It's too late to be seriously young
You can only choose to grow old seriously
There is no turning back in the first half of my life, how can I spend the second half of my life to have fewer regrets?
Some people say that in the second half of their lives, they should do their best to catch up and strive to become a successful person, while others say that in the second half of their lives, they should give full play to their surplus energy and prove themselves to everyone. And I want to say that you don't have to pursue too much in the second half of your life, and it is more important than anything else to live a good life and let yourself live well.
As Sanmao said: "I don't have time to be seriously young, so I can only choose to age seriously." ”
In the first half of my life, I was always too entangled in gains and losses, too obsessed with what I couldn't get, and I was often very tired of living.
Time flies, time flies, and you always have to be kind to yourself in the second half of your life.
In this short journey, you can live as comfortable as you want, and you can be with whoever you are happy with.
You don't have to deliberately please anyone, and you don't need to force yourself to deal with one occasion after another.
As the saying goes, if the heart is quiet, it will be clear, and if the heart is clear, it will be clear.
Many times, tiredness is often due to being too obsessed with success and failure, and too much about gaining and losing. In the second half of your life, if you want to have a stable and stable happiness, you must abandon unnecessary distractions, throw away unnecessary entanglements, and have the courage to be the most authentic self.
The road ahead will not become smooth due to gains and losses, but along the way to maintain the purity and simplicity of the mind, you can always walk more easily and freely.
As Wang Guozhen said:
"It's not that we have too much suffering, it's that our minds are not open enough, it's not that we have too little happiness, it's that we don't know how to live yet. ”
Life is a life, grass and trees are autumn.
The first half of life is too hurried, so you miss many good things in life, and the road in the second half of your life should be regarded as a trip rather than a racetrack, and you care about the scenery along the way, not the final destination.
The so-called slowing down and going with your heart is not to get by, not to forge ahead, but to others and yourself, not to be harsh, not to force, even if there are more ups and downs along the way, do not lose that love.
In the first half of my life, I did too many stupid things that went against my heart, when I was willful enough, I experienced a lot, and I should understand that there is only one life, and I have to live for myself, and in the future, all the joys, sorrows, and sorrows should be chosen by myself.
In the second half of his life, no matter what kind of difficulties he encounters, he must face them with a beautiful mood and an indifferent attitude, and turn trivial and ordinary days into poetry.