Ng was born into a family of top doctors in Hong Kong, her father was the head of the intensive care department of Hong Kong's second-ranked hospital, and her mother was also an internal medicine specialist. Ng Chi-hang has lived a carefree life since she was a child, and her parents have high hopes for her, hoping that she will inherit the family business and become an excellent medical scientist in the future.
Under the careful cultivation and teaching of his parents, Wu Zhiheng has shown excellent learning ability and talent since he was a child. She has a docile and obedient personality, elegant manners, and polite and thoughtful treatment, which has been unanimously praised by teachers and classmates. In primary and secondary schools, Wu Zhiheng has always maintained excellent academic performance and has achieved good results in many academic competitions.
These achievements and honors made her parents feel extremely happy and proud.
They often said to Wu Zhiheng earnestly, "If we study hard, we will definitely be able to be admitted to the world-class Oxford University in the future and realize our dream of studying abroad." ”
At the age of 16, Wu Zhiheng was still a slightly immature little girl. At that age when she was looking forward to the future, she was shopping on the street with a group of friends who were also full of youth, when she was suddenly discovered by a talent scout from a modeling agency. At that time, the scout found this handsome girl in the crowd, so he took the initiative to step forward, handed over his business card, and invited her to audition for the company.
Faced with such an opportunity, Wu Zhiheng did not hesitate at all, decisively accepted the invitation of the scout, and decided to try this profession full of unknowns and challenges.
Wu Zhiheng didn't pay much attention to it when she heard that the company needed an interview at first, and even refused her friend's invitation, but under the persuasion of her friend, she decided to go to the company with the mentality of giving it a try. Unexpectedly, she performed well in the interview, easily passed the audition, and got the opportunity to sign a contract with the company as a graphic model, which surprised and surprised her.
In the face of Wu Zhiheng's decision to enter the entertainment industry, Wu Zhiheng's parents resolutely objected. They believe that the entertainment industry is a chaotic place, with all kinds of entanglements of interests, open and secret fights, scandals, etc., which make people fearful. Wu Zhiheng's parents strongly oppose her entry into the entertainment industry, believing that such an environment will have a great negative impact on her physical and mental health.
However, Wu Zhiheng is full of firm belief and firm confidence in herself deep down, she doesn't want to just live according to her parents' plan, she hopes to try to develop her career and pursue what she really likes.
Fearing that his parents would object, Ng decided to seek his friends' opinions before confessing his thoughts to his parents. With the encouragement and support of her friends, Wu Zhiheng finally mustered up the courage to tell her parents that she had decided to put her studies on hold for the time being and sign a contract to become a professional model.
One day in 2000, Wu Zhiheng, who was in the prime of his youth, and Guo Yongchun, a 2-year-old rich second-generation man, met by chance in the church, and the two gradually became familiar from strangers. At that time, Kwok had just graduated from Harvard University in the United States and returned to Hong Kong, starting a new life and preparing to take over the family business. Wu Zhiheng, on the other hand, is an ordinary girl with an introverted personality, but she is kind-hearted and full of enthusiasm and hope for life.
He was born in Hong Kong to a prominent family with a strong family background, and his grandfather was a wealthy Hong Kong businessman with a high reputation and status in the business world. With his business acumen and courage, he founded a large department store that expanded its business to the whole of Asia, amassing a net worth of billions.
Kwok Wing-chun is a handsome and handsome Hong Kong celebrity, he is not only an erudite talent, but also a versatile young man. He often attends various important occasions and is deeply loved by many Hong Kong celebrities, and can be said to be the dream lover of many Hong Kong celebrities. One day, Guo Yongchun came to the church alone, and when he saw Wu Zhiheng for the first time, he was attracted by her temperament and appearance, and that kind of beauty made him unable to take his eyes off it for a long time.
At this time, Guo Yongchun had already noticed Wu Zhiheng's figure, and Wu Zhiheng also sensitively captured Guo Yongchun's gaze. Under the focus of everyone's eyes, Guo Yongchun took the initiative to step forward and greeted Wu Zhiheng with a smile, and the eyes of the two instantly met and had a strong impression of each other.
After this, Guo Yongchun began to passionately pursue Wu Zhiheng. He often gave her flowers at the place where she worked or at the door of her house, and sometimes even some expensive luxuries, such as jewelry, designer bags, and so on. Guo Yongchun will often invite Wu Zhiheng to dinner and prepare exquisite dinners for her. He also drove Wu Zhiheng to and from work many times, and took her on trips and took her to try some interesting things.
During the trip, Guo Yongchun always promised to take her to experience the customs of various countries and let her feel the beauty and culture of different places, and this series of actions made Wu Zhiheng gradually develop a good impression of Guo Yongchun.
Wu Zhiheng had never experienced such a passionate pursuit, she was bewildered by Guo Yongchun's rhetoric and romantic offensive, and gradually her reason was defeated, her judgment also failed, and she willingly accepted Guo Yongchun's pursuit, and the two soon fell in love.
Ng Chi-hang's parents, after learning that she was dating Kwok, were very strongly opposed to the relationship, because Kwok's cynicism and reputation had long been widely spread abroad. However, Wu Zhiheng did not listen to the advice of her parents, she desperately believed that Guo Yongchun was her true love, in order to be able to be with Guo Yongchun, she even chose to give up her dream, and left her parents and no longer had any contact with them.
Couples in love want to be together every day, and it seems that there are endless words to say and things to do. They always walk the streets arm in arm, or quietly enjoy each other's company in a café, immersed in happiness and joy. It was an unforgettable time when they knew and loved each other, and it was as if the whole world had become a better place.
In 2000, Wu Zhiheng and Guo Yongchun entered the palace of marriage, and the union of the two was regarded as a pair of golden boys and girls. After marriage, Wu Zhiheng took the initiative to give up his career in order to take better care of her husband and became a traditional full-time housewife. In order to provide her husband with a comfortable and warm home, she carefully prepares every meal and takes care of Guo Yongchun's daily life meticulously.
Wu Zhiheng once firmly believed that as long as he gave enough, his husband would change his mind and regain love and recognition for himself.
However, Guo Yongchun's personality is cynical, he is dissatisfied with being controlled by his wife, Guo Yongchun's daily life is very indulgent, he takes pleasure in the company during the day, often drinks and has fun, and at night, he often goes outside to spend all day drinking, often does not return all night, and lives a very casual life. When he rarely went home, he didn't have any interest in the home-cooked meals prepared by Wu Zhiheng, he always returned to his room after eating in a hurry, and never kept a moment with Wu Zhiheng at the table.
He always kept a certain distance from Wu Zhiheng, which made Wu Zhiheng feel very lonely and helpless.
Wu Zhiheng stayed in the empty home day after day, often looking out the door, hoping for her husband's early return. But her husband Guo Yongchun would come back every day, and every time he came back, he would not make any intimate gestures to her, and he would not even give her a chance to speak, which made her feel very painful. Whenever Guo Yongchun appeared, he would only nod to her coldly, and then do his own thing, making Wu Zhiheng feel as if he had no place in his heart.
She felt as uncomfortable as a knife in her heart, and she couldn't accept the fact that she couldn't accept it. She never imagined that her husband would be so indifferent to her.
In order to make their relationship more stable, Wu Zhiheng began to work hard to learn how to make various dishes, hoping to use his cooking skills to touch Guo Yongchun's heart. She found a very famous teacher to teach her many cooking skills, and she listened very carefully in every class, trying to understand every point of the teacher's teaching, and trying to memorize these skills as much as possible.
In her spare time, she also spends a lot of time in the kitchen practicing various dishes, constantly trying new spices and ingredients, and in order to be able to make better dishes, she will even try local cuisines to absorb and learn from the advantages.
After Guo Yongchun returned home, Wu Zhiheng happily busied in the kitchen, carefully preparing a sumptuous dinner. She opted for candlelit decorations to make the table warm and romantic. However, when Guo Yongchun came to the restaurant, his eyes revealed an expression of exhaustion and impatience. He ate a few bites hastily, then put down the dishes and chopsticks in his hand, and left the restaurant by himself, not caring about Wu Zhiheng's careful preparation.
In the face of her husband's indifference, Wu Zhiheng felt very painful and sad. She clearly knows that the relationship between the two has deteriorated and can no longer return to the sweetness of being in love. Wu Zhiheng burst into tears, she didn't understand why she still couldn't get a warm look from her husband after she had paid so much.
After her marriage, she felt extremely depressed and hopeless, and she gradually collapsed.
One day, Guo Yongchun unintentionally said to Wu Zhiheng at the dinner table: "Have you gained weight recently?" Although this sentence seemed inadvertent, it became the last straw that crushed Wu Zhiheng.
She was originally upset by her husband's neglect, and this sentence touched a sore spot in her heart and made her stunned.
Since that day, Wu Zhiheng has embarked on a crazy diet to lose weight, hoping to make herself slimmer and more attractive through this method, so as to gain her husband's favor. She only eats some vegetables and fruits every day, and refrains herself from looking at any high-calorie foods.
Wu Zhiheng will exercise every day, including treadmill, yoga and other exercises, and even do sit-ups and other movements day and night, hoping to reduce the fat on his body through these ways.
Relying only on dieting and exercise, Wu Zhiheng felt that the weight loss rate was not fast enough, so she began to take various weight loss drugs. Regardless of the side effects of the drug, she took a lot of weight loss pills, drank meal replacement shakes, and frequently performed warm body shaping, liposuction and other operations.
Under the intervention of various means, Wu Zhiheng's weight dropped sharply, and he lost more than ten pounds in a month.
However, the thinner Wu Zhiheng is, the more insecure he is. She believes that she is still far from her ideal figure, and in order to win Guo Yongchun's love again, she must lose more weight.
Wu Zhiheng locked himself in the room, did not eat anything for several days, did not drink a drop of water, and only relied on nutrient solution to maintain his life. Her body became thinner and thinner, her skin lost its elasticity and luster, and her whole person looked haggard and withered.
In the end, Wu Zhiheng's weight plummeted to 44 pounds, close to a 6 or 7-year-old child. Her body didn't have any extra flesh, only skin and bones, and her sickly appearance was chilling.
Even so, Guo Yongchun still dislikes her figure and is not good enough, and he is not distressed by her efforts. Wu Zhiheng cried in despair, his body and mind had collapsed, and he couldn't support it anymore.
In 2006, Wu Zhiheng took the initiative to separate from Guo Yongchun under long-term mental depression. Two years later, the two officially agreed to divorce. Although Ng Chi-hang eventually escaped a painful marriage, the trauma of losing love brought her life to a halt.
Soon after the divorce, Guo Yongchun entered the marriage hall with another actress, as if he had completely forgotten his ex-wife Wu Zhiheng and began to live an indulgent life.
However, Wu Zhiheng now lives alone in the house they once lived in, relying only on soft food and nutrient solutions to sustain his life every day.
The long-term overeating caused Ng Zhiheng's physical function to gradually decline, and she suffered from a large number of tooth loss and thinning hair, and her physical condition could no longer support her image as an elegant model.
She became emaciated, emaciated, and depressed all day. Wu Zhiheng, who was alone, felt lonely and lost like never before, and she didn't know where to go.
At this time, Wu Zhiheng's parents once again stood up to provide her assistance. They are willing to spend all their savings to pay for their daughter's high medical bills and get her to be treated in the hospital. Under the meticulous care of his parents, Wu Zhiheng's physical condition finally improved.
But she can't go back to the way she used to be, and she has to learn to adapt to a new life.
Wu Zhiheng's experience is a wake-up call for us, and it also gives us a lot of inspiration.
First of all, we should not easily give up our ideals and careers for the sake of love. For example, Wu Zhiheng could have been admitted to Oxford to fulfill her parents' dream of studying abroad, but she abandoned all this and finally paid a terrible price.
We must cherish and stick to our life plan, and we must not let love dominate our minds.
Secondly, it should be noted that it is necessary to identify unhealthy relationships, Guo Yongchun's domestic violence has foreshadowed the failure of their marriage, but Wu Zhiheng did not break off this relationship in time.
We need to seriously consider whether the other person is sincere or not to prevent a tragic marriage.
In addition, women should not be overly dependent on men. Wu Zhiheng gave up his career and taught his husband and children full-time, but he did not get the rewards he deserved. In modern society, women should pursue financial independence instead of losing themselves for love.
Finally, we all need to learn to love ourselves instead of trying to please others. Wu Zhiheng's experience is very painful, and her self-destructive behavior is worth pondering. The premise of loving someone is to love yourself, which is the foundation of maintaining a healthy relationship.
Life is short, and we need to value our time and body and mind. Ng Chi Heng's lesson reminds us to cherish life and not sacrifice ourselves for unworthy people and things.
I look forward to the new journey of life, we can all find our own happiness.