In elementary school, her life was full of calm and comfort. In such an environment, although her family is not wealthy, her family has always loved her very much, allowing her to live a carefree life. However, after she entered high school, her family environment gradually became difficult for various reasons. However, despite the decline in her living conditions, she still has her own unique character and charm, which has become a sight to behold in the school.
One day, she met a boy named Xiao Ming at school, Xiao Ming was a handsome and cheerful boy, he quickly attracted her attention, they began to chat and study together often, and gradually she found that she had a crush on Xiao Ming.
In 1991, on that winter day with biting cold winds and snowflakes, an ordinary rural family in a small county town in Anhui Province happily ushered in the birth of a new life. She is our heroine, named Chen Wanzhi. However, just as the whole family is basking in the joy of a new life, a harsh reality forces them to make a difficult decision.
Due to the very difficult economic conditions of the family at that time, they could not take on the responsibility of raising a new life and taking care of the elderly at the same time, Chen Wanzhi's parents had to leave their hometown and go out to work to make money when Chen Wanzhi was still an infant, and handed over the young Chen Wanzhi to the care of his elderly grandparents.
Growing up in a poor environment, Chen Wanzhi has experienced the hardships and hardships of life since she was a child. Her family has always been in a state of poverty, and her daily meals can only be based on porridge, and almost all the clothes she wears are made of patches and sewn up. This hardship in life makes Chen Wanzhi attach great importance to material needs, and she hopes that she can get more material wealth through her own efforts and change the living conditions of her family.
However, in such a living environment, Chen Wanzhi did not have the opportunity to contact more material resources, and children of her age always carried candy in their hands, while Chen Wanzhi always had nothing in her hands, which made her feel very distressed and inferior.
Chen Wanzhi did not complain about how unfair her life situation was in front of others, but chose to bear it silently, turn these negative energies into her own motivation, and work more actively to face every challenge in life.
Although Wanzhi's previous campus life was not satisfactory, under the favor of God, she began to change when she was in junior high school. The originally thin body gradually grew and became a fair lady, and her bright face also made her known to everyone on campus.
The reputation of "school flower" instantly spread to every corner of the campus, Chen Wanzhi was immersed in this unprecedented attention, like a star, she finally experienced a trace of hard-won happiness.
However, things did not go as Chen Wanzhi wanted. As soon as high school started, the Chen family suffered a great change. Under such a family change, Chen Wanzhi no longer had the intention of studying, so he had to give up his studies and seek a livelihood. In 2009, she came to a large factory and started the life of an assembly line worker.
At this time, Chen Wanzhi is standing on the street lined with high-rise buildings, she is a designer, and she is busy with life every day. She is also a girl who is full of love for life and can face life with a smile at all times. In such a fast-paced city, she met many people and experienced many things, but she never found the one who could make her heart move.
Until one day, she met Hu Jianguo here, an ordinary and ordinary boy, but his eyes made Chen Wanzhi's heart ripple.
As time passed, Chen Wanzhi's body became more and more plump, and his weight grew from 80 pounds to 260 pounds. And her husband Hu Jianguo loves her current appearance even more, he feels that this kind of Chen Wanzhi is more charming and charming, and it is also more in line with the image of the perfect wife in his mind. Chen Wanzhi also gradually understood Hu Jianguo's intentions, and realized that she finally got a hard-won happiness, she understood that all this was because of Hu Jianguo's love and concern for her, and she felt very happy and satisfied that she could get such a beautiful love.
"I'm afraid she'll be snatched away"
In the face of his girlfriend, he has always been the person who is full of confidence and fearless, but now, he is a little uneasy, afraid that she will be snatched away.
The two fell in love shortly after. Chen Wanzhi enjoyed Hu Jianguo's care all day long, and no longer went out to work. Hu Jianguo still took good care of her, let her eat and drink, and soon her weight broke through the 300-kilogram mark and reached 330 kilograms.
Due to her plump size, Chen Wanzhi will face some inconveniences in her daily life. For example, she often needs to change to a bigger bed when sleeping at home, because her weight prevents her from getting a comfortable rest in a smaller bed. Similarly, the only way to go out is to take a battery car, because the seats on the bus may not be able to fully support her weight.
However, even in such a situation, Hu Jianguo has never expressed any dissatisfaction with Chen Wanzhi's physical condition, on the contrary, he likes Chen Wanzhi very much, and is very concerned about her joys, sorrows, and sorrows, he knows that Chen Wanzhi loves to eat, so he often buys some food she likes to make her eat happily, in his opinion, Chen Wanzhi's physical condition does not affect his love and concern for her, he will always be by her side, support her, and encourage her.
Just when the two were about to enter the marriage hall, Hu Jianguo's mother resolutely opposed the marriage. This mother's ideology is more traditional, and she has high requirements for her future daughter-in-law, especially the other party's size. Because in her opinion, if her daughter-in-law's figure is too bloated, it will bring a lot of unnecessary troubles to the family. First of all, she was worried that the daughter-in-law would not be able to pass on the family lineage to her son, which had always been a traditional belief in their family.
Secondly, she is also afraid that her daughter-in-law's obesity will cause many health problems and bring more financial burden to their family, so in order to avoid such a situation, she firmly opposes her son's marriage.
When Hu Jianguo listened to his mother's words, he felt very angry and disappointed, and even threatened to go on a hunger strike to express his dissatisfaction and protest. The mother finally reluctantly relented under his threat, but the relationship between mother and son was greatly hurt as a result.
After marriage, Hu Jianguo's care and care for Chen Wanzhi did not decrease because of the constraints of marriage. Whenever someone asked him why he indulged his wife in overeating, he would always reply earnestly: "I know her hardships very well, she has suffered too much in her life, I just hope that she can eat delicious food happily and no longer worry about her livelihood, this is my greatest concern and love for her." ”
What I like is her character and interior, and I don't care about her figure. Whether she's slim or plump, she's unique in my heart.
The deep sincerity contained in these words moved everyone present. Chen Wanzhi is also very grateful to her husband for his sincerity and has never blamed him. She deeply knows that her husband is really good to her, even if her body is gradually getting fat, which has brought some hidden dangers to her health, she is still willing to bear this burden, just to keep this rare love.
Losing weight is a long process and a challenge that requires effort and patience. In order to achieve the desired weight loss results, it is necessary to persistently adhere to the methods and habits of weight loss. Adhering to diet control, physical activity, and good lifestyle habits are the keys to successful weight loss. In the process of losing weight, you need to have faith in yourself and believe that you can reach your goals.
At the same time, you need to pay attention to maintaining physical and mental health, avoid excessive dieting, excessive exercise and other unhealthy weight loss methodsIn the process of losing weight, you also need to constantly adjust your mentality, overcome the difficulties and setbacks in the process of weight loss, adhere to the weight loss plan, and finally achieve the desired weight loss effect.
However, when she wanted to have a baby, the test results made her unbelievable – severe obesity was already a threat to her health, and she had to lose weight as soon as possible.
With the encouragement and support of her doctor and family, Chen Wanzhi made up her mind and began the long road to losing weight. For a person who is used to eating and drinking more, it is very difficult to suddenly reduce the amount of food they eat each day to one-third of their original amount. In the middle of the night, Chen Wanzhi was often awakened by hunger, and she felt that she couldn't bear it anymore, but she still endured it and told herself to persevere, after all, it was an effort for her health and beauty.
Hu Jianguo looked at his wife's haggard face, and couldn't help but feel distressed, but he also understood that this was a helpless choice, because their family had fallen into crisis.
After his marriage with Hu Jianguo was exposed to the public eye, Chen Wanzhi gradually gained the attention and understanding of the outside world. Later, a TV show found Chen Wanzhi, hoping to invite her to talk about her experience. So, Chen Wanzhi agreed without hesitation and told the story of himself and Hu Jianguo.
In the show, Chen Wanzhi sincerely thanked Hu Jianguo for his love and tolerance over the years, allowing her to be supported and warmed in the ups and downs of her marriage. Chen Wanzhi said that it was precisely because of Hu Jianguo's existence that she was able to bravely face her life and marriage, and gradually found her own happiness.
After the program was broadcast, Chen Wanzhi's image and story received widespread attention and recognition. Not only that, Chen Wanzhi also opened a weight loss sharing account on the Internet to share his experience and experience with the majority of weight loss enthusiasts. She hopes that through her story, she can inspire more people to bravely pursue their dreams and happiness, and make the world a better place.
She hopes that her experience will inspire more people who are overly obese to embark on a healthy life path.
In the early stage of weight loss, Chen Wanzhi often gave up halfway, but Hu Jianguo was always patiently by her side, teaching her various fitness methods and formulating a reasonable diet plan.
He kept reminding her to take care of how to prevent rebound and gain weight, and to pay special attention to protecting areas that are prone to injury, such as her knees.
Under Hu Jianguo's careful care, Chen Wanzhi successfully lost weight, and currently weighs about 200 pounds. Although she has not yet regained her former figure, she is not discouraged and continues to lose weight with hope.
Chen Wanzhi expressed her gratitude to the people who loved her all the time by her side, which made her not lose her way on the road to weight loss.
It is the husband and wife who support each other that make difficulties possible. Chen Wanzhi is well aware of the importance of physical health, but the idea of excessive pursuit of body should also be avoided.
She hopes that her experience will help more people find balance in their lives.
Cherish your body and avoid going to extremes.
Chen Wanzhi's life experience has taught us a vivid lesson, that is, we should always cherish our physical health and not blindly pursue the so-called "perfect" body.
In this world, we are interdependent with family, friends, and colleagues. When they are in trouble, we need to pay more attention to their mental health and physical condition, and give them patient listening and understanding.
It is inevitable that you will encounter unsatisfactory things in life, and you must face them positively, and you can't rely on overeating to vent your emotions, which will only pile up more problems. When a loved one or friend develops a bad eating habit, we should be patient and persuade them to overcome difficulties together, not like them.
Healthy living requires moderation, which requires us to be vigilant and develop good habits. At the same time, we need to learn to accept and appreciate ourselves, and avoid having an inferiority complex because of too much pursuit of standards.
Cherishing life, staying away from extremes, and pursuing our own balance and colorful life requires us to encourage and support each other. As long as you have hope and persist in working hard, you will definitely be able to live a happy and beautiful life.