"If those two words hadn't trembled, I wouldn't have found me uncomfortable;"
"No matter how you say it, it's just a breakup..."
- Ten Years
As a classic love song in the past, the popularity of "Ten Years" is not high.
To this day, it is still a resonance in the emotional world of countless people.
As soon as the prelude of the song sounds, the defense line in the listener's heart will immediately collapse, and countless emotional stories will begin to flow gently with the music.
Many people may have been curious about what the "two words" in this song are.
Some say it's "break up", some say "goodbye", others say "okay" and "hello".
But no matter what it is, it is undeniable that the sad emotion in the song is vividly interpreted by Eason Chan.
In the blink of an eye, "Ten Years" has been with us for twenty-one years.
From our student days to our current experience in society, we have learned a lot.
And this is the charm of music, and Eason Chan's interpretive power to "turn decay into magic" in music.
Whether it is love, family or friendship, he can always use the most ordinary lyrics to incite the deepest compassion in people's hearts.
Just like another of his songs -
"The King of Karaoke"!
Speaking of which, as the "last king" of the HK music scene, Eason Chan took Cantopop music to new heights, and was once hailed as "Jacky Cheung's successor".
However, after singing for so many years, he has always shown a low-key image.
Especially about his family, it is rarely mentioned to the public.
But just recently, Eason Chan's daughter suddenly became a hot topic of public opinion-
It turned out that some media found that Eason Chan will be on a national tour, and his wife Xu Haoying and daughter Chen Kangdi (nicknamed "Baobao") will come to the scene.
The mother and daughter stood in the audience and listened carefully to Eason Chan's singing, cheering and cheering for him...
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It is true that as the only daughter of Eason Chan, Chen Kangdi has always attracted the attention of netizens.
After 19 years of careful training, everyone finally has the opportunity to see her style...
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As we all know, there are many second-generation stars in the entertainment industry, but most of them will be complained by netizens that they are "ugly than their parents".
However, Chen Kangdi is an outlier.
She has perfectly inherited the excellent genes of her parents, and it can be said that "the blue is better than the blue".
As early as May last year, actor Yu Wenle posted a photo with Chen Kangdi on social platforms.
As an adult, she was slim.
has long black hair, a standard appearance, and a dignified demeanor, and her appearance is no worse than other actresses in the circle.
In addition, Chen Kangdi's height of 1.7 meters is also eye-catching, and even the media praised her as comparable to the international supermodel "Liu Wen".
At Eason Chan's recent concert, many photos and videos of her were leaked on the Internet.
19-year-old Chen Kangdi jumped off the stage to the rhythm of the music, and simply regarded his father who sang on stage as an "idol".
After the performance, Eason Chan's family of three gathered backstage to take a group photo, and it can be seen that they have a very good relationship with each other.
Even, some fans photographed Chen Kanti happily jumping on his father Eason Chan, and the two hugged tightly, and their joy was beyond words.
The father-daughter relationship mode is like a fight between good friends, warm and loving.
I have to admit that such a family atmosphere is really enviable...
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Many people are puzzled about Chen Kandy's growth experience:
On the one hand, there is a "trendy" mother who is frequently searched, and on the other hand, a sad father who is ridiculed for "having a hairline against the sky", how did she grow like this?
Perhaps, the key to this answer lies in family education...
3 Under the hurried footage of the outside world, it is not difficult for us to find that Chen Kanti's face is always filled with a bright smile.
She's like a vibrant, thriving girl.
And all this is thanks to the deep love from my parents -
Fans who know Eason Chan know that he likes to be funny very much.
But in fact, he is not "crazy" in real life, but very responsible and responsible.
In terms of family education, Eason Chan has shown a scientific approach.
That is to maintain enough respect and understanding for your daughter.
He never asked his daughter to follow a particular path, but allowed her to live happily and herself.
In front of his daughter, Eason Chan once said very "boldly":
"You don't have to listen to me too much, and you don't have to let anyone tell you how you should face the world and how you should live. ”
So much so that when the news of "early love" came out of his daughter's study, he was unmoved.
Perhaps, this is the reason why Chen Kandy still jumps on his father and hugs him tightly when he grows up.
It is only with this open family atmosphere and inclusive attitude that the relationship between children and their parents can be so stable.
And a child who grows up with the respect of his parents will undoubtedly become a freer and more confident person...
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In addition to respect, Eason Chan's way of getting along with his daughter is also "special".
For example, he once shared a matter of "fighting for a bed" with his daughter-
At that time, Chen Kanti was still young, and he was always noisy at night, wanting to sleep next to his mother.
But Eason Chan also wants to sleep with his wife because he wants a second child.
So, he lay on the other side of the bed and let his daughter say nothing and leave.
Chen Kanti was so anxious that he cried, and Eason Chan did the same and began to "pretend to cry".
Seeing his father's sudden move, Chen Kandy also froze and stopped crying.
Then, Eason Chan ran away childishly, and came back after a while, grabbing his daughter's hand and apologizing to her.
The daughter also turned around and hugged her father tightly.
In this way, not only did the two not have conflicts, but their relationship became better.
One thing to say, this kind of getting along with children in the same capacity not only seems friendly, but also can set up a mirror for children to recognize themselves.
Compared with stereotyped and old-fashioned "preaching", it is often simpler and more effective.
Know that a qualified parent will get along with the child as a "partner".
not authority, but equality;
There is no contempt, only respect;
After all, it is only when children feel that they are loved that they will develop excellent qualities such as "self-esteem, self-confidence, and self-reliance"...
4 I've heard the saying:
"Love and respect are the best gifts parents can give their children..."
In fact, there are many celebrity families in the entertainment industry, and the way they get along with their children is like this.
For example, actor Sun Yizhou, who played "Lu Ziqiao" in the hit drama "Love Apartment".
In the play, he is a playboy.
But outside the play, he is a down-to-earth and responsible good man.
Sun Yizhou and his wife Cao Xiaowen fell in love in college, officially married 7 years later, and gave birth to a daughter.
After becoming a father, Sun Yizhou has been working hard to "communicate with his daughter on an equal footing" and become her most reliable spiritual support.
In his opinion, the companionship of parents is the best love for children.
However, accompaniment is also divided into "effective accompaniment" and "ineffective accompaniment".
Sun Yizhou believes that when playing with children, there must be interaction, otherwise it is ineffective companionship.
Therefore, he never plays with his mobile phone when he is with his children.
In addition, Sun Yizhou, like Eason Chan, will accompany his daughter's growth as a "child".
For his daughter, he is not only a father, but also a "best friend".
As it goes in a certain book:
"Children are friends who come to make their parents grow up. ”
Looking at these rare harmonious families, parents who can raise their children culturally and morally very well have something in common -
Materially, to give the best conditions to the children, whether it is a boy or a girl, is 'rich';
In terms of education, we respect and support children's choices and create space for children to develop freely;
In life, give the warmest companionship to cultivate children's self-esteem, self-confidence, and self-reliance;
In the family relationship, the husband and wife are affectionate and harmonious, giving the children the greatest sense of security;
Especially as a father, he needs to lead by example.
Only by sticking to the principle of doing things and being a person can we become the light that guides children on the way forward.