold and snowy.
The frozen land is also hard, if you want to dig the foundation at this time, it can't dig too deep at all, since the foundation can't be solid, then there is no point in building this house!
And then the Chinese New Year is coming soon, everyone is buying New Year's goods, and no one will be willing to build a house for you for your three melons and two dates.
Second, it is not to get married in the month of Layue. In ancient times, it was the woman who paid the dowry to get married, and the man did not spend the money.
Now, the man is giving the woman a bride price, and it's not a small amount! This doesn't include the money for the wedding banquet.
So, I don't get married in the month of La, because the money is almost spent, what do you call it to buy New Year's goods, and the New Year is not good!
The third thing is not to quarrel, you know, whether it is a quarrel between husband and wife, between neighbors, or between friends!
This is going to be a holiday, and the most taboo is swear words and unlucky words, otherwise, nothing will go well in the coming year.
Speaking of this, I remembered that there was an old man in our village, as long as he entered the Layue Gate, he went to his house to borrow money and borrow things, it was impossible.
At first, I thought his family was too stingy, but later I learned that this is a rule that people abide by the old man's stay, as the saying goes, if you owe money for the New Year, you don't owe money for the New Year! Otherwise, the financial luck of the year will be affected.
Although there is no way to study these sayings left to us by the older generation, they are actually people's yearning for a better life.
Then we are in the Layue Gate, say more good things, don't say bad things, look forward to welcoming the New Year, I wish you all good health, everything goes well! I am Daming, let's see you next time!