In this materialistic society, many people will think that the beginning of a person's decline is first manifested in an empty wallet and a poor life. However, in fact, when a person really goes downhill, the difficulty of economic conditions is only on the surface, mainly because there is a problem in the person's inner state.
So, what are the inner manifestations of a person's downward slope? Through my years of life observation and perception, it can be mainly boiled down to the following three things:
First, often complain about others and the environment.
Complaining is the norm for losers. A person who often complains, his attention is always focused on the shortcomings of others and the environment, and he loses the motivation to change himself. He will feel that this is not good, that is unsatisfactory, he is very pitiful, and all he encounters are bad people and bad things. Over time, he gradually lost his confidence in doing things and the judgment of universal values, and finally collapsed and went downhill.
Therefore, we must avoid becoming a person who complains about the long and the short, when we encounter unsatisfactory people and things, we must learn to find our own reasons, reflect on our own shortcomings, learn to empathize with the hardships of others, understand the helplessness of life, and face the ups and downs of life with a positive and enterprising attitude, instead of always complaining about others and the environment.
Second, often avoid problems.
It is inevitable that there will be some headaches in life. A person who goes downhill is always accustomed to avoiding problems and is unwilling to face and solve them. For example, in the face of financial difficulties, he will not find a way to open up sources and reduce expenditure, but avoid the demands of creditors; when he encounters family conflicts, he does not communicate and coordinate, but just drinks and plays cards.
The consequence of this is that there will be more and more problems, and the pressure will be overwhelming, and eventually the problems will be overwhelmed. Therefore, no matter whether we are facing a big problem or a small problem, we must learn to face it squarely and find a way to solve it. Even if it is not solved at the moment, we must persevere in finding a way and must not escape from reality.
Third, the oath is often corrupted.
A person who does what he says is trustworthy, and a person who often breaks his word is destined to be difficult to succeed. Because it is difficult for others to believe in his promises, it is difficult to establish long-term cooperation with him.
In the same way, if a person always sets a flag for himself but repeatedly falls behind, then his self-control and willpower are declining. For example, quitting smoking and drinking have failed, there is no way to control diet, and the study plan has been abandoned halfway...... It is difficult for such a person to achieve anything in any career.
Therefore, when we set a flag, we must carefully consider whether we can do it, and if we can't do it, we should not make up our minds easily. Since the flag has been set, we must always adhere to it and never give up halfway. Only in this way can we become a respectable person.
The beginning of a person's downward journey is not an empty wallet, but these three things: often complaining about others and the environment, often avoiding problems, and often ruining vows. Therefore, we must always be vigilant and check ourselves, and do not develop the above wrong ways of thinking and behavior habits, so as to avoid a slump and go downhill in life.
So, let's always be vigilant and don't do these three things too often. At the same time, we should actively seek change and strive to overcome our shortcomings and shortcomings. It is only through continuous learning and growth that we can make ourselves stronger and more confident so that we can better face life's challenges and opportunities.
Remember, life won't always be smooth sailing, but as long as we have a positive mindset and the right actions, we can definitely overcome difficulties and meet a better future!