The ancients said: "At the end of the road, you will meet nobles, and you will come hungry to eat." ”
In this life, although it is better to seek others than to seek oneself, manpower is sometimes exhausted, and it is indispensable to need the help of others.
But the heavens will not drop the pie in vain, and the person who pulls you is also because he can see your raised hand.
Whoever you are, you can meet.
When you gradually have these three signs in you, then there will really be noble people coming to you.
Acting gradually and reliably
Writer Li Xiaoyi once met two interns.
The first person has excellent ability, but after taking up the post, he was dismissed before even the internship period expired.
Because although she usually boasts about herself, she is sloppy in her work, has a low eye, and always makes mistakes in small things.
Some simple tasks are disliked and unwilling to do, and some complex tasks cannot be done.
The documents to be handed in are always delayed to the end, and there are still many errors in them. So the company's colleagues are not used to her.
On the other hand, another intern, although he usually doesn't talk much, no matter what he does, he will prepare in advance and check carefully.
When I encounter something that I don't know, I will also solicit opinions in a down-to-earth manner.
This down-to-earth and meticulous style made the old employees in the company willing to teach her, work with her, and finally successfully stand out.
Writer Liu Yong said: "We must do things at the 'root', and we should also become a person with action and reliability." ”
In this world, there are many smart people, but there are very few reliable people.
Because smart people can always find shortcuts, while reliable people can only take one step at a time.
But if the enterprise does not stand, the crosser will not work.
Although he stands tall on tiptoe, he cannot stand steadily, and although he walks fast with great strides, he cannot go far.
Reliable people, although they go slowly, can bear things and stand the test.
In life, only by being sincere, meticulous, and not perfunctory, can you get others to rest assured of you.
Let people rest assured that they can accumulate luck for their lives and attract nobles who are willing to help.
So from today on, work more seriously, act more meticulously, make yourself excellent, make yourself reliable, so that you can seize the opportunity when it comes.
Know altruism in everything
There's an interesting crab law in psychology:
Put the crab in the bamboo basket, and if there is only one, it will crawl out if you don't close the lid.
If there is a group, don't cover it.
Because the crabs that are about to climb out of the mouth of the bamboo basket will be dragged down by the crabs that follow behind, and so on, none of them can get out.
There are many such people in life, who can't see the good of others, and always act carefully.
As everyone knows, if you only care about yourself, you will be like a crab and you will not be able to do well.
As the saying goes: "The wise man sets up the stage and crosses others to cross himself; the strong man makes up for the Taiwan and benefits others and himself; and the weak dismantle the platform and harm others and himself." ”
When a person is open-minded and knows how to give and altruism, he will also make his own path smoother and smoother.
Once upon a time, there was a general who had a wise and resourceful advisor under his command, who helped him win many battles.
A confidant reminded the general to do his best to keep the advisor by his side, but when he met with the emperor once, he gave a part of his credit to the advisor, helping him get a reward and become a governor of the governing side.
After receiving the reward, although the advisor can no longer serve under the general, he will cooperate with the march and logistics, and settle the troubles of the court for him.
Because of these, the general has a lot less worries and more energy to deal with bandits.
As he continued to make achievements, the general was soon made a marquis by the emperor and guarded one side.
The ancients said: "A gentleman and a noble man despise himself, and he comes first before himself." ”
This is to say that a wise person will see himself clearly, he will value others, and he will think of others before himself.
But what you do to others, they will do to you.
Altruism in everything seems to be paving the way for others, but afterwards, there are better people to build bridges for you.
Therefore, Lao Tzu said: "With its selflessness, it can become its selfishness." ”
Those who are humble and indisputable are more likely to lead;
People who think about others will eventually achieve themselves.
He has always been kind-hearted
Near a community in Changsha, Hunan, there is a well-known good people multi-rice noodle shop.
The boss, Liu Guoxing, used to be a painter, loyal and enthusiastic, and whenever the neighbor had something, he would help without saying a word.
In 2008, Liu Guoxing was unfortunately laid off, and under the help of an eldest sister in the community, he was ready to open a rice noodle shop.
However, at the beginning of the store, it ran into trouble.
The rent of the store is 4,000, but Liu Guoxing can't pay a penny.
When the eldest sister learned about it, she didn't say anything, and directly took out 2,000 yuan to support him, and other residents who had been favored by him also lent a helping hand.
This 100, that 200, this one sent pots and pans, and that one who donated a pan helped him open this shop.
In this way, under the crowdfunding, the store was opened, but it encountered another problem.
Liu Guoxing had never cooked rice noodles before, and the taste was extremely average, and many people were reluctant to come again after coming once.
So there was another old man who often taught Liu Guoxing how to cook soup and how to mix sauce when no one was around, which made the shop more and more popular.
Thanks to the help of these people, Liu Guoxing changed the name of the store to Good People Duomi Noodles Shop, implying that there are many good people in this society, and often help some poor people to eat noodles for free.
As everyone knows, the kindness he encountered came from his kindness.
The ancients said: "Gold is not a treasure book, everything is empty, good is not empty." ”
In this life, no one can escape cause and effect.
A person of good character will do his best to help others when they are in trouble, and will lend a helping hand in time when others are in trouble.
It is precisely because of these that we can be recognized by others, so that we can meet noble people in the process of constantly helping others and help ourselves.
Therefore, the "Book of Rites" says: "Those who are virtuous will also be gained." ”
In the upright conduct, there is not only luck, but also a "nobleman", which is the best blessing in your life.
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The ancients said: "Mountains and rivers are not enough, the emphasis is on meeting nobles." ”
Life is difficult, and it is a great luck to meet the help of three or two nobles.
However, whether you can really meet a noble person depends on your own efforts and your own shining point.
Every word and line you make will invisibly affect your destiny and attract some people to come close to you.