It's a long road, and we're all looking for people or things that make us happy, but many times, looking for it, it's cold, miserable, and miserable. The reason is that the wind, frost, rain and snow in the outside world have disturbed our Yaxing, it is the resignation of people who have hurt our sincerity, it is the difficulty of realizing our desire that has cooled our fiery hearts, and the ruthless play of fate has made us always taste sadness and pain in the ups and downs.
For us, happiness is like the bright moon on the horizon, which is unattainable. When we are too concerned about the feelings brought to us by unexpected objects, happiness will be impossible to find, and it will be difficult to find money.
It's just that when we learn to deal with it calmly, learn to forget the past, learn to slow down, learn to focus on ourselves, learn to understand ourselves, learn to be content, and learn to find joy and poetry in the tedious life, happiness will be like an uninvited elf, using magic to give us a happy and bright mood and happiness.
It turns out that happiness has never gone far, it is hidden deep in the hearts of each of us, each of us can learn to make ourselves happy, we can learn to have the ability and ability to make ourselves happy. It's just that if you want to learn to make yourself happy, you must first understand yourself.
Nietzsche once said, "The hardest stage of life is not that no one understands you, but that you don't understand yourself." ”
To understand oneself is to understand one's own strengths and weaknesses, one's own interests and hobbies, and one's own pursuits and ideals. In a tedious and heavy life, learn to listen to yourself, learn to accept yourself, and learn to adjust yourself.
Growing up, each of us is like a unique and innate rare flower, with a unique fragrance and color, and a unique life habit and preferences. Only when we find out whether we are sunny or yin-loving, cold-tolerant or drought-tolerant, can we create a favorable growth environment for ourselves as much as possible, stay away from things we don't like, and work hard in the direction that is suitable for our own growth, so that this rare flower and plant that belongs to us can get the best nourishment, so that we can grow luxuriantly, and let us bloom the most beautiful flowers and show the most beautiful smiles from the depths of our hearts.
In fact, it has always been very simple to coax ourselves to be happy, what suits us is the best, let us feel comfortable physically and mentally from the inside out, when we stay away from those people and things that bother us, avoid those troubles and risks that we think may exist, go to see the scenery we want to see, to chase the sunshine and rain we want, health, peace, happiness and joy will always haunt us, bringing us infinite beauty and happiness.
Our life is long and short, we come to the world, come to space, space, space. Fame and fortune are far less precious and rare than health and peace for us. When we learn to be content and happy, we can find poetry and happiness, happiness and happiness under limited conditions. When we learn to do what we can and do our best, gains and losses, merit and fame are no longer important, what matters is the process of life experience, and the important thing is the scenery and perception along the way.
Learning to make yourself happy is not only an ability, but also a choice for a wise life. May each of us be able to
For the rest of my life, take advantage of the right time, take advantage of my youth, read myself, please myself, accept myself, coax myself, and let every ordinary day be happy and not sorrowful, and live a poetic happy and bright day.