Recently, a news about the bride price of a blind date has sparked heated discussions on social media. According to reports, a woman made a shocking request on a blind date: asking the man to pay a huge bride price of 280,000. However, shockingly, when the boy refused to pay this sky-high bride price, the woman not only turned away, but also demanded that the boy return the gift she had given earlier. This story has sparked public thinking and discussion about the values of blind dates.
Blind dates have always been a way for people to find love, but in recent years, there have been some blind date incidents that have aroused everyone's attention and thinking. The 280,000 bride price incident is one of them.
According to reports, the woman made an incredible request when she went on a blind date: she asked the man to pay a bride price of 280,000. The boy expressed his concern and dissatisfaction with this request, believing that such a bride price seemed too monetary and did not meet the original intention of their blind date.
However, what is even more surprising is that when the boy resolutely refused to pay the sky-high bride price, the woman turned around and left, and demanded that the boy return the gift she had given earlier. This kind of behavior that completely ignores the feelings of the other party has aroused public concern about the moral concept and the role of matchmakers in the blind date process.
In this case, we can see that the woman's pursuit of the bride price has deviated from the original intention. Blind date should be a way to get to know and get in touch with each other, not a money transaction. If a blind date is turned into a negotiation process, it will undoubtedly be disappointing and hesitant.
The material-oriented concept of kinship also conflicts with the values of modern society. Nowadays, people are more focused on matching the emotional and spiritual levels, rather than just the material conditions. Therefore, the pursuit of a large bride price can no longer meet the needs of the present generation.
Blind date itself is a process of equality and respect, and boys and girls need to be aware of each other's worth and dignity while communicating with each other. If one of the parties is too demanding on the bride price, the whole blind date process will lose its original meaning.
Of course, bride price, as a traditional custom, is still recognized and accepted in some regions and families. However, we should also realize that blind date is not only a marriage relationship between families, but also a major life event that requires mutual understanding and support.
Due to the exposure of this incident, the public's attention to blind date and thinking about the concept of bride price have also been improved to a certain extent. I believe that in the future blind date process, more and more attention will be paid to individual needs and equal communication.
In this case, although the boy did not achieve his goal, he always adhered to his principles and did not follow the crowd. This attitude of rejecting money transactions is worthy of our reference and affirmation.