The recently popular actress is none other than her - Xin Zhilei.
In the hit drama "Flowers", Xin Zhilei under the lens of Wong Kar-wai broke into the sight of the whole network beautifully and rampantly.
Her makeup is exquisite, she smiles, all show dignified and elegant, and her powerful aura makes people see the beauty of the times, just like a person who came out of a pictorial.
On the other hand, in the variety show "Flower Less 5", Sister Lei's cold temperament unexpectedly began to leave home 30,000 miles-
In order to save money, I chose to ride a bicycle to the meeting point, and finally arrived at the destination, but I forgot to lock the car, resulting in being ridden by others for an extra 10 kilometers, and I chose to pay backwards between saving money and spending money;
Along the way, you either lose your bag, lose your luggage, or lose your mobile phone;
has no baggage, and does not hide his desire for food (no wonder when filming a scene of eating mutton hot pot in "Flowers", Wong Kar-wai once reminded Sister Lei: "You are here to talk about business, not to eat......");
I also contributed a lot of emojis!
Unexpectedly, Xin Zhilei has frequently become the source of jokes in the show, and was laughed at by netizens as "the collapse of the personality", and properly "wear the most beautiful skirt and lose the most ruthless person"!
This huge contrast made even Xin Zhilei herself worried, for fear that everyone would be able to see the play.
Many people fell in love with such a big, straightforward and cute, and sometimes a little reckless Xin Zhilei, and she even went so bluntly that many stars in the entertainment industry expressed their desire without hesitation when they were competing to create a "light as a chrysanthemum" character: "I want to be popular." ”
In fact, behind Xin Zhilei's huge contrast, there is a period of difficult growth experience......
Xin Zhilei's story begins in a remote mountain village in Hegang, northeast China, where she once described the embarrassment of the time when there was no electricity at home and she had to live by lighting candles.
Xin Zhilei is the eldest daughter, and has a brother and a sister. In order to support the family, his parents worked outside the home all year round.
Before the age of seven, Xin Zhilei had been living with her grandfather, although the life was simple and compact, but the care of the two old people filled her loneliness, allowing her to find unique happiness in ordinary days and nights.
Xin Zhilei once said that in her memory, her grandmother's house was as beautiful as heaven, even when she grew up, the small flowers in her grandmother's yard and the stream in the village would often appear in her dreams, "The mountains are full of fruit trees, pears, apricots, strawberries, the river is very clear, the sand is very fine, and when you step on it, they will emerge from the toes......"
The winter in the Northeast is particularly cold, the snow is particularly thick, and the silver-covered village seems to be forgotten by the outside world as soon as it arrives in the cold winter, but in that white expanse, the sun sets, there is always a warm smoke of cooking smoke...... "Grandma used to be a member of the art troupe, holding me and singing a little song, grandpa, turning around in front of the mirror with his back."
Although the two old people do not have a high degree of education, they have always respected the child's personality, so that Xin Zhilei can grow up in encouragement and affirmation, and they will fully support what their granddaughter likes and is persistent. Xin Zhilei once said, "I was very influenced by my grandfather. Since I was a child, he thought that my granddaughter was a character and praised me for being smart and capable. I asked him what was going on, and he always said, "My granddaughter, there's nothing wrong with it, go." He made me feel like I could do anything. ”
The power of language is great, and encouragement is an indispensable and powerful motivation for children to grow up, and it is an important support for children to explore the world and move towards the future.
Although she can only wear old clothes often, she dreams of becoming a fashion designer when she grows up, wearing all kinds of beautiful clothes she designs every day.
When she reached the age of elementary school, Xin Zhilei returned to her parents, and the family of five lived together in a small house. As the eldest sister, when other children of the same age were still enjoying the love of their parents, she had begun to work and study part-time to help her parents share the family's expenses.
During the holidays of junior high school, she worked in a restaurant to earn money and handed it over to her family, and her parents not only praised her for being "very serious", but also framed the salary table as an encouragement to their daughter.
That feeling of encouragement has become the source of motivation for her to work hard, and she is sincerely satisfied to be able to hold an umbrella for her family.
Because she grew up with the encouragement of her family since she was a child, Xin Zhilei is very assertive in everything she does, and rarely lets her family worry about it. Xin Zhilei, who is diligent and intelligent, was also admitted to the Fashion Design College with her excellent achievements after the college entrance examination.
But at that time, she failed to start moving towards the realization of her life ideals like film and television dramas, and her real life was surrounded by cold winds.
In her junior year, Xin Zhilei's father was unexpectedly paralyzed, the pillars of the family collapsed, and the already poor family economic conditions plummeted.
Family is more important than anything else, so Xin Zhilei, who is getting closer and closer to her dream, decided to stop chasing her dream, began to work hard to support her family, and worked hard with her mother to support the family.
Later, when he was working on a TV station, he met Donnie Yen's agent, and was selected to shoot an advertisement by mistake, and later dropped out of the fashion design major and broke into the entertainment industry in a daze.
Many years later, Xin Zhilei recalled: The purpose at that time was very simple, she could not bear living expenses and tuition fees, and she could also earn money to support her family and treat her father's illness.
But for newcomers with no background and no connections, the road to the entertainment industry is not easy, and before a better opportunity, the grandfather who grew up with Xin Zhilei was diagnosed with liver cancer.
Later, my uncle took my grandfather to Beijing University Hospital to see a doctor, it was the first time my grandfather went to Beijing, Xin Zhilei took my grandfather to the Great Wall and Tiananmen Square, and specially took out all the money from the card, arranged accommodation in the courtyard, and planned to take my grandfather to eat authentic Peking duck.
But at that time, there was still a period of time before Xin Zhilei had filming, and grandpa understood that his granddaughter had difficulties wandering outside, not only did he move from the courtyard house to a small hotel, but he was reluctant to order food even in the restaurant, and he also sandwiched the only piece of meat into Xin Zhilei's bowl, just like when he was a child, looking at her: "You eat, grandpa is full."
At that time, Xin Zhilei was heartbroken when she looked at the thin old man in front of her who was full of vicissitudes of life......
Slowly, with the rise of the Internet, my father was bedridden all the year round due to paralysis, and his life was boring and boring, and he wanted to use a computer to surf the Internet and chat with other family members. However, due to the shyness of her pocket, Xin Zhilei failed to fulfill her father's wish.
Although her father smiled and said that it was okay, Xin Zhilei blamed herself very much.
After that, Xin Zhilei began to film desperately, in order to protect her family, she gave birth to an indestructible shell and stubbornly fought for it.
She has never shied away from her desire for money and fame, because she needs money too much, she wants to take her grandfather to have a good meal, buy a computer for her father, and buy new clothes for her mother's younger siblings......
Father and grandfather died one after another before Xin Zhilei became famous, and her father's computer and grandfather's roast duck became her lifelong regret.
Xin Zhilei said that she would "burn a computer made of paper" for her father every year, but in her heart, no matter how many paper computers were burned at the memorial service, those pains and regrets could not be cured......
All kinds of experiences have also made Xin Zhilei gradually understand to cherish the present and grasp the present. Whether it is career or life, she will seize every opportunity and leave no regrets.
Today, she is still fully committed to her work and making life a better life for her family. And home will always be a warm harbor for Xin Zhilei to release pressure and find herself. Go back to the place where you have your mother, close the curtains, hug your cat, and listen to the sound of your mother's fish in the living room...... The small fortune of life is nothing more than that.
Although Xin Zhilei in the plot is always arrogant and cold, in reality, she shows her softness to the people closest to her. She has become no longer subtle and will express her love to her mother, and such a change in her daughter has also brought her mother, and in the process of healing each other, the hearts of mother and daughter are getting closer and closer......
The healing of family affection is a kind of energy transfer, which can make both parties become better versions of themselves.
Xin Zhilei's life experience is full of ups and downs and inspiration, everything she has experienced has shaped her strong heart and unique views on life, she has a simple wish, chewed and swallowed the bitterness of the past, and lived a rich mentality.
In fact, Xin Zhilei is like you and me, like countless children from ordinary families, hoping that she can be promoted and raised to give her family a better life.
And the story of her and her family also gives every parent a deep inspiration - the education of the family and the power of family affection will always shine brightly and illuminate the children's life path!
Source: TV series "Flowers", variety show "Flowers and Youth", "Sanlian Life Weekly" interview "Xin Zhilei: Ambitious", talk show "Star-Moon Dialogue", "Starry Sky Speech", Tencent Video, etc
Editor: Mei Yan Yiren
Review: Wu Wenqian