Ma Su is a post-80s girl, her family is not very wealthy, but her parents are very far-sighted and courageous, when she was a child, they took her and her brother to the capital to work hard.
In life, Ma Su is very diligent and hardworking, and she firmly believes that as long as she is willing to pay, she will be able to achieve her dreams.
In Beijing, Ma Su's parents worked hard to take care of Ma Su and her brother while working. In this process, Ma Su knew that life was not easy since she was a child, and she knew that she had to work harder to make her parents live a better life. Thus, at a very young age, she showed a love and talent for art.
In order to realize his dream of stardom, Ma Su has been working hard. When she was still very young, she participated in many art training courses, and also participated in many literary and artistic activities at school, exercising her acting skills and expressiveness. As time went by, Ma Su's acting skills got better and better, and she also began to play some supporting roles in some movies and TV series, accumulating some acting experience.
In 2001, Ma Su was finally admitted to the acting major of Beijing Film Academy. In the process of studying Xi at Beijing Film Academy, Ma Su not only Xi learned a lot of professional knowledge and skills, but also met many like-minded friends, who had a profound impact on her later development.
Ma Su has always maintained his love for acting courses in school, and has worked hard in the process of learning Xi, understanding and interpreting every role with his heart, and looking forward to showing his best side on the screen in the future. After graduating, Ma Su entered the entertainment industry very smoothly and began her acting career.
In the beginning, her family was not wealthy and she did not have a network background, which made it difficult for her to get opportunities in the entertainment industry. As a result, she had to start with some inconspicuous roles, looking forward to being appreciated by directors and producers, so as to get more acting opportunities. In the process, she has experienced many setbacks and difficulties, but she has persevered and constantly honed her acting skills and acting skills, hoping to be seen and recognized by more people.
At the same time, Kong Linghui grew up in a table tennis family, and showed amazing table tennis talent under the influence of his father since he was a child. His father is the coach of the provincial table tennis team, so Kong Linghui can be said to have grown up in a strong table tennis atmosphere. This also gave him a unique understanding and love for table tennis, and he soon made a name for himself in local table tennis competitions.
Kong Linghui's outstanding performance also attracted the attention of the Chinese table tennis national team, he successfully entered the provincial team, and gradually emerged in later training and competitions During the training of the provincial team, Kong Linghui received more professional guidance and training, and his table tennis skills were further improved After entering the national team, Kong Linghui began to represent China in various international competitions, and his performance in the game also attracted much attention.
In 2003, at a chance party, Ma Su was a fledgling and met Kong Linghui, who had a brilliant career, with expectations for the future. At this time, Kong Linghui was already a high-profile world-class table tennis player. The two met and got to know each other at this party, and since then they have begun an unforgettable love journey.
Perhaps, they seem to be separated from each other, and there is a subtle connection between them, although this connection has not been discovered, but they see the possibility in their eyes.
Kong Linghui began to look for opportunities to contact Ma Su, and after the party, he took the initiative to ask for Ma Su's contact information. In the days that followed, he kept sending messages to Ma Su and greeting her, caring about her life and work. He expressed his hope to get to know Ma Su more deeply and become closer friends with her.
Ma Su was initially surprised when she was pursued by Kong Linghui, but she gradually realized Kong Linghui's sincerity and persistence, so she was attracted by his sincerity and sincerity.
Love came quietly in this way, took root in their hearts, and slowly blossomed and bore fruit in the baptism of time. As time went on, the relationship between the two grew closer and closer, and finally sparks collided. They realized that they were pleasantly surprised and blessed by the fact that they had a deep attraction and affection for each other. Their hearts are filled with love and passion, and they decide to start a new chapter in their lives together.
After Kong Linghui and Ma Su confirmed their relationship, Kong Linghui's care and care for Ma Su went to a higher level. He will always pay attention to Ma Su's work and filming progress, and personally drive Ma Su when he has time, and even take the initiative to visit the class to send Ma Su his care and companionship. If Ma Su encounters physical discomfort at work, Kong Linghui will also send various nutrition and supplements as soon as possible, and even take care of Ma Su himself, so that Ma Su can feel his meticulous care and care.
At the beginning, Ma Su was not very accustomed to Kong Linghui's excessive hospitality to herself, but as time went by, she gradually discovered Kong Linghui's sincere feelings for herself in her heart. Ma Su also gradually let go of the mustard in his heart, and began to carefully prepare the hometown taste that Kong Linghui likes to eat when he was dating. Every time Kong Linghui comes home, he always sees a table of hometown dishes, which makes him feel extremely warm and happy.
He knew that all this was prepared for him by Ma Su.
They wander the streets and alleys of the city, feel the hustle and bustle of the city, and sometimes go to TDC to watch some movies or concerts to enjoy the fun of entertainment together. They will share the bits and pieces of life together, share each other's joys and sorrows, help each other, and grow together. Kong Linghui also often takes Ma Su home to have dinner with his family, feeling the warmth of home and the strong family affection, so that Ma Su can feel the happiness and harmony of his family.
Since 2006, the lovers have started their cohabitation life, sharing the sweetness and sorrow of life together, and letting their love slowly sublimate in ordinary days, transforming into small blessings in life, full of sweetness and surprises. The first thing they see when they wake up in the morning is each other, and at night they fall asleep together and feel the peace of mind that comes with safety.
After Ma Su and Kong Linghui's relationship was exposed, their careers also rose, and Ma Su began to emerge in the entertainment industry, because she met Kong Linghui after meeting many big-name stars in the entertainment industry, and with the help of each other, she got more performance opportunities. With her excellent acting skills, Ma Su performed well in her first role as the heroine, won the love of the audience, and also won many awards, becoming a household name actress.
Kong Linghui once again showed his strength and talent in the 2007 World Table Tennis Championships, winning the championship, which is not only his personal glory, but also brings honor to the Chinese table tennis team again. The success of the two in their careers has also been widely followed by the media and has become a good story in the entertainment industry.
However, the long-distance relationship of gathering less and leaving more has buried some uncertain hidden dangers in the relationship between the two.
In the past few years, actor Ma Su has been working hard for his acting career, and he has been busy carrying out various filming and publicity work outside. Due to their busy work, she and her lover Kong Linghui are often unable to get together in the same city, resulting in fewer and fewer communication opportunities between them. At the same time, as an excellent table tennis player, Kong Linghui also needs to often go out to compete, participate in training camps, and even travel to various international competitions around the world, so it is difficult for him to maintain stable companionship with Ma Su in his daily life.
This state of life left both Ma Su and Kong Linghui feeling a little tired and confused, and they began to gradually realize that if they did not take some positive actions to improve their relationship, then their relationship was likely to break down.
Gradually, some small frictions began to appear in the lives of the two, because Ma Su wanted to be able to maintain a stable relationship, what she needed was a real care, but Kong Linghui had a deeper desire in his heart, he wanted a deeper relationship, he wanted to go further with Ma Su, however, this idea was not understood and supported by Ma Su.
As a result, the differences between the two sides grew.
In 2010, Ma Su was photographed by the media with other male actors, which caused a lot of controversy and speculation. Although Ma Su clarified that it was a work need, and it was just a photo taken with other actors, it left a problem in Kong Linghui's heart. A crackin gradually appeared in the relationship between the two people, which eventually led to a breakup.
On November 4, 2011, Ma Su's birthday, Kong Linghui failed to rush back because of training, and did not prepare gifts, the two quarreled, Ma Su left angrily, and the 11-year relationship came to an end.
Since the two broke up, both of them have fallen into a deep loneliness, and this state has lasted for a long time, which makes both people very depressed. Kong Linghui could only use alcohol to dispel his sorrows at this time, and numb his soul through alcohol, but this method could not solve the pain in his heart. Ma Su has become preoccupied all day long, losing the cheerful and lively smile she used to have, and her daily life is busy with work, using work to numb her mind and alleviate the pain in her heart.
And the bits and pieces of the past two people linger in their minds, but everything has become a foregone conclusion, and their feelings cannot be irretrievable.
After the breakup, Kong Linghui has an incurable heartache hidden behind his successful career. Although he serves as the head coach of the Chinese women's table tennis, he often feels depressed and has problems with his physical condition, and he is no longer as heroic as before.
According to reports, Kong Linghui now looks unkempt and haggard. Although he can help others, his feelings are irretrievable, and this regret has always haunted him.
Ma Su suffered a major setback in his career. In order to help her friends, she did not hesitate to oppose the public, but as a result, she was subjected to cyberbullying, and her career fell to the bottom, and it was difficult to turn over. For this reason, she began to frequent the bar, hoping to forget the pain of the past in the drunken gold fan.
Today, both of them are still single, but they can't get back together. Because misunderstandings and trauma have formed an insurmountable gulf between them, they can only keep in touch occasionally as friends. The sweet time of their year has passed with the wind, and it can no longer be recovered.
They passed by in the sea of people, and each of them walked alone, looking into the distance, and their hearts were full of regrets.
The story of Ma Su and Kong Linghui makes us deeply reflect: the relationship needs to be managed by both parties with heart, and cannot be caused by the negligence of one party.
After the passion wears off, the relationship needs to be maintained through inclusion, understanding and good communication. Even if you get together less and leave more, you need to find a way to maintain communication and solve the problems that arise.
Misunderstandings are inevitable in life, but as long as we always face them with the mentality of working together, we will not let problems accumulate into intractable contradictions. At the same time, everyone needs to have their own career and space, and we need to support each other, not be tied up.
Love is like a long-distance journey, and it takes the support of both parties to overcome the obstacles in the journey and finally reach the end. There will be ups and downs during the journey, but as long as you don't forget your original intention, you can go on firmly.
Even if you break up, you must remember the good things that were once and sincerely wish the other party to start a new life. Don't let knots hold you back. The past is in the past, and the future is what we all have to face.
May each of us cherish the fate with important people and write the legendary story of life together, even if the road changes in the future, we still need to be grateful and greetings to bravely move towards the next stage of life.