Today, I discussed a philosophical issue with my husband at home, and we have some small conflicts in our relationship and family relationship, and sometimes it is inevitable that we will have a dispute.
My name is Wang Hui, and my husband's name is Zhang Tao. We've been married for seven years and we've always had a good relationship. My husband's salary is not high, he only gets 4,000 yuan a month, and we have always lived very frugally.
As a result, one day, my husband suddenly bought a set of brand-name clothes for 3,000 yuan and gave it to me, saying that he wanted to surprise me.
At that time, I was very happy and felt that my husband was very considerate. But then I learned the truth, and I felt a little embarrassed and overwhelmed.
I think it's a bit irrational to do that, and besides, I feel like I'm losing face. My husband and I have always valued frugality and financial management, and I think he is too irrational this time.
He thinks I'm narrow-minded, and I don't think he's mature enough on the subject. We are very stubborn and refuse to give in for a moment.
Our arguments went on for several days, and the atmosphere in the house became very dull. During this time, I felt more deeply that he would no longer rub his shoulders and legs in front of me, and give me vegetables.
There are always some disputes, haven't we all survived all these years, and I believe this time will pass.
However, I always have a grudge in my heart that these contradictions must be resolved through communication and compromise after all. For the sake of our relationship and family, I hope that we can settle the conflict during this time as soon as possible.
Now, there are some cracks in the relationship between me and my husband, and I don't know what to do. Let's hope everything goes smoothly.
The atmosphere in our house has been tense during this time, because the last quarrel has not completely subsided, and another thing happened that made me very angry.
One night, I found an unfamiliar lipstick while washing the dishes. I asked my husband who it was, and he said that it was a Wife's Day gift from the unit.
However, in the next few days, I found that he always had many excuses not to take me to his unit for dinner, and he always had to work overtime.
These days, I'm in a very low mood. I've been wondering what the hell is wrong with us. We trust and understand each other.
I don't know what to do. I need time to calm down and sort out my thoughts.
I hope that we can resolve this conflict as soon as possible and regain trust and understanding with each other. Hopefully everything will be fine.
Hopefully, our problems will be solved.
It didn't take long for our family to fall into a new conflict. The reason for this time was that my mother came to stay with us for a while.
She is always Xi to me doing housework, and she will do everything in her husband's house. I found it difficult to take care of my mother's emotions and maintain a stable relationship with my husband on the one hand.
May everything be resolved satisfactorily.