It's human nature to have desires
Human beings are creatures full of desires, the yearning for food, the desire for wealth, the pursuit of love, these desires are everywhere and throughout our lives. Whether it's as small as wanting to eat a chocolate or as big as pursuing a successful career, desire is human. Therefore, having desire is not a sign of shame, on the contrary, it shows our love and pursuit of life.
Fake restraint on desire
However, in the real world, people often pretend to restrain their desires. In the workplace, we may hide our desire for promotion, while in social situations, we may pretend to be dismissive of fame and fortune. This kind of feigned restraint actually stems from the shame of desire and the influence of social attitudes. People's innermost desires are often bound in a state of "pretending to be B", making it difficult to express their true selves.
The contradiction between desire and society
Societal traditions often believe that desire needs to be restrained and contained, and that it is seen as a source of evil and a threat to morality and ethics. Therefore, in the social arena, people tend to cover their desires in various ways to conform to social expectations and norms. This kind of external "beautiful image" often conceals the true desires in the depths of the heart, which further aggravates the contradiction between the individual and society.
The positive side of desire
However, desire does not have to be a negative existence. Appropriate desires can stimulate people's motivation to pursue a better life, promote social progress and individual growth. For example, the thirst for knowledge motivates people to keep learning and improving, the pursuit of love motivates people to love life, and the desire for success motivates people to make unremitting efforts. Therefore, the positive side of desire cannot be ignored, and it adds color and motivation to people's lives.
Why don't get lost in the path of pretending
However, getting lost on the path of pretending will only make the heart more confused and painful. If everyone completely lets go of the shame of their desires and is honest about their needs and desires, society will also be more tolerant and tolerant. In the process of pursuing desires, we will get closer to the true needs of our hearts and make our lives shine more brightly.
Showing weakness is really strength
Finally, let's remember that showing weakness is really strong. When we dare to be honest with our inner desires and needs, we can unleash our full potential and burst out with true strength. Therefore, do not be afraid of desires, and do not get lost in the path of pretending, but face your inner desires calmly, so that you can find your true self and show true strength.