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The beginning of love
Born in the early 1980s to an ordinary family in Harbin, Heilongjiang Province, Ma Su showed a love for dance and extraordinary talent from an early age. With the encouragement and support of his mother, Ma Su entered the People's Liberation Army Art Academy in Beijing, and successfully completed his training as a professional dancer in just 5 years with his outstanding performance.
However, fate always seems to play tricks on Ma Su. In 1998, at the age of 17, she successfully graduated from the academy, thinking that she could enter the long-cherished military art troupe, but she failed to do so because of the disarmament of the army.
Faced with the dilemma of an uncertain future, Ma Su made up his mind to stay in Beijing and continue to chase his acting dream. With the help of her friends, she began to shoot small commercials and gradually realized her love for acting.
At this time, in 2002, Ma Su met Kong Linghui, a thriving table tennis player, at a party. At the age of 27, Kong Linghui was a well-deserved table tennis superstar, not only dominating the competitive field, but also winning the popularity of female fans.
However, unexpectedly, the always introverted table tennis champion actually met Ma Su here and fell in love with this charming girl at first sight.
With the matchmaking of friends, Kong Linghui finally obtained Ma Su's contact information. Since then, he has begun to pay frequent attention to the hit TV series "Tang Gefei" starring Ma Su, and even watched the full VCD all night.
It can be said that it was Ma Sun's unique charm that deeply attracted Kong Linghui's heart.
Finally, at Liu Guoliang's birthday party, Kong Linghui mustered up the courage to meet Ma Su. Although this first date was not as good as expected, the relationship between the two was able to leap to a new level in this crowded scene.
Subsequently, Kong Linghui began to explore delicious food, frequently invited Ma Su out for dinner, and even during the intense training, he always cared about Ma Su through phone calls and text messages.
Under Kong Linghui's passionate pursuit, Ma Su gradually accepted him, and the two finally entered a sweet and warm love.
The crisis of love
Although Ma Su and Kong Linghui's relationship has caused many questions in the outside world, Kong Linghui still chooses to stand firmly on Ma Su's side and face all kinds of criticism with her.
In this process, Ma Su also gradually established his status in the entertainment industry with his superb acting skills in the hit drama "Tang Gefei".
However, as time went on, the relationship between the two began to crack. As a busy sports star, Kong Linghui is often unable to accompany Ma Su because of work, which leads to frequent arguments between the two.
Once, on Ma Su's birthday, Kong Linghui refused Ma Su's invitation on the grounds of work, and he didn't even prepare a birthday gift, which undoubtedly made Ma Su feel very chilled.
During the dispute, Kong Linghui actually shouted hurtful words like "You can get out now, this is my home" to Ma Su. Ma Su is a woman with a strong sense of self-esteem, and when she heard such words, she immediately angrily picked up her suitcase and left the house.
Although Kong Linghui took the initiative to apologize to Ma Su afterwards, the relationship between the two had already been seriously traumatized.
In order to realize his dream of buying a house in Beijing, Ma Su began to work hard, cut down on food and clothing, and finally got his wish and successfully bought a property worth 2 million yuan in Beijing.
At the moment of moving into the new house, Ma Su resolutely declined Kong Linghui's invitation to stay and spend the night with her new home, which undoubtedly showed that the rift in her relationship with Kong Linghui was difficult to repair.
Since owning her own house, Ma Su has felt extremely happy with the freedom and peace of mind of being alone, and she finally no longer succumbs to Kong Linghui's authority. During the same period, Kong Linghui's world ranking continued to decline year by year, until he announced his retirement in October 2006 and became an unknown coach.
Such a contrast undoubtedly exacerbated the contradiction between the two and brought their relationship to an end.
Ma Su has gradually transformed from a simple campus girl to a professional woman with exquisite faces, and her career is also thriving, while Kong Linghui can only serve as a coach silently.
The end of the relationship
In 2012, Kong Linghui finally took over as the head coach of the women's team of the Chinese table tennis team, and at this time Ma Su was 25 years old and Kong Linghui was also 31 years old.
This refusal undoubtedly made Ma Su feel even more disappointed. In the past 11 years of getting along, she has been looking forward to being able to go to the last step of marriage with Kong Linghui, but she has repeatedly postponed it because of Kong Linghui's work.
Ma Su began to suspect in his heart that maybe Kong Linghui didn't take himself to heart at all, but just treated her as a dispensable pawn.
It wasn't until 2013 that Ma Su finally publicly admitted that he ended his 11-year relationship with Kong Linghui. When asked by reporters, Ma Su said helplessly: "The reason why we ended our relationship was because we had too little time together to properly handle the daily life of both parties, and I wish him to find a partner who truly cares for him."
Previously, Ma Su had hoped to enter the palace of marriage with Kong Linghui and form a warm family. But Kong Linghui has never been able to put down his career and put his family first.
This difference in perception eventually led to a rift that was difficult for them to repair.
After 11 years of knowing and falling in love, Ma Su has deep disappointment and doubts about love. She began to question whether she had made the right choice and whether she should dedicate all her youth to Kong Linghui.
This reflection on the past has undoubtedly become a wound in her heart that is difficult to heal.
What is the current situation
After an 11-year relationship with Kong Linghui, Ma Su had deep disappointment and doubts about love. However, her life didn't end there, and in 2018, she was overwhelmed by another thing – her notoriety for helping a friend sponsor her.
Ma Su, who had already established a place in the entertainment industry, was now abused and criticized by public opinion because of this incident, and his acting career was also hit hard, and there was no drama to film.
Ma Su, who was full of humiliation in his heart, couldn't understand why he would ruin his hard-built future because of a sentence.
While his career was frustrated, Ma Su's life was also thrown into chaos. The friends in the circle who were originally close gradually moved away from her, and at this time she could only live alone at home, full of helplessness and despair.
Ma Su, who used to bravely chase his dream of acting, is now sleeping in the open and lonely.
Ma Su felt extremely aggrieved, but no one listened to her inner grievances. This series of blows undoubtedly made her confused about life again, and she didn't know where to go next.
She once realized her dream of buying a house in Beijing with her own efforts, but now it all seems to have lost its meaning.
Looking back on his life path, Ma Su couldn't help but feel a lot of emotion. She aspired to be an actress since she was a child, and she emerged in the entertainment industry step by step with her outstanding performance, and she also fell in love with Kong Linghui, a table tennis star who was in the limelight at the time, and seemed to have a worry-free future.
However, fate inadvertently played tricks on her, and the 11-year relationship finally ended without a problem, and one sentence ruined her acting career.
At this moment, Ma Su doesn't know how to face the next life. She once had a double harvest of career and love, but now she is gone, and even her close friends are gradually leaving her.
Ma Su, who spends her days alone at home, occasionally has some familiar faces to visit her, but more often than not, she falls into endless silence and loneliness.